Everybody can stop now. There are lots of good suggestions. I am also prepared for being accused. My English is not perfect. But must be better than at least most of people here. Always being in a rush, there are lots of typos.
hehiha(haha)
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I won't have any physical affection with him, what can he get. Why he never told me he loves me.
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-8(#4248642@0)
what is physical affection? I wonder with such poor English, you could truly connect with him. so, just stop right there, you simply say No to this man, everything will be fine.
-everydaylife(绿茶一杯);
2008-2-8(#4249118@0)
I am a relationship coach, do you want me to give you some advice? : )
However, I can not coach myself, I am woman too.
-tuyiyi(依依);
2008-2-8(#4248532@0)
I was also wondered. But IF he's playing with me, what can he get. NO bad guys would be like that
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-8(#4248627@0)
he can get your "CUTE CHINESE FACE,臀部perfect"
-completemysoul(股票涨了偷着了);
2008-2-8(#4248659@0)
NEVER!
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-8(#4248660@0)
Then go to love. But cheat is not good for anyone.
-completemysoul(股票涨了偷着乐);
2008-2-8(#4248665@0)
Thanks for believe me, not like some other people, think everybody is as dirty as them.
But I also feel sorry for my husband. Have to stop.
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-8(#4248680@0)
"Thanks for believe me", you 'd better take some time to improve your English first, then flirt with your colleagues; they actually believe that they may take advantages of you so easily.
-everydaylife(绿茶一杯);
2008-2-8(#4249129@0)
I know thanks for understanding, of course I know "believing"
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-9(#4249298@0)
Depends on your definition, I am 如玉般洁白干净.My husband is and will always be my only man.
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-8(#4248664@0)
也谈女人的"如玉般洁白干净"。曾经碰到过好几个女子,do anything to here body will be ok, except goes in her body, is that women's one kind of "如玉般洁白干净"? I feel really funny.
-completemysoul(股票涨了偷着乐);
2008-2-8(#4248673@0)
He never enven toughed by hand. If ever, that's when he interviewed me 5 years ago.
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-8(#4248683@0)
sorry. I didn't say it is your case. I just talked about the funny things about women. :)))
-completemysoul(股票涨了偷着乐);
2008-2-8(#4248694@0)
这就有点不同寻常。
-graniterock(多男);
2008-2-8(#4248741@0)
Maybe he does not even love me. That will help me out.
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-8(#4248763@0)
想必他是这样想的?I don't think so. I was deeply trapped also because I think he is a gentleman.你想成为他的情人吗?Never want to hurt my hubby. I know by doing this, I am actually hurting him.
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-8(#4248758@0)
what's the most obvious sign or action you got from your boss, that make you feel that he has special feeling towards you? any words? action?
-babyface(★给点儿阳光就灿烂★);
2008-2-9(#4249788@0)
Also, first year didn't work for him, third year, big belly, forth year maternity leave. everything happened in the 5th year.
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-9(#4249300@0)
Answer is not important. If you don't know what to do. Resign your job should be a good choice.
-1010(nicetobeatyou);
2008-2-8(#4248852@0)
office romance is a quite common issue. I wonder whether it is allowed in your company even if you both are single. I guess it is not allowed in some company to have romance between boss and employee. not sure. any comment?
-cleansky(IAMME);
2008-2-8(#4249018@0)
besides, I do not think he is a responsible guy. you should just treat him as your boss no matter how he treats you. then you both will go back to normal relationship
-cleansky(IAMME);
2008-2-8(#4249028@0)
pathetic english. stop it now.
No respect, no love.
-whattodo(growupgirl);
2008-2-9(#4249221@0)
Everybody can stop now. There are lots of good suggestions. I am also prepared for being accused. My English is not perfect. But must be better than at least most of people here. Always being in a rush, there are lots of typos.
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-9(#4249297@0)
I always know, this whole thing is wrong, but I want to know, how many people here can resist this kind of temptation.
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-9(#4249305@0)
me.. i'm against having office romance since it creates problems..Be professional
-xiaokeai(notcute);
2008-2-9(#4249397@0)
what's ur point?
-xiaokeai(notcute);
2008-2-9(#4249403@0)
It wasn't polite to people who reply to you...
-mxinmfei(腰缠万罐);
2008-2-9(#4249434@0)
A little curious to "My English is not perfect. But must be better than at least most of people here" #4249297@0
-wangqingshui(忘情水);
2008-2-9(#4249492@0)
WOW!!! " 'explaiY', 'I was also WONDDERED', 'FORTH year' 'he will SURE be the best reference', 'He never enven TOUGHED by hand", "you asked me before TO tell you my story,'' . Do you have a number for us to do a test call?
-axe(Just A Joke);
2008-2-9(#4250132@0)
I can only say most people is is even worse. how many percent of chinese people can get higher than 633?
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-9(#4250296@0)
You may not know what you are talking about - "most people is, how many percent of ...". Sadly that you could even have made a 633...
-axe(Just A Joke);
2008-2-9(#4250363@0)
be honest with u, score of the TOEFL or GMAT is nothing to do with communication skills.. btw, should be" percentage" not" percent".. just a friendly reminder..
-readingbook(happy new year);
2008-2-10(#4251211@0)
Easy, I typed the first long one in Chinese using "word" when I have lots of time, but to reply, English is easier and faster.
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-9(#4250269@0)
Once again,
-whattodo(growupgirl);
2008-2-9{398}(#4249774@0)
no respect, no love. Judging from your comments in here, your boss won't respect your english, you are just his extra curriculum activity. If you are somewhat cute or funny, that might be endearing and can compensate for your english problem, but you did not show that from your comments either.
Years of immersion of language and culture might help. But for now, you and him is a lost cause.
thanks again
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-9(#4250325@0)
Did you sleep with him ??
-babyface(★给点儿阳光就灿烂★);
2008-2-9(#4249775@0)
Judging from your comments in here,
-whattodo(growupgirl);
2008-2-9{338}(#4249827@0)
your boss won't respect your english, you are just his extra curriculum activity. If you are somewhat cute or funny, that might be endearing and can compensate for your english problem, but you did not show that from your comments either.
Years of immersion of language and culture might help. But for now, you and him is a lost cause.
If you really want a closure and stop hurting your husband, leave this company. Game over, girl.
-uptowngirl(若初);
2008-2-9(#4250104@0)
I belive fianally I can 解脱出来
-hehiha(haha);
2008-2-9(#4250292@0)
sadly, your boss has no respect for your "633" english. he cannot picture you in his social circle. That is the problem. he doesn't want you.
-whattodo(growupgirl);
2008-2-9(#4250413@0)
People are different. Some people value their career and professional image. Some people fancy "cute face", "perfect butt", inappropriate flirtation and clandestine office affair. Unfortunately, she belongs to later.
-passingby(have fun);
2008-2-10{78}(#4251759@0)
And unless she gets seriously burned, she wouldn't stop her endless pursuing.