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枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / 关于感情美满与否的感慨:感情是否美满,不是看甜蜜的时候如何卿卿我我,而是看有矛盾的时候是否能有效化解……
true or false?
-lilianliang(彪妹);
2011-8-23
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恬退隐忍也要看对象。对有道德的人恬退隐忍是美德;
但是对没道德的人恬退隐忍就是“缺德”了。
当忍已经成为一种习惯,那是一件多么可怕的事情哦。
true or false?
-lilianliang(彪妹);
2011-8-23
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就看值得不值得了
-tyra(Zara);
2011-8-24
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忍也要看代价,每个人心里都有一把枰,如何平衡。看看小三,两年了都没有名分,不就是因为:四次郎+ipad+blahblah+肉联YY+。。。人家不是过得挺爽的么
-snowmm(十五);
2011-8-24
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iPAD+blahblahblah+肉联YY,都有限,不值什么。 四次郎难度有点大。 毛主席他老人家伟大啊, 早就给男同胞们指引了方向了:身体是革命的本钱!
-cute99(behappy);
2011-8-24
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ture。。。与其说是“缺德”, 不如说是“悲哀”。。。而隐藏在“习惯”背后的应该是一种深深的无奈。。。
-redsky(忧伤苹果);
2011-8-24
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True
-tyra(Zara);
2011-8-24
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我觉得这两方面都得看。 相敬如宾的是没矛盾, 但没有卿卿我我,也不能算幸福美满吧。
-cute99(behappy);
2011-8-24
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i am not saying happiness is not important, i am saying, how to handle conflict is MORE important. :)
-lilianliang(彪妹);
2011-8-24
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对,解决问题的合拍才是真的美满。达到解决问题的目的,而且双方都很enjoy这个解决的方法。以后再有问题可以沿用,成为家规。例如:打架/抛硬币/喝酒/。。欢迎大家补充
-snowmm(十五);
2011-8-24
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两者都有才能是真正的美满吧,除非双方性格都受不了那第一项,当然第二项肯定更重要就是了
-fly_universe(飞越时空);
2011-8-24
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i am not saying happiness is not important, i am saying, how to handle conflict is MORE important. :) -lilianliang(彪妹); 08:35 (#6871538@0)
-lilianliang(彪妹);
2011-8-24
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那是,要美满,怎样handle问题很重要,是一门艺术
-fly_universe(飞越时空);
2011-8-24
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同甘与共苦,一个都不能少
-win(秋天的菠菜);
2011-8-24
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i am not saying happiness is not important, i am saying, how to handle conflict is MORE important. :) -lilianliang(彪妹); 08:35 (#6871538@0)
-lilianliang(彪妹);
2011-8-24
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同甘有关美满;共苦有关可靠。 可靠未必美满;但先可靠,才有可能美满。
-cca(不归的如来佛);
2011-8-24
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well saying
-lilianliang(彪妹);
2011-8-24
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千万别有满足感,一旦感到满足,就该悲剧了。
-solitary(中秋);
2011-8-24
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true。。。
-redsky(忧伤苹果);
2011-8-24
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期望太高一定就会失落。看自己的定位,每个人有不同理解。
-melifeisgoodme(好心情);
2011-8-24
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见过你家帅哥后,发现他比我想象中成熟。:-D
-abetterworld(之诺);
2011-8-24
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内成熟还是外成熟还是都成熟:-)?
-fly_universe(飞越时空);
2011-8-24
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same feeling~~~
-dong3213(住在肥皂泡里的牛);
2011-8-24
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我没想过以前。。。。。。
-tyra(Zara);
2011-8-24
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not everyone can behave the SAME inside home as outside home...... :-(
-lilianliang(彪妹);
2011-8-24
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是的,连我都这样
-tyra(Zara);
2011-8-24
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Do you REALLY want someone behaving like that?:-)
-cca(不归的如来佛);
2011-8-24
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like what???
-lilianliang(彪妹);
2011-8-24
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SAME inside home as outside home?
-cca(不归的如来佛);
2011-8-24
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theoretically, yes.life is not a performance, and we are not actors/actresses as well.
be honest to others, means dare not to show your weakness.
unfortunately there is someone always be "perfect" to others, but let his/her close ones down all the time.
isn't it a tragedy?
xu wei for me, is totally unacceptable.
-lilianliang(彪妹);
2011-8-24
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something very interesting:
-lilianliang(彪妹);
2011-8-24
{731}
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That's cute -- and what's the problem?
-cca(不归的如来佛);
2011-8-24
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just let you know that the things witnessed by your eyes might not be true.
-lilianliang(彪妹);
2011-8-24
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Probably no one was going to take it as true anyways.... after all -- in a spousal relationship, do external opinions really matter that much?
-cca(不归的如来佛);
2011-8-24
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大气,彪妹,大气!Sometimes entrusting is also an intimacy. Everyone has his/her low moments. In modern time, spouses are partners in life, and they may alternately offer/demand shoulders to/from each other -- esp. for someone who's 175cm tall. :-)
You know/trust each other -- so take your due, and you may need a turn soon.
-cca(不归的如来佛);
2011-8-24
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i just hate to be xu wei and hate xu wei people. that's my nature. :p
-lilianliang(彪妹);
2011-8-24
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That's a great nature! However, xu-wei is a very subtle concept that could be easily mis-defined.
-cca(不归的如来佛);
2011-8-24
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英文都很棒。
-arrowroot(purple);
2011-9-7
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mm, be happy, be charming, ............ to be loved...............
-dang_dang(当当);
2011-8-24
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TRUE。你都这么好了,而且一向好,有矛盾都不维护你,让人心寒。
-9604(眯眯眼);
2011-9-7
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