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枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / 要求我老板只把我当一般同事,但是好难过,来此一吐为快。
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-8
{1941}
(#4248369@0)
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完全没你老公什么事,真惨。
-shuaizhenfanren(帅VS率);
2008-2-8
(#4248400@0)
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怎么样留住国女的心是国男的新课题
-makefun(说着玩的);
2008-2-8
(#4248420@0)
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严重同意啊!这老W稍一使劲,这身边的MM就心有旁龇了,兄弟们压力不小啊.
最好的办法:加强自身锻炼,争强自我竞争能力,向W妹们进攻...
-mxinmfei(腰缠万罐);
2008-2-8
{111}
(#4248484@0)
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nnd鬼子们分不清国女的美丑,只要见了他们都想过一下手.看来找个丑老婆都放不下心,防不了身.
-makefun(说着玩的);
2008-2-8
(#4248499@0)
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我很爱美,忍不住explainy-下。CHinese朋友都说我好看。老外女同事说我有CUTE CHINESE FACE,臀部perfect.166cm。
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-8
(#4248625@0)
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额滴神!你老公真衰!
-arfeifei(老顽童);
2008-2-8
(#4248784@0)
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照片登上来才有说服力, 但老外 into weird looking asian girls 是一个公认的事实。。。
-prodigy(Dei Gratia);
2008-2-8
(#4249065@0)
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what is "explainy" ?
-everydaylife(绿茶一杯);
2008-2-8
(#4249134@0)
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可以感觉到你是一个对自己永远感觉非常好的人...有这样的自信也不容易啊.....
-mxinmfei(腰缠万罐);
2008-2-9
{27}
(#4249405@0)
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芙蓉JJ有伴儿了
-famousidkiller(专杀著名ID);
2008-2-10
(#4251037@0)
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what about ur look?
-xiaokeai(notcute);
2008-2-9
(#4249410@0)
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Looks like guys are not the only ones whose brains are controlled by their lower body.
-passingby(have fun);
2008-2-10
(#4251043@0)
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And a "perfect butt" ? This is the first time I see a girl bragging about her butt here. U r shameless!
-passingby(have fun);
2008-2-10
(#4251050@0)
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不管有啥没啥,回家一心一意跟劳工过日子是正道阿。。。
-13yin(13银);
2008-2-10
(#4251056@0)
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她的心偶尔出轨一下, 问题不大, 还会回来的.
-tuyiyi(依依);
2008-2-8
(#4248491@0)
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"偶尔出轨"伤人原气呀!
-makefun(说着玩的);
2008-2-8
(#4248500@0)
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True, I don't want to. But hard to reject temptation. That's why I want to stop.
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-8
(#4248646@0)
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这就应了那句话:男人出轨想回家,女人出轨想离家
-yizhan(易水寒冰);
2008-2-8
(#4248654@0)
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这东西估计防不住,要主动出击,弄到一个够本,弄到两个赚一个!
-heshang(何日太阳);
2008-2-8
(#4248576@0)
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看一看毛驴的文章吧(#4247097@0)
-makefun(说着玩的);
2008-2-8
(#4248413@0)
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I won't have any physical affection with him, what can he get. Why he never told me he loves me.
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-8
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what is physical affection? I wonder with such poor English, you could truly connect with him. so, just stop right there, you simply say No to this man, everything will be fine.
-everydaylife(绿茶一杯);
2008-2-8
(#4249118@0)
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办公室恋情,两个字:玩火
-bmwlife(挪威的森林);
2008-2-8
(#4248447@0)
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你是男的还是女的?还有你老板呢?
-bully2007(2007);
2008-2-8
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Bullshit.
-caa(ChinaEI);
2008-2-8
(#4248480@0)
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Confused situation, do not quite understand. further explanation? We might help you out.
-tuyiyi(依依);
2008-2-8
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me either
-newshoes(小冰壶);
2008-2-8
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你们都想取经?
-makefun(说着玩的);
2008-2-8
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我觉得她的问题是把这个可能发生的AFFAIR看的太SERIOUS了. 她不停地在揣摩对方的心思和感觉. 对方的前进亦或后退,这个MM的心里都会产生巨大波动. 对方进,她会矛盾犹豫, 地方退,她会失落感.因为,女人在感情世界里是容易受到伤害的敏感的感性一方, 既然这样, 就问问自己: 你到底想不想要? 如果发生了,对她的家庭事业没多大影响, 你又实在按捺不住对他的爱慕,整天魂不守舍,那就桶破这层纸,GO AHEAD. 如果对她影响巨大, 就收手算了.
恋爱中的女人最喜欢的事就是去猜对方的心思,把自己折磨的没人样,别人还并不了解.
所以问问自己:你到底想要的什么?make a decision
-tuyiyi(依依);
2008-2-8
{353}
(#4248512@0)
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你咋这么明白呢?
-makefun(说着玩的);
2008-2-8
(#4248517@0)
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I am a relationship coach, do you want me to give you some advice? : )
However, I can not coach myself, I am woman too.
-tuyiyi(依依);
2008-2-8
(#4248532@0)
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人家是经验之谈嘛...
-mxinmfei(腰缠万罐);
2008-2-8
(#4248534@0)
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我没吃过猪肉,还见过猪跑吧. 俺是个爱思考的好孩子
-tuyiyi(依依);
2008-2-8
(#4248543@0)
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估计你一定吃过猪肉,但可能还真没见过猪跑...不信回答下面的问题看看:
1. 小猪跑的时候是在母猪前边跑还是后边跑?
2. 猪跑的时候是几条腿同时着地?
-mxinmfei(腰缠万罐);
2008-2-8
{99}
(#4248551@0)
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小猪前面跑,母猪后面追. 四条腿着地
-tuyiyi(依依);
2008-2-8
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哈哈..露了吧...你试试自己两条腿着地能跑不...?
-mxinmfei(腰缠万罐);
2008-2-8
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Thanks for understanding
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-8
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sigh.. office romance? be professional
-xiaokeai(notcute);
2008-2-8
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只有一点我是看明白了,那就是你已经深深地爱上他了。说什么家庭的责任那只是一层道德的遮羞布,如果现在还没有胆量揭开,就只能玩点心跳了,想玩火就别怕烫,即使被烧成灰也心甘情愿。直到对他的爱消失或转移到另一个新人,就如同对你现在的老公一样毫无兴趣了。
-latencian(等待明天);
2008-2-8
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赶紧提出离婚吧。离婚对你老公起码公平点。
-completemysoul(completemysoul);
2008-2-8
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从文字看,鬼佬收放自如,玩弄中国女性的嫌疑比较大
-completemysoul(completemysoul);
2008-2-8
(#4248516@0)
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人家玩文字,她玩感情
-makefun(说着玩的);
2008-2-8
(#4248519@0)
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I was also wondered. But IF he's playing with me, what can he get. NO bad guys would be like that
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-8
(#4248627@0)
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he can get your "CUTE CHINESE FACE,臀部perfect"
-completemysoul(股票涨了偷着了);
2008-2-8
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NEVER!
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-8
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Then go to love. But cheat is not good for anyone.
-completemysoul(股票涨了偷着乐);
2008-2-8
(#4248665@0)
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Thanks for believe me, not like some other people, think everybody is as dirty as them.
But I also feel sorry for my husband. Have to stop.
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-8
(#4248680@0)
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"Thanks for believe me", you 'd better take some time to improve your English first, then flirt with your colleagues; they actually believe that they may take advantages of you so easily.
-everydaylife(绿茶一杯);
2008-2-8
(#4249129@0)
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I know thanks for understanding, of course I know "believing"
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-9
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.............ouch !
-babyface(★给点儿阳光就灿烂★);
2008-2-9
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Actually it should be "thinking that", you didn't find out thisother obvious mistake.
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-9
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嗯,就是这个理儿,鬼佬男人善于煽情。
-yang588(妩媚灵魂);
2008-2-8
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这位同学, 问题还没这么严重, 人生的一段插曲而已. 人的一辈子很长很长, 也许在你的一段relationship之间会爱上别人. 这是无法控制的, 只要理性的不做出伤害别人的事就很好了.
-tuyiyi(依依);
2008-2-8
(#4248521@0)
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女人的出轨名曰爱情,男人的出轨就叫放荡。某种程度说后者比前者更可原谅
-completemysoul(completemysoul);
2008-2-8
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)))!
-makefun(说着玩的);
2008-2-8
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女人是先爱或者喜欢才性. 男人是不喜欢也可以性. 女人比较感性,比较会陷进去,男人比较理智实际
-tuyiyi(依依);
2008-2-8
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用一个字形容女人最恰当。。。 :)
-completemysoul(completemysoul);
2008-2-8
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用一个字形容 人 最恰当..... : )
-tuyiyi(依依);
2008-2-8
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目的都是一样的,只是过程不一样罢了,不是说条条大路通罗马嘛
-yizhan(易水寒冰);
2008-2-8
(#4248640@0)
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为什么有的就冠冕堂皇,有的就是龌龊,不公平
-yizhan(易水寒冰);
2008-2-8
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你也就在新鞋子不在的时候敢这么叫吧
-win(秋天的菠菜);
2008-2-8
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你老板每顿两个汉堡包,吃腻了。 想换两个狗不理包子尝个鲜
-o.n(魅客老五);
2008-2-8
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lol
-makefun(说着玩的);
2008-2-8
(#4248533@0)
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真损啊你
-tuyiyi(依依);
2008-2-8
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^~*
-o.n(魅客老五);
2008-2-8
(#4248536@0)
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不许侮辱天津包子
-vega_lee(天津包子-就不改);
2008-2-9
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:-)) 这段儿太逗乐.
-6bear6(maple bear);
2008-2-9
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唉!女人这东西,还是收在家里的好,穷就穷点儿吧,放出去麻烦多啊!又想贪双职工的收入又想老婆如玉般洁白干净,不可能啊不可能!
-heshang(何日太阳);
2008-2-8
(#4248564@0)
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Depends on your definition, I am 如玉般洁白干净.My husband is and will always be my only man.
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-8
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也谈女人的"如玉般洁白干净"。曾经碰到过好几个女子,do anything to here body will be ok, except goes in her body, is that women's one kind of "如玉般洁白干净"? I feel really funny.
-completemysoul(股票涨了偷着乐);
2008-2-8
(#4248673@0)
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He never enven toughed by hand. If ever, that's when he interviewed me 5 years ago.
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-8
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sorry. I didn't say it is your case. I just talked about the funny things about women. :)))
-completemysoul(股票涨了偷着乐);
2008-2-8
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这就有点不同寻常。
-graniterock(多男);
2008-2-8
(#4248741@0)
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Maybe he does not even love me. That will help me out.
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-8
(#4248763@0)
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可能这就是东西文化的差异,你可不要表错了情,自寻烦恼
-graniterock(多男);
2008-2-8
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Her boss might feel he has a weird stalker now.
-babyface(★给点儿阳光就灿烂★);
2008-2-9
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这个搞法是犯错误,不能行的,赶快悬崖类马。成年人了,要学会控制自己。
-win(秋天的菠菜);
2008-2-8
(#4248586@0)
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Thank you. I remember a long time ago you asked me before to tell you my story. now, you know it. I am not happy
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-8
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(#3870865@0) ? good memory
-win(秋天的菠菜);
2008-2-8
(#4248777@0)
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其实这个事儿要处理也不难...只要你把自己当成跟其他人一样,一定是真心觉得自己就跟其他人一样(别做作),我想老B也不会再怎么样吧...
-mxinmfei(腰缠万罐);
2008-2-8
{96}
(#4248690@0)
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感觉上你们俩都是很感性的人而且彼此非常有感觉,对感情是认真的投入的,但不知道你希望这段感情的最终结果是怎样?你想成为他的情人吗?(想必他是这样想的)
-graniterock(多男);
2008-2-8
(#4248692@0)
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想必他是这样想的?I don't think so. I was deeply trapped also because I think he is a gentleman.你想成为他的情人吗?Never want to hurt my hubby. I know by doing this, I am actually hurting him.
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-8
(#4248758@0)
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what's the most obvious sign or action you got from your boss, that make you feel that he has special feeling towards you? any words? action?
-babyface(★给点儿阳光就灿烂★);
2008-2-9
(#4249788@0)
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还是那句话,动情伤身,痴情伤心,不管怎样,感情这东西还是多自我控制好些。
-graniterock(多男);
2008-2-8
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Is it possible he doesn't love me, only treat me as he said, a close friend?
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-8
(#4248772@0)
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也许如此,这么长时间没有身体接触的确不同一般,你要理智地想一想。
-graniterock(多男);
2008-2-8
(#4248787@0)
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可能这就是东西文化的差异,你可不要表错了情,自寻烦恼。
-graniterock(多男);
2008-2-8
(#4248796@0)
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become clear only one year.
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-8
(#4248797@0)
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我的建议你还是就此止步吧。你们的交流或者说是爱慕还仅限于精神层面,你还是容易退出的,而且你又知道你们之间不会有结果,既然没有结果,何必再去做呢?关键是你要下决心。
-graniterock(多男);
2008-2-8
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Also, first year didn't work for him, third year, big belly, forth year maternity leave. everything happened in the 5th year.
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-9
(#4249300@0)
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Answer is not important. If you don't know what to do. Resign your job should be a good choice.
-1010(nicetobeatyou);
2008-2-8
(#4248852@0)
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a 呸.
-wakengduizhang(挖坑队长);
2008-2-8
(#4248818@0)
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早了早好!越久越痛苦。现在想想怎么找个好单位吧,重要的是reference。就跟他说你爱他,怕控制不了自己,要他帮你出个reference。你这么说会吓他一跳,一下捅开了,他一定会给你个好推荐的。
-int_arts(int_arts);
2008-2-8
(#4248885@0)
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If I want to quit, he will sure be the best reference, I don't need to say that.
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-9
(#4249301@0)
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俺知道。俺是说,他说不准本来正以自己的自控力骄傲呢,你这么一说,他不想你着火,很可能利用他的关系帮你找个很好的工作呢。
-int_arts(int_arts);
2008-2-9
(#4249420@0)
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没有任何男人不喜欢自重的女人,请自重
-frankwoo(柳五随风);
2008-2-8
(#4248907@0)
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Thanks. I understand.
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-9
(#4249304@0)
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他对你的情感很复杂,他对你有不一般的好感,但他也有很强的家庭责任感,非常克制,任何时候不吐关键字,分手不强留,他很nice,不愿意伤害你。象你自己说的,你太感性,客观希望情感对他有所寄托,如果不是他的理性,你会越走越远。。。
-nodream(~~~);
2008-2-8
(#4248995@0)
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橘子给大仙请安。。。。:)))
-serenade123(橘子红了);
2008-2-8
(#4248998@0)
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其实这段感情你比他投入得多,你一直期盼他能有下一个move,“由于他一直没有捅破,我心里没有安全感。”但是他始终不松口没有承诺,你又不好意思先开口,这段感情going nowhere,因此你只能挥泪斩情思。。。
-nodream(~~~);
2008-2-8
(#4249061@0)
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Right again, otherwise I would enjoy more. But, again, I have bottom line.
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-9
(#4249303@0)
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You are right. But I won't go too far. I have bottom line.
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-9
(#4249302@0)
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你的底线其实没有什么意义。根本就不应该在办公室产生感情。你老公真是木头。
-wangqingshui(忘情水);
2008-2-9
(#4249393@0)
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是啊,精神出轨比肉体出轨要严重的多,所谓底线只是自我安慰而已
-geoguy(重新夹着尾巴做人);
2008-2-9
(#4249399@0)
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咦?你和小水是一块儿起来的吗?前一阵就看着你俩互相欣赏,吹捧的,听着肉麻极了,现在终于夫唱妇随了吗?
-int_arts(int_arts);
2008-2-9
(#4249412@0)
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互捧总比互扁好吧,心情愉快最重要,亏你还整天思考,这点道理都没想明白:(
-geoguy(乔疯);
2008-2-9
(#4249426@0)
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俺是替你俩高兴呢!哪里有贬你的意思了。你怎么这么敏感啊?算了,俺就原谅一下恋爱中的女人.
-int_arts(int_arts);
2008-2-9
(#4249439@0)
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你恋爱啦,好啊,恭喜恭喜,原谅你啦,大家不都说恋爱中的女人是什么来着。记得守住底线哦
-geoguy(乔疯);
2008-2-9
(#4249444@0)
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你是人如其名啊!这次你的名字叫的对。
-int_arts(int_arts);
2008-2-9
(#4249446@0)
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原来你是个女的. 好啦, 谜底揭晓啦! : )
-playkipp(Kipp);
2008-2-9
(#4249450@0)
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去去,你也跑来凑热闹,莫非你也在恋爱中?
-geoguy(乔疯);
2008-2-9
(#4249454@0)
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当心啊!疯子可不好惹!俺是因为学过两天拳脚才敢和疯子说话的,但其实也是怕怕的啦。
-int_arts(int_arts);
2008-2-9
(#4249470@0)
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看你以前夹着尾巴做人,后来重新夹着尾巴做人,现在开始疯起来了啊。have fun :D
-wangqingshui(忘情水);
2008-2-9
(#4249500@0)
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也谈”办公室恋情”其实往往,男人在工作中时,会格外显现出一种特殊的魅力; 尤其是那份专注,和聚精会神;
如果再位居高职,就又添加了一个权力的光环.
所以,给予这种仰慕与一份谅解和同情吧.
但LZ的结症在于,双方都是有家室的人,所以再来咨询这个问题,未免显得有些许滑稽.
收心吧, 真心劝你一句.
-looking4hh(I love moneytree);
2008-2-11
{261}
(#4253274@0)
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在老公跟老婆混得差不多,或者比老婆还差的情况下,才会有这种效果。
-stardustshining(lovestoned);
2008-2-11
(#4253425@0)
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office romance is a quite common issue. I wonder whether it is allowed in your company even if you both are single. I guess it is not allowed in some company to have romance between boss and employee. not sure. any comment?
-cleansky(IAMME);
2008-2-8
(#4249018@0)
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besides, I do not think he is a responsible guy. you should just treat him as your boss no matter how he treats you. then you both will go back to normal relationship
-cleansky(IAMME);
2008-2-8
(#4249028@0)
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大把年纪装纯情
-jacky2001(beyond);
2008-2-8
(#4249045@0)
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不好意思.想另外探讨一个问题: 如果老婆爱上了其它人,老公不想离,该怎么处理呢?
-gump(阿甘);
2008-2-8
(#4249075@0)
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pathetic english. stop it now.
No respect, no love.
-whattodo(growupgirl);
2008-2-9
(#4249221@0)
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Everybody can stop now. There are lots of good suggestions. I am also prepared for being accused. My English is not perfect. But must be better than at least most of people here. Always being in a rush, there are lots of typos.
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-9
(#4249297@0)
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I always know, this whole thing is wrong, but I want to know, how many people here can resist this kind of temptation.
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-9
(#4249305@0)
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me.. i'm against having office romance since it creates problems..Be professional
-xiaokeai(notcute);
2008-2-9
(#4249397@0)
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恩,我坦白,如果我是你老板,估计已经抗不住了。这回见到传说中的高手了,佩服哇-----是佩服你的老板。
-leonardmars(小马识途);
2008-2-10
(#4251239@0)
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LZ在主文里完全用的是中文.不明白到了后边的回复文章中就全改为YIN文?
-mxinmfei(腰缠万罐);
2008-2-9
{40}
(#4249402@0)
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what's ur point?
-xiaokeai(notcute);
2008-2-9
(#4249403@0)
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It wasn't polite to people who reply to you...
-mxinmfei(腰缠万罐);
2008-2-9
(#4249434@0)
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A little curious to "My English is not perfect. But must be better than at least most of people here" #4249297@0
-wangqingshui(忘情水);
2008-2-9
(#4249492@0)
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这里有多少人的托福成绩在很多年以前就633分以上。发音使电话对面的人以为是在这里长大的?
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-9
(#4250053@0)
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WOW!!! " 'explaiY', 'I was also WONDDERED', 'FORTH year' 'he will SURE be the best reference', 'He never enven TOUGHED by hand", "you asked me before TO tell you my story,'' . Do you have a number for us to do a test call?
-axe(Just A Joke);
2008-2-9
(#4250132@0)
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I can only say most people is is even worse. how many percent of chinese people can get higher than 633?
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-9
(#4250296@0)
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You may not know what you are talking about - "most people is, how many percent of ...". Sadly that you could even have made a 633...
-axe(Just A Joke);
2008-2-9
(#4250363@0)
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be honest with u, score of the TOEFL or GMAT is nothing to do with communication skills.. btw, should be" percentage" not" percent".. just a friendly reminder..
-readingbook(happy new year);
2008-2-10
(#4251211@0)
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我不怀疑也不需要去考证你的英语水平。但是我不知道在你的这个讨论里怎么突然冒出一句你的英语比大多数中国人好。
-wangqingshui(忘情水);
2008-2-10
(#4250600@0)
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Easy, I typed the first long one in Chinese using "word" when I have lots of time, but to reply, English is easier and faster.
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-9
(#4250269@0)
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BS!
-wpk1(wpk);
2008-2-9
(#4249408@0)
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终于明白了,原来大家看不起的下贱女人就在我们中间!
-nolater(nolater);
2008-2-9
(#4249419@0)
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看了你的名字和风格,还有上网时间,我想我知道你是谁了。前一阵你曾在这里挖了另一个坑,当然是用的另一个名字。
-int_arts(int_arts);
2008-2-9
(#4249474@0)
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怎么看怎么像男人挖的坑
-zola(石头茶);
2008-2-9
(#4249481@0)
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快快,讲讲你的最新发现
-geoguy(乔疯);
2008-2-9
(#4249484@0)
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这坑水平也不高. 啥公司的头闲成整礼拜用EMAIL 传情啊. 别说senior, 就连偶这个小兵每天的email也堆成山乐. 这里IT 人多, 是不是公司的EMAIL 也可以监视啊?
-6bear6(maple bear);
2008-2-9
(#4249714@0)
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最初正是由此,使我感觉到“他对我有不一般的好感“
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-9
(#4250263@0)
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girl, grow up...
-readingbook(happy new year);
2008-2-10
(#4251220@0)
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偶,明白了,你是不是指什么看到老外胸毛的那个?恩,有点像,看来有进展了。
-leonardmars(小马识途);
2008-2-10
(#4251227@0)
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给你诊断一下
-bigsnowday(大雪天盼晴天);
2008-2-9
{1143}
(#4249522@0)
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也许你的当头棒喝确能醍醐灌顶,但不要动不动就鄙视,人家可是向你寻求帮助的,人都有想不通的时候,还是多些尊重和理解的为好。
-graniterock(多男);
2008-2-9
(#4249666@0)
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有家有业了,涉世不浅了,还不懂得如何处理感情问题,本人不会尊重这种人。这种事还在网上晒?要不就离了婚,没人干涉。问题是有老公,还玩儿。估计楼主也是受过教育之人,本人的浅薄结论,智商和道德无关!
-bigsnowday(大雪天盼晴天);
2008-2-9
(#4249769@0)
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Once again,no respect, no love. Judging from your comments in here, your boss won't respect your english, you are just his extra curriculum activity. If you are somewhat cute or funny, that might be endearing and can compensate for your english problem, but you did not show that from your comments either.
Years of immersion of language and culture might help. But for now, you and him is a lost cause.
-whattodo(growupgirl);
2008-2-9
{398}
(#4249774@0)
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thanks again
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-9
(#4250325@0)
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Did you sleep with him ??
-babyface(★给点儿阳光就灿烂★);
2008-2-9
(#4249775@0)
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我怎莫觉得特像是单恋啊。而且还是自己特苦自己的那种。。。。。说的不对的话,大家指正哈。
-babyface(★给点儿阳光就灿烂★);
2008-2-9
(#4249795@0)
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Judging from your comments in here,your boss won't respect your english, you are just his extra curriculum activity. If you are somewhat cute or funny, that might be endearing and can compensate for your english problem, but you did not show that from your comments either.
Years of immersion of language and culture might help. But for now, you and him is a lost cause.
-whattodo(growupgirl);
2008-2-9
{338}
(#4249827@0)
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怎么上来就sleep不sleep的问呀,很提纲节令嘛
-win(秋天的菠菜);
2008-2-9
(#4250109@0)
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If you really want a closure and stop hurting your husband, leave this company. Game over, girl.
-uptowngirl(若初);
2008-2-9
(#4250104@0)
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I belive fianally I can 解脱出来
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-9
(#4250292@0)
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sadly, your boss has no respect for your "633" english. he cannot picture you in his social circle. That is the problem. he doesn't want you.
-whattodo(growupgirl);
2008-2-9
(#4250413@0)
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其实很简单,如果你真是吃了太多的米饭想换换西餐,未尝不可,但是你一定要肯定你自己玩得起,还有你想从这个男人身上要什么,玩不是男人的权利,女人一样可以,但是要更小心,
如果你只是想要性,做好措施
如果你只是想要感情,我劝你放弃,因为男人热度永远比女人走得快
如果你是想钱,老外未并SHARE,
如果你只是想要友情,保持一种若远若近的距离,不要他靠身,但不离他视线,但你要有足够的功力
如果我是你,我觉得你是玩不起,我会抽身走人,不过走之前不捅破任何什么,保持原来的关系,但要一个很好的REFERENCE......
-poisonrose(poisonrose);
2008-2-9
{434}
(#4250432@0)
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再问LZ个问题(决没挑衅的意思,不知者不问罪吧?)...什么是"CUTE CHINESE FACE", 为什么不是"CUTE FACE"?
-mxinmfei(腰缠万罐);
2008-2-10
{56}
(#4250527@0)
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这位MM,人家又没说爱你。那么你认为他没把你当一般同事,是当成什么呢?别胡思乱想了。
-brookfield(小儿女);
2008-2-10
(#4250561@0)
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偶支持你,理由如下1。大禹制水,告诉我们,只能通不可憋
2。爱是一种生理现象,也可以说是一种病
3。尝试新鲜事物,是人类的本性
4。即使不完美,也是一个宝贵的经验。过了这个村,难有下个店
5。人生苦短
-oo7(大布偶射蚊);
2008-2-10
{177}
(#4251063@0)
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你跟他没有什么实质性的关系,他没可能爱你的。按一般西人的观点,你们根本就没开始,何来爱可言。他这么烟韧不肯放弃,很可能只是希望得到sex。我觉得在office环境里,你不会只遇到一个这样的男人的,如果你跟他走下去,他可能会爱上你,也可能不会,他离婚不是没可能,不过希望真的很小。从长远来看,跟一个又一个这样的男人,即便只处于朦胧的感情中,对你自己可能一点好处也没有。女人也应该专注于自己的工作,做一个能干的smart girl比跟老板暧昧的虚荣更有成就感。而且自己也会觉得清清爽爽。自己对自己的认同也很重要的。与你共勉!
-stardustshining(lovestoned);
2008-2-10
{268}
(#4251155@0)
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没想到这个忽悠板块也能看到这样的帖子,顶 顶 顶!
-samedayrightaway(赶路一族);
2008-2-10
(#4251167@0)
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People are different. Some people value their career and professional image. Some people fancy "cute face", "perfect butt", inappropriate flirtation and clandestine office affair. Unfortunately, she belongs to later.And unless she gets seriously burned, she wouldn't stop her endless pursuing.
-passingby(have fun);
2008-2-10
{78}
(#4251759@0)
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恕我直言,这场感情游戏,你已经输了!感觉你老板收放自如,而你已经深深陷入了。"要求我老板只把我当一般同事",我感觉你的要求与你说的恰恰相反,只不过你的老板不想主动,所以你才“没有安全感”。我理解这个是怕付出了老板不回应,而不是怕事情暴露。
-leonardmars(小马识途);
2008-2-10
(#4251207@0)
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其实你老板分寸掌握的很好,他只是想让你主动。难道你没听说过现在国内流行三不男人:不主动,不拒绝,不负责!满足这三点的就是“好男人”,在这一点,全世界都差不多。
-leonardmars(小马识途);
2008-2-10
(#4251209@0)
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嗯。
-babyface(★给点儿阳光就灿烂★);
2008-2-10
(#4251228@0)
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在提醒你一下,输了其实没什么,毕竟你很享受这种感觉。千万做好保密工作!这是办公室恋情最难的部分,行动之前一定要想一想后果。
-leonardmars(小马识途);
2008-2-10
(#4251252@0)
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一吐为快?把rolia当成了垃圾桶了 ^_^
-jeffca(iamjeff);
2008-2-11
(#4253086@0)