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枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / 看上我老板了,咋办啊?(共进午餐,之后又为难了)
-alotgooddays(agoodday);
2011-3-31
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(#6593762@0)
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换,换了后你们俩人才会有更大的发展空间。
-collapsar(笨笨和旦旦+Emma);
2011-3-31
(#6593769@0)
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换。不换啥戏都没有,换了起码眼不见,没那么难受。你老板的态度很明确了。如果他想发展,是肯定支持你走的。他现在在作姿态,表明态度。
-2009summer(beautiful world);
2011-3-31
(#6593784@0)
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Yes. I think he is giving me the hint that he is not interested, but he still accept me as a good staff. Sad.
-alotgooddays(agoodday);
2011-3-31
(#6593791@0)
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你想跑, 他想留, ................要不9老实交代了得了. 如果两个人都大气, 也许最后最不济还是可以作朋友的 :-)
-babyface(★☆给点儿阳光就灿烂);
2011-3-31
(#6593787@0)
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很好的timing, 跟老板说你换部门还有个私人原因, 然后欲言又止, 给足对方压力后, 深呼吸多次又吧啦吧啦...
-wadangonly(vatansoso);
2011-3-31
(#6593792@0)
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I missed the opportunity already.
-alotgooddays(agoodday);
2011-3-31
(#6593798@0)
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不是下星期一等你最后答复吗? 别忘了配合上你最幽怨的眼神, 让他记住一辈子, 哈哈...
-wadangonly(vatansoso);
2011-3-31
(#6593808@0)
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sigh....... I didn't expect the question on my job, so I was not prepared.
-alotgooddays(agoodday);
2011-3-31
(#6593801@0)
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暂时别换吧,升迁后要换肯定会有机会的,你至少要搞清他为什么把你留下还要让你升迁吧,你业务上很出色,是吗?
-fly_universe(飞越时空);
2011-3-31
(#6593799@0)
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yes. I really work very hard.
-alotgooddays(agoodday);
2011-3-31
(#6593806@0)
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有没有想过一旦到另一部门一起吃饭的机会会少多了,见面也会少多了,除非你是个很主动的人。
-fly_universe(飞越时空);
2011-3-31
(#6593841@0)
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是啊,不在一个楼里。 肯定见面的机会都不会多啊。工作交集也很少的。
-alotgooddays(agoodday);
2011-3-31
(#6593923@0)
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姐姐,您多大啦?成年人的事情有什么说不清楚的吗? 直说拉。。你都打算换地方,还怕直说。。。不过你千万要有心理准备。。人家拒绝你的话,你最好不要太抑郁。。而且你要明白,最后是没什么结果的,你最好不要死缠烂打
-kevin_tor(KFC);
2011-3-31
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(#6593811@0)
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Very good, another starting point! Way to go
-webx(蓝);
2011-3-31
(#6593815@0)
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你可真够磨叽的。。。这么磨叽,你怎么能得到他。。。即使你得到了他,估计你又要为如何留他在你身边一辈子而坐立不安了。。。
-redsky(忧伤苹果);
2011-3-31
(#6593825@0)
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94, 作女人要多点自信. :-)
-babyface(★☆给点儿阳光就灿烂);
2011-3-31
(#6593834@0)
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She asks nothing from her boss, but want to give her out...that's the problem
-bricksonly(鑫鑫鑫);
2011-3-31
(#6594211@0)
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That's true. I don't need him, I want him. It is very different.
-alotgooddays(agoodday);
2011-3-31
(#6594237@0)
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我这么猜哈~~~老板对你有意思的,他不确定你的想法,没贸然行进,最终发现你可能对他没意思;现发现你要调离开,着急,就想了这招,留你在身边,就算你对他无意,他至少可以天天看见你~~~~~~~~唉,我是不是那些乱七八糟小说看多了~~~~~~~~
-dong3213(2011年要积极一点的牛);
2011-3-31
(#6593831@0)
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我跟你的想法相似:-)
-fly_universe(飞越时空);
2011-3-31
(#6593846@0)
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一般做管理层最怕的一件事情,就是工作场所性骚扰,麻烦多多。所以工作场所说的话,都尽量避免任何隐含意义,或者避免工作场所有太多的私人关系。就算他有这想法。基本上也不会在办公室里说太多而且最害怕的是,就算有意思,也要保证这个女人之后不要有报复心理,否则太容易让人抓到把柄啦。。。。
-kevin_tor(KFC);
2011-3-31
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(#6593847@0)
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I wish it was true. I with it was true. I wish it was true. then, should I stay or should I go?
-alotgooddays(agoodday);
2011-3-31
(#6593853@0)
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你这样磨磨唧唧的。。我要是那个Manager更要小心拉。。。。基本上可以断定你是个拿不起放不下的人,很容易冲动做错事
-kevin_tor(KFC);
2011-3-31
(#6593865@0)
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这还冲动啊? 我要是冲动,中午就脱口而出啦。 我是笨啊。
-alotgooddays(agoodday);
2011-3-31
(#6593940@0)
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我的态度很明确的啊~~~~~~跟他把话直说了,就这样~~~~~~~~
-dong3213(2011年要积极一点的牛);
2011-3-31
(#6593866@0)
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其实我觉得LZ有点意思,她到底想要什么?要想搞定着个人,据对不能在一个部门,如果想要上床,就无所谓啦,而且顺便提升一下。。。一举两得呀。。。
-kevin_tor(KFC);
2011-3-31
(#6593893@0)
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话糙理不糙。楼主想认真发展一段感情,或至少不受伤害(感情上),走得对的。如果这事是真的,处理不好楼主会连这分工都保不住(自愿或被迫)。保护自己是上策。
-yahoo11(canada);
2011-3-31
(#6593907@0)
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4d4d,看LZ 想要什么了,,,如果想把钻石男变成戒指上的钻石呢,难度非常非常的大,然后会失落。。。如果想过过心瘾而已,无所谓啦,是不会有什么损失的。
-echos999(陀飞轮);
2011-3-31
(#6593922@0)
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这个岁数啦, 我不是在玩啊。 就是太严肃认真啦,不然, 哪里这么为难啊。
-alotgooddays(agoodday);
2011-3-31
(#6593943@0)
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那就知难而退把。。。。宁可折磨别人,也别折磨自己
-kevin_tor(KFC);
2011-3-31
(#6593951@0)
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"宁可折磨别人,也别折磨自己"---经典, Mark一下
-yatou(Hello,city life);
2011-3-31
(#6594066@0)
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认真。。。认真滴,如果是我我就不会跟他说感情的事,工作上留下来,发点小财。行将 50 的钻世级的男人,要婚早婚了,要喜欢你早行动了。没必要用自己前途去赌。
-echos999(陀飞轮);
2011-3-31
{76}
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You suck. You know what is pre-making? Directly hurts!
-bricksonly(鑫鑫鑫);
2011-3-31
(#6593897@0)
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????????????~~~~~~~我招你惹你啦~~~~~这么说话?!~~~~~~~~
-dong3213(2011年要积极一点的牛);
2011-3-31
(#6593901@0)
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I apologize for my English.
-bricksonly(鑫鑫鑫);
2011-3-31
(#6593917@0)
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呵呵。。。九金,还是输中文把。。。。好歹美女还能明白你的意思
-kevin_tor(KFC);
2011-3-31
(#6593925@0)
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顺便给你科普一下,那叫 foreplay...
-kevin_tor(KFC);
2011-3-31
(#6593941@0)
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I think it's should be before: "music time", and after: "smoke time"..and if twice, could be "break time"
-bricksonly(鑫鑫鑫);
2011-3-31
(#6593953@0)
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I know what you mean I know what you mean I know what you mean, should I stay or should I ask your PM?看来你们弄上只是时间问题。而且,偶敢脚,那发生的一刻,千万要注意防火。。。我知道什么叫职场骚扰了,谈朋友吹了悲
-bricksonly(鑫鑫鑫);
2011-3-31
{110}
(#6593878@0)
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一个奔五的黄金单身汉是不会有这些小子情调的。尤其是对办公室恋情,如果是正经有那个意思的,会很支持调动的。不如楼主以退为进。不会有什么损失的。
-yahoo11(canada);
2011-3-31
(#6593868@0)
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+1
-goodshot(我爱蜜桃儿);
2011-3-31
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直播~你知道你那老男人是不是我们其中一个ID,现在在给你出主意。还是不要直播了。。根据你们的发展,我认为,那老男人还在继续装蒜。但是,可以肯定,你于他,还是有腥味滴
-bricksonly(鑫鑫鑫);
2011-3-31
(#6593863@0)
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男人看男人。。。准确度应该高点儿。。。
-redsky(忧伤苹果);
2011-3-31
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I know...when in university, the boy considered the best by boys is not welcome by girls...dont know why...and WSN were always welcomed, IN FACT....you get what you want only if you do...
-bricksonly(鑫鑫鑫);
2011-3-31
(#6593934@0)
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Tell you what. I mentioned about Rolia to him today. But he didn't know the site at all.
-alotgooddays(agoodday);
2011-3-31
(#6593968@0)
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That will be real good. I mean he knows and laughs right now, but he just continues pretending knowing nothing...
-bricksonly(鑫鑫鑫);
2011-3-31
(#6593983@0)
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At least he is in a meeting now, he is not on computer......... Lol.........
-alotgooddays(agoodday);
2011-3-31
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He is nowhere. He is everywhere. You cannot escape.
-bricksonly(鑫鑫鑫);
2011-3-31
(#6594009@0)
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纸上谈情,怎么了得。 送你三个字:搞 搞 搞 ! 要么搞定,要么搞砸,总比伤脑筋强!
-win(秋天的菠菜);
2011-3-31
(#6593864@0)
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+1000~~~~
-dong3213(2011年要积极一点的牛);
2011-3-31
(#6593869@0)
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4d4d, 9494 D~~~~哈哈,今天是感性天。。。
-echos999(陀飞轮);
2011-3-31
{24}
(#6593870@0)
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菠菜终于露出真面目了。。。厉害呀。。。
-redsky(忧伤苹果);
2011-3-31
(#6593882@0)
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I count two, not three, how come?
-bricksonly(鑫鑫鑫);
2011-3-31
(#6594205@0)
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这么好个机会给你表白你却白白的浪费了!说你什么好呢,你该明确告诉他,你想换部门正是因为他的存在,借这个机会把心思表白一下再告诉他换工作的目的就是怕将来不好面对他。。。
-mxinmfei(没新没废);
2011-3-31
(#6593891@0)
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There is still good timing right now. OP, call your honey(boss, sorry), tell him maybe you cannot take the offer because you don't want to make him bad-looking by raise his potiental partner...
-bricksonly(鑫鑫鑫);
2011-3-31
(#6593908@0)
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这话,是不是还是约他出去谈啊, 不在办公室里说比较好啊? 因为, 要说完这么多话, 还是得需要一点时间的。 还需要点气氛吧。
-alotgooddays(agoodday);
2011-3-31
(#6593950@0)
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no, take him out means sth, call during work time means much better...he's the leader he should take care of you, let him do it and give him a test. If break, ask him to leave not you, and raise your position before he leaves. Then, always WIN!!
-bricksonly(鑫鑫鑫);
2011-3-31
(#6593964@0)
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Isn't that a day dream? Ask him to leave the job? I might get fired.
-alotgooddays(agoodday);
2011-3-31
(#6593970@0)
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Wont, for sure. This man wont do this to you. No asking him to leave, but prepired for the worst: break, then he should leave...like he paid every meals shared by you...he is not a man want to take you anything but just refuse giving you sth, maybe
-bricksonly(鑫鑫鑫);
2011-3-31
(#6593992@0)
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or he is testing ur reaction?
-wince(carpe diem);
2011-3-31
(#6593918@0)
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OP, no PP no reality!
-bricksonly(鑫鑫鑫);
2011-3-31
(#6593924@0)
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问世间情为何物?乃是一物降一物!当内心狂热外表矜持死要面子活受罪的你 遇到不主动不拒绝假装糊涂乐在其中的他 ~~~
-sr-71(Blackbird);
2011-3-31
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嗯呐。 嗯呐
-alotgooddays(agoodday);
2011-3-31
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sounds not good to publicly broadcasted...
-bricksonly(鑫鑫鑫);
2011-3-31
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#6591902@0
-sr-71(Blackbird);
2011-3-31
(#6593978@0)
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那哥们未必乐吧?
-kevin_tor(KFC);
2011-3-31
(#6593946@0)
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损兵折将呗。。。
-redsky(忧伤苹果);
2011-3-31
(#6593965@0)
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要不你试探地问一下他对同事们开你俩的玩笑怎么看?老外也很八卦的, 你们俩出去吃饭, 别人私底下肯定会说些什么的, 他作为老板不可能不知道。。。
-siwuxu(无根藤);
2011-3-31
(#6593990@0)
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He goes out for lunch with different staff, he is very open to everyone. It is interesting to see that a few female staff in our office are really dressing up these days, and they invited him out for lunch more often than me.
-alotgooddays(agoodday);
2011-3-31
(#6593999@0)
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你已经妒嫉上拉...你不太适合玩办公室恋情
-kevin_tor(KFC);
2011-3-31
(#6594008@0)
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别的同事拿你们开玩笑,他难道没反应么?
-goodshot(我爱蜜桃儿);
2011-3-31
(#6594014@0)
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开玩笑经常的事,也开过他和其他人的玩笑,大家都不当真。
-alotgooddays(agoodday);
2011-3-31
(#6594024@0)
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you never know~~~
-tyra(Zara);
2011-3-31
(#6594312@0)
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Ding
-yatou(Hello,city life);
2011-3-31
(#6594365@0)
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then i dont think you have a good chance, sorry to say so.
-siwuxu(无根藤);
2011-3-31
(#6594828@0)
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If he realize and ready to do sth to you, scream and pronounce H E L P
-bricksonly(鑫鑫鑫);
2011-3-31
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对,九金的建议一定要牢记,只有好处没坏处
-kevin_tor(KFC);
2011-3-31
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I just notice OP, dont make boss feels the possibility to get this result...boss's scared...
-bricksonly(鑫鑫鑫);
2011-3-31
(#6594027@0)
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坏一下,宁愿喊R O O M
-alotgooddays(agoodday);
2011-3-31
(#6594032@0)
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or...Not Stop....
-kevin_tor(KFC);
2011-3-31
(#6594034@0)
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I think you should ask: ...so, you are experienced, are you?
-bricksonly(鑫鑫鑫);
2011-3-31
(#6594199@0)
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Lol.....
-alotgooddays(agoodday);
2011-3-31
(#6594240@0)
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OP, no kidding, u really should be carefulIt's your feeling not his so all the behavior you mentioned is most likely not the FACT.
And you know, it's easy for men to run after women.
Ask any men: take me, he will definately goes away
Make your man want you and would like to have a baby with you, then you own the man.
It's very few hope to make a 47 oldy do this, sigh.
-bricksonly(鑫鑫鑫);
2011-3-31
{335}
(#6594255@0)
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U r right. I take yr advice seriously.
-alotgooddays(agoodday);
2011-3-31
(#6594284@0)
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And I really appreciate it. Thanks.
-alotgooddays(agoodday);
2011-3-31
(#6594287@0)
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我觉得他也在这里~~~
-tyra(Zara);
2011-3-31
(#6594316@0)
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楼主都隆重推荐了,不来干吗?闲着也是闲着
-yatou(Hello,city life);
2011-3-31
(#6594350@0)
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是顺便问他,去什么中文论坛吗?他说,不去,因为他中文打字太慢。然后问他,有个枫下论坛还弄新年晚会,他说,哦?是吗?没听说过。然后就开始讲二十多年前他留学的趣事了。我没推荐。
-alotgooddays(agoodday);
2011-3-31
(#6594383@0)
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他骗人~~~
-tyra(Zara);
2011-3-31
(#6594389@0)
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打字的是少数,带眼睛来的比较多.
-yatou(Hello,city life);
2011-3-31
(#6594420@0)
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you are right~~~
-tyra(Zara);
2011-3-31
(#6594429@0)
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在了,也好,连纱都不用捅,省我烦。
-alotgooddays(agoodday);
2011-3-31
(#6594387@0)
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那就变成一场游戏一场梦了
-tyra(Zara);
2011-3-31
(#6594392@0)
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结果反正都一样。
-alotgooddays(agoodday);
2011-3-31
(#6594512@0)
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这么大的年纪了的两家伙还扭扭捏捏,真是。那个谁谁谁不是说过了吗:我要和你起床。千金一刻,发财要趁早。
-april_face(谁说不是);
2011-3-31
(#6594723@0)
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我要和你起床?????
-alotgooddays(agoodday);
2011-3-31
(#6594732@0)
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你怎么问题这么多呀
-happy090126(笑脸);
2011-3-31
(#6594750@0)
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我笨呗。
-alotgooddays(agoodday);
2011-3-31
(#6594782@0)
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不换, 才有机会交流。 等有结果再换不迟。
-gracexueli(doggie);
2011-3-31
(#6595029@0)
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要不,我给你介绍个男朋友吧。瞧你这纠结的……
-lilianliang(彪妹);
2011-3-31
(#6595037@0)
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你何苦呢,OP现在内分泌挣失着调,你不是把我往火坑里推么。
-bricksonly(鑫鑫鑫);
2011-3-31
(#6595050@0)
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你不行,那把大队男二副拎过来。
-lilianliang(彪妹);
2011-4-1
(#6596971@0)