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枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / 突然想到了征友的一个词,“门当户对”可能是心底里跨不过去的一个坎,但是毕竟不是和别人一个圈子里的,很难有共同的语言和兴趣爱好,当然也不能指望别人来帮助你,我承认我有点自私。
回到了多伦多,问候了三年未见面的朋友,但是毕竟人家有人家的生活和工作,后来也没有联系,我觉得我也不好意思再和她联系,省得别人再回复 "what the hell are you doing here? "
觉得在什么圈子里特别重要。 留学生有留学生的圈子,移民有移民的圈子,Professional有professional的圈子。
-sunny0056(sunny);
2012-2-2
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back to ground 0 again?
-c__wang(溪);
2012-2-2
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Thanks C. Just my true feelings. I just do not want to waste my time and other people's time in making friends with me.
-sunny0056(sunny);
2012-2-2
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the deeper you dig to yourself, others, reasons, consequences, effects, gains/losses, relationships, friendships, etc.. the worse your faith becomes.
-c__wang(溪);
2012-2-2
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朋友有朋友的圈子;如果你没有勇气伸出手,那就需要有勇气去拉住别人伸出来的手,否则你就永远都不会有属于你的圈子~~~
-yoyo23(纯水有香);
2012-2-2
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how long did it take me? since Oct or Nov?
-c__wang(溪);
2012-2-2
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right at the moment i start to chat with you, you stick into my heart :D
-yoyo23(纯水有香);
2012-2-2
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~~~ we are twins ~~~ 不过,这也忒蜜咧。
-c__wang(溪);
2012-2-2
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今天吃了好多甜食,你得帮我消化点~~
-yoyo23(纯水有香);
2012-2-2
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恩. .... 让我想想~~~~
-member321(5天田);
2012-2-2
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想啥呢,美妞~~:)
-yoyo23(纯水有香);
2012-2-2
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When did you put that stick into my heart? no wonder it is bleeding and hurting!!
-member321(5天田);
2012-2-2
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oh, how many stickers are there in your heart ~~~:)
-yoyo23(纯水有香);
2012-2-2
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oh, I c, HOW MANY have you done to my heart?! :-D
-member321(5天田);
2012-2-2
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4, one for each room.
-c__wang(溪);
2012-2-2
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come on, don't be so mean. I have only 4 of them. You don't want to kill all of them, do you?
-member321(5天田);
2012-2-2
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那好吧,就都再拔出来吧。
-c__wang(溪);
2012-2-2
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不是更疼么? 要不我找人再给贴点新的上去吧~~~:)
-yoyo23(纯水有香);
2012-2-2
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en, I have decided to follow Xiao C's advice that all of the 4 sticks should be left alone. It is not going to harm more if you want to stick more on, so go ahead and do it!
-member321(5天田);
2012-2-2
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可是亲;我哪好意思占用你那么多的心间啊~~:)
-yoyo23(纯水有香);
2012-2-2
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还是你好. 不愿多伤我心. :-D
-member321(5天田);
2012-2-3
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THANKS。 但是我觉得太难做到了。 有的时候我会想为什么他会要帮我,是不是该相信男人的话。Maybe the answer is negative.
-sunny0056(sunny);
2012-2-2
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the deeper you dig to yourself, others, reasons, consequences, effects, gains/losses, relationships, friendships, etc.. the worse your faith becomes. -c__wang(溪); 23:30 (#7257613@0)
-c__wang(溪);
2012-2-2
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That's true. Live simple. You seem to be a psychologist. :) I just cannot walk out of the shadow. It has been too harsh for me.
-sunny0056(sunny);
2012-2-2
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日出东海落西山,愁也一天,喜也一天;遇事不钻牛角尖,人也舒坦,心也舒坦! -vavav(山野兔子); 12:41 (#7255399@0)
-c__wang(溪);
2012-2-2
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别说搞对象。。。。就是交普通喷油也要一个层次的。。。。或者说收入差不多滴。。。。否则肯定有一边很难受。。。。
-tigar25(大忽悠);
2012-2-2
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假如是爱XB的,有没有都会想办法XB; 对于不爱XB的,你也很难知道人有多高~~ 其实说白了还是人品和层次的问题~~~人以群分应该指的是人性~~~
-yoyo23(纯水有香);
2012-2-2
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就说吃饭吧。。。。人家请的哪回轮到你回请都需要咬牙的数。。。。两次之后你就不会再去了。。。。出门旅行和你一起去的喷油要么嫌酒店贵。。。。要么省钱不玩。。。。一次就够了。。。。你和ta都够了没有下次。。。。其实你。。。。可以数数周围处得来的喷油收入应该跟你差不离。。。。
-tigar25(大忽悠);
2012-2-3
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that's damned true.
-lilianliang(彪妹);
2012-2-3
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越来越彪。。。。没人管了是咋地。。。。!
-tigar25(大忽悠);
2012-2-3
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嗯,可能没交过相差太过悬殊的朋友,这种体会没那么深。也可能是我自己神经比较大条~~~:D
-yoyo23(纯水有香);
2012-2-3
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别说叫普通朋友,打麻将也得是收入差不多的。否则,杠头开花还要扔掉,难受啊。。。
-lifeisgoodd(life is fun);
2012-2-3
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哈哈。。。。要相信别人。。。。ta输得起。。。。
-tigar25(大忽悠);
2012-2-3
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自私的是没事了就凑上去占便宜的,象你这样无私的才会选择远离别人。至于说不好意思再和朋友来往,其实一点关系也没有,想起来了就邀请一下,不来就算了。这里的人情关系本来就很loose,不用怕欠人情,也不用老想着怎么还人情,大家多数都是喜欢这点才留这的。
-c1xwy(洪兴罩俺去战斗);
2012-2-2
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看看自己跟周围的邻居啊同事啊认识的人啊有没有什么共同爱好,象打球啊,hiking啊,跳舞啊,瑜伽啊,gym啊,自己设法去approach别人,肯定能找到一起玩一起聊的,自己要给自己信心
-fly_universe(飞越时空);
2012-2-3
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同意,就是这样的
-di09(cii);
2012-2-3
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圈子?那不就把自己局限起来了吗?相处久了,自然交集就多了,一个人可以跨越不同圈子的吧?
-cactus101(贤锡饭);
2012-2-3
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为什么你要对那些留不住的朋友耿耿于怀?对友谊,一样要学会let go。哪怕你在这个世界上一个朋友都没有,你也要做自己最好的朋友,make yourself happy every single minute.
-princemeetsprincess(西门小鸟);
2012-2-3
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对的,坚决支持,说的好
-di09(cii);
2012-2-3
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