hehe, poor guy. patpat// i dont think anyone can give u a definite answer...... in fact u know what u gonna gain and lose clearly, dont u?
-midnightblues(江枫);
2002-8-18(#699820@0)
"wo3 yu4 yu3 jun1 xiang1 zhi1, chang2 jiu3 wu2 jue2 shuai1"-- if u r strong enough, i think u2 will get through and eventually work out a future. god bless u...
-midnightblues(江枫);
2002-8-18(#699859@0)
i can understand what u meanmy ex-bf and i broke up 3 months after i came to canada. i think i still love him, but i would rather set him free than torture him...... sigh
-midnightblues(江枫);
2002-8-18{142}(#699897@0)
If he loved you too, you would have been torturing him by setting him free.
-noexit(♂江湖夜雨省油灯);
2002-8-18(#699903@0)
if he loved me, he wouldnt let me go at the every beginning.
-midnightblues(江枫);
2002-8-18(#699912@0)
The surmise could be: he thought you would be happier if he let you go
-noexit(♂江湖夜雨省油灯);
2002-8-18(#699918@0)
anyway, it is much better to be free than to guess what each other really want.
-midnightblues(江枫);
2002-8-18(#699933@0)
Anyway. you are always able to make youself happy.
-noexit(♂江湖夜雨省油灯);
2002-8-18(#699938@0)
u think i am happy at refreshing rolia everyday?
-midnightblues(江枫);
2002-8-18(#699941@0)
That's the difference between wife and gf. After you've got the commitment to your spouse, the bond won't be so easily broken. But the separation itself still hurts. Anyway,wishing you all the best. keep smiling. ^_^
-sunnysky(sunnysky);
2002-8-18{45}(#699911@0)
probably i am too childish, but i think everybody should be responsible for himself. what u do should follow what u want... not follow commitment.
-midnightblues(江枫);
2002-8-18(#699921@0)
hiwhere are you come from in china,i am from zhengzhou!,you?
-lfsjp(肥猫);
2002-8-19{59}(#701279@0)
No. Your statement is not absolute. A good man can work that around.
-noexit(♂江湖夜雨省油灯);
2002-8-18(#699969@0)
Most of the men are simply men with their own women. They're still men.
-sailor(春眠不觉晓);
2002-8-18(#700139@0)
sure, u r right! But I just mean a man should be somebody or a hero for his own woman. Hence the career or wealth will be important. On the contrary, it makes sense for the women.
-littletomato(平沙落雁);
2002-8-19(#700643@0)
Thanks for sharing your precious experiences , you are the man !!! It's never too late if you really want to do sth,,,,,, KFC's owner start his business in his late 50's (or 60's)
-falcon(令狐葱);
2002-8-18(#700396@0)
by the way:地点是成功于失败的重要原因之一。如果你统计一下北美NBA的主客场赢率,
或者让小泰来评说一下地点对韩国队的重要性。人生也是一种竞赛,所谓天时,地利,人和。尤其让咱喘不过气的正是:“地利”-文化,语言,传统和种族。
大部份中国人在北美的劣势。
不是吗?
-jim44(南京人);
2002-8-18{95}(#700337@0)
How about May 2003, is it good?
-xiaofeixia(小飞侠);
2002-9-18(#753689@0)
something you cannot buy with money. you love your wife and should stay with her, at least you have a job here. after 3 years, you can go back to china with your wife if you still don't like here.
-davidxu(water);
2002-8-19(#700757@0)
hi, it's very nice to meet your guys in the ad industry. Welcome aboard. What do u do in ad agency? Account service, creative, research or media department?And besides, we might know each other in China. You can reach me via nick2050@etang.com.
-nick2050(Shizizhu);
2002-8-20{88}(#704160@0)
谢谢你的建议,Apparently my wife can't deliver baby in these years when she is alone in Canada. I am afraid that late pregrency do harm to her health and baby IQ.I am wondering if you two have baby and what you are planning. My wife and I hope to speak to you more.
-nick2050(Shizizhu);
2002-8-26{103}(#713446@0)
Your assumption is, your wife to stay. Why not make an assumption that your are together. Then think about to stay together or leave together?
-trucluster(Trucluster);
2002-8-26(#714368@0)