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枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / 对于一个男人的第三次婚姻,他还能给我真爱吗?一年前网上认识加拿大快40岁的男友,我不计较他比我大12岁又有个3岁的儿子,因为他处处对我体贴入微,只是我很担心的是在6年之内他离过两次婚,都是他提出的,都说他的前妻不好无法再生活下去,他说我是他这一生中要找的人不会变心的,他在加拿大生活很辛苦,原来国内有好工作到到加拿大几年了还要打累勃,他要我结婚并申请我到加拿大,在国内我有好工作,如果他一直对我好,我到加拿大还值的,我可以不在呼他没钱没房还带一个幼子,可我就怕他变心.对于经过三次婚姻的男人,我能相信他对我一辈子好吗?
-huamulan(huamulan);
2007-12-17
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他命苦,你的更苦;既然如此又何必。换人没商量
-geoguy(沉着冷静是成功的妈妈);
2007-12-17
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这妈妈冷静的都有点冷酷了
-edcw(说着玩的);
2007-12-17
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都没问青红皂白
-edcw(说着玩的);
2007-12-17
(#4126461@0)
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就拆人
-edcw(说着玩的);
2007-12-17
(#4126465@0)
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事实都这么清楚了,还不问青红皂白, 老兄,不用说沉着冷静,就是意乱情迷的时候都可以看出
-geoguy();
2007-12-17
(#4126555@0)
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事实是:这妹妹说不定现在主要就想过来,先过来再说,不行再拾掇他.在加拿大女人空间大呀!男人的地位不是小4子嘛!名列宠物之后.
-edcw(说着玩的);
2007-12-17
(#4126710@0)
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真爱的不逢人就说,说的不一定真爱.都没我知到的多,嘿嘿!
-edcw(说着玩的);
2007-12-17
(#4126729@0)
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原来还以为你无知,现在看来无知的是我,严重自责一下
-geoguy();
2007-12-17
(#4126739@0)
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不用自责,谁让这世道险恶,谁让我老奸巨滑呢!以后跟着哥哥我多学2手.
-edcw(说着玩的);
2007-12-17
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love is just moment thing... and it takes your whole life to find out it is true or not...girl.
-backyard0000(tidyyard);
2007-12-17
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不值,加拿大不值,人也不值。
-shuaizhenfanren(帅VS率);
2007-12-17
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放弃吧,在加拿大做专业工作几年的都快变态了,更何况一个作几年labour的。还有应该是三个妻子主动离开他的吧?男人在这种事上总会伪装。你还是小心为好。
-g_gennifer(快乐笨猪);
2007-12-17
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nod, nod!
-newshoes(小冰壶);
2007-12-17
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and what would you plan to do in Canada???? you have to make sure you would be able to stand on your own feet, that is the most important part, if you are confident with being able to be independent then you may come over here, otherwise, ....
-backyard0000(tidyyard);
2007-12-17
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我现在是会计师,他说来加后,能找到工作最好,如果没找到就生孩子,他养我一辈子是没问题的.可真是这么容易吗?我没到过加拿大,不知加拿大的生活,福利好,一个人工作就能供全家?
-huamulan(huamulan);
2007-12-17
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"他养我一辈子"?????..... oh, girl, believe me, you are still young, you do not want to do that, even he offers, even he is able to do so.... and, the truth is he is unable to do so apparently...what you would face would be, going to the university here for a degree, that would take you 4 years, or at least 2 y college... then find yourself a real job.... that would take time, effort and money....and also the language barriers...if you can think through all of those ...
-backyard0000(tidyyard);
2007-12-17
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then 她离开他,then 他高呼她的不好,then 他再寻找一生中要找的人。
-shuaizhenfanren(帅VS率);
2007-12-17
(#4126592@0)
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anything is possible!!! but you live your life, none of others; if you are confident with yourself, if you are independent and you think at this moment, you want to live with him, then go ahead...no matter what happen later on, you always can stand on your own feet...that is the bottom line; never want to rely on anyone, even they offer to you ...
-backyard0000(tidyyard);
2007-12-17
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empty promises ... to finish your line.
-dusk(~小桥流水~);
2007-12-17
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if she is an independent person and is capable to get through all the necessary struggles...language, school, job hunting etc... and she wishes to live with him... then go ahead... always keep in mind --- being independent !!!
-backyard0000(tidyyard);
2007-12-17
(#4126694@0)
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养你一辈子?生小孩?估计是让你生了小孩以后你就很难离开他吧?(他想用小孩拴住你,我话难听,可真真为你好)
-g_gennifer(快乐笨猪);
2007-12-18
(#4128875@0)
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如果他说的是实话,说明他眼神儿一贯不好,怎么能确定你就是他“一生中要找的人不会变”呢?如果他说的不是实话。。。你说呢?
-dalianmao(上山打老虎);
2007-12-17
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nod,nod!
-newshoes(小冰壶);
2007-12-17
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不许瞎点头 不过这回我也nod nod
-ysysning(豆泡松果 之 樱桃果果);
2007-12-19
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没有朝夕相处,就敢嫁给他,太大胆了吧。这人在加十之八九,是个loser,专门骗不了解情况的姑娘。放弃吧。
-happyliveincanada(千金散尽还复来);
2007-12-17
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he is 3 times loser!
-newshoes(小冰壶);
2007-12-17
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这么简单的事情. 怎么就这么多傻女子呢? 如果这人不在加拿大, 你还会考虑他吗?
-dusk(~小桥流水~);
2007-12-17
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nod,nod!
-newshoes(小冰壶);
2007-12-17
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还有我担心的是,他结过这么多次婚,如果申请我来加,拒签的可能性也大,因为福建省的夫妻团聚并不容易批的,如果拒签,那就更难办了.我爱他,可又不知何去何从.
-huamulan(huamulan);
2007-12-17
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你是在挖坑吧. 动不动就"我爱他". Gosh...
-dusk(~小桥流水~);
2007-12-17
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this is a real story. long time ago, his ex-wife made a post here to complain about her ex.hubby
-besweet(sweet);
2007-12-17
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have u seen him? if not, how could u say u love him? by wild imagination?
-besweet(sweet);
2007-12-17
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我们在一起有两个月,他回国两次,这次要与我结婚
-huamulan(huamulan);
2007-12-17
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right now, you are the one who knows him, none of us; we only can explain to you what you would face in Canada; so, the choice is yours, and you always want to stand on your own feet, no matter where you are;by the way, Canada is a good country for you to live, but China is good enough and very promising as well!!
-backyard0000(tidyyard);
2007-12-17
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u should type chinese since she might not understand it at all
-youarealoser(write);
2007-12-17
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can not help with that, unfortunately!!!
-backyard0000(tidyyard);
2007-12-17
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I have to say: you are the most, stupidest girl I ever see!!!don't be stupid, you should have your owm life.
-newshoes(小冰壶);
2007-12-17
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you do not want to pass that judgement to anyone!!! You never want to expect too much from your partner, you have to make sure you have everything you need to survive this world; then things will be much simpler!!!
-backyard0000(tidyyard);
2007-12-17
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absolutely agree.
-kathrin.s(知更鸟);
2007-12-17
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爱谁谁!
-newshoes(小冰壶);
2007-12-17
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how do you know you love him???over the internet?
-newshoes(小冰壶);
2007-12-17
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that may happen for sure!!!
-backyard0000(tidyyard);
2007-12-17
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It happens when people got crazy!
-newshoes(小冰壶);
2007-12-17
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我跟你讲,人离过一次婚, 还可以原谅,如果两次,就说明这个人本身就有问题。 canada不是你想象的就是天堂,你要耐得住寂寞,你要经受生存的压力。 你在国内有那么好的工作为什么要过来? he is a liar, no doubt about that. "他说我是他这一生中要找的人不会变心的?"lol i swear to the god,he said same thing to his two exs..
-besweet(sweet);
2007-12-17
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你比我更沉着冷静
-geoguy();
2007-12-17
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en..沉着冷静is mommy of success
-besweet(sweet);
2007-12-17
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人家不急,你们急死了!
-edcw(说着玩的);
2007-12-17
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nod
-newshoes(小冰壶);
2007-12-17
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如果两次,就说明这个人本身就有问题。---- how could you get that conclusion ???? so many people did that so many times, they are still good people. so what????
-backyard0000(tidyyard);
2007-12-17
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It has nothing to do with a good person or not, but the capability to choose the right one and make a marriage successful. If this person failed twice already, he lost the credit on such capability, at least for average people with average wisdom.
-sheepskin(小羊皮);
2007-12-18
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ABC host Peter Jennings divorced twice..then the third time he married again with another nice lady till he died...He is a man full of wisdom...
-backyard0000(tidyyard);
2007-12-18
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你来这里问没什么那么用的,最了解他的最佳人选是他的两位前妻,正反都了解是了解真相的最佳途径。不过,这个很难。至少,你要是能和他父母亲(估计还在国内)聊聊他的情况,就算只有一天两天也多一个旁观者,尽管父母亲都会帮儿子,但是若有谎言就会对不上号-----通过这关是信任的最基本的要求。
你现在听到的都是一面之词。他说我是他这一生中要找的人不会变心的----鬼都知道,无论那个女孩结婚前都听过这么一句话。结了几次婚,倒过来说都很流利了。
-maple8888(枫叶子);
2007-12-17
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"结了几次婚,倒过来说都很流利了。"hahahaha! so funny!
-newshoes(小冰壶);
2007-12-17
(#4126823@0)
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还是你沉着冷静!
-int_arts(int_arts);
2007-12-17
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我觉得你先别想他会不会“永远爱你”什么的,你先问问自己,如果他不能把你弄来加拿大,你在国内遇到他,岁数大,没钱,离过2次婚,有小孩,网上认识,没多长时间了解,对你说过海誓山盟的话,这么一个男人,你还爱他吗?如果答案是“是”,再扯别的。
-kk1997(愿岁月静好,心想事成);
2007-12-17
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还是你冷静有头脑.不过很多是不用问的,国内的急功近利---,嘿嘿!
-edcw(说着玩的);
2007-12-17
(#4126741@0)
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maybe
-huamulan(huamulan);
2007-12-17
(#4126755@0)
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这位美眉,我觉得你连这点都肯定不了的话,还是要慎重考虑。婚姻不是你一个人的事,如果你嫁给一个人不是因为爱,害人害己。
-kk1997(愿岁月静好,心想事成);
2007-12-17
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I have to say: you are stupid.
-newshoes(小冰壶);
2007-12-17
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“事不过三”祝愿你是他的终点。
-loneliman(孤独 游);
2007-12-17
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网上认识加拿大快40岁的男友?!are you crazy?!
-newshoes(小冰壶);
2007-12-17
(#4126789@0)
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40岁咋啦?
-edcw(说着玩的);
2007-12-17
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快40岁的男友,我不计较他比我大12岁又有个3岁的儿子,6年之内他离过两次婚,在加拿大生活很辛苦,他没钱没房还带一个幼子" why doesn't he find a female who is around 40 or 离过婚, even 离过两次婚
-newshoes(小冰壶);
2007-12-17
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Why he would like to find a young girl who never get married before?
-newshoes(小冰壶);
2007-12-17
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因为新鲜水灵呀!谁不想追求美好的?难到只有一小撮人有这权力?
-edcw(说着玩的);
2007-12-17
(#4126887@0)
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谁不想追求美好的? you got it! young girl also 有这权力!
-newshoes(小冰壶);
2007-12-17
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are you stupid or someting?!"可我就怕他变心." 对于经过三次婚姻的男人-他already 变心3times!!!
-newshoes(小冰壶);
2007-12-17
(#4126797@0)
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奇怪,这男的反而没有担心会做搬运工。莫非有高招?
-happysmile(快乐小路);
2007-12-17
(#4127577@0)
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小路明眼人。
-int_arts(int_arts);
2007-12-17
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he said he has no money....must use this girl's money.
-wince(MerryGoRound);
2007-12-18
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也许,谁知道呢
-coffeeman(猫腻);
2007-12-17
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你自己是会计师,你靠自己就能办移民了,犯得着非要找个男人嫁过来团聚移民吗?单身女人还更好申请,批得更快呢!移民过来这里以后,你嫁给谁不行!非要吊死在这棵歪脖树上?!
-newshoes(小冰壶);
2007-12-17
(#4127718@0)
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另两种可能性更大:1.就是一坑。2.是这男的在发帖看看是不是会做搬运工呢!你想:”在国内我有好工作“,怎么会在加拿大的3-6pm网上发帖?不睡觉明天怎么去工作。估计是男女骗子碰上了,又是一个贪色一个贪身份的例子,和安钢差不多的啦。
-int_arts(int_arts);
2007-12-17
(#4127785@0)
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这不是坑,我诚心来这里请教的,如果我已在加拿大又了解加拿大,这些事都好办了.感谢大家的忠告.
-huamulan(huamulan);
2007-12-18
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Is he the only and last man in this world?
-6bear6(maple bear);
2007-12-18
(#4130001@0)
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that is unfair question...and kind of mean..
-backyard0000(tidyyard);
2007-12-18
(#4130016@0)
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If she feels hurt and could reconsider her decision. I would like to be mean in that way. Good Luck.
-6bear6(maple bear);
2007-12-19
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do you know that man??? How could you judge a person like that????
-backyard0000(tidyyard);
2007-12-19
(#4131709@0)
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Oops, it is getting more and more interesting. Just don't understand what's the point of some many question marks. HeHe...
-6bear6(maple bear);
2007-12-19
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妹妹,我不理解,"不计较他比我大12岁又有个3岁的儿子,只是我很担心的是在6年之内他离过两次婚",他哪一点比国内的男人好?哪一点吸引你的? 你如果多看黄色录像,你也会"体贴入微"
-newlife_2006(newlife_2006);
2007-12-20
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真不知道爱上他什么,反正就很想和他结婚,尽管他家里人一直护着他的第二个老婆。。。。,人就是这么奇怪.
-huamulan(huamulan);
2007-12-20
(#4135291@0)
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我看你是中邪了!你的人生恐怕就是等着这场暴风雪的来临。你要是能力够强就冲吧,拼得好了,以后过好日子。拼得差了,就是teach you a lesson, 你也就安生了。祝你好运!
-newshoes(小冰壶);
2007-12-20
(#4135380@0)
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这么多朋友不看好这婚姻,有没有人类似我这情况,婚后过得幸福的?我真希望有人说有.
-huamulan(huamulan);
2007-12-21
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和没有钱的男人过,怎么幸福呢? 生活是很现实的,至少要有一点物质基础撒.所以国内的人结婚都要买房.这里也一样的. 你要问你这个未来的老公一下.如果你来加拿大后你的收入比他高,他能接受吗? 反过来,你能接受吗?
-rolandxxr(温柔一刀);
2007-12-23
(#4140561@0)
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理过三次婚,说明他眼光不行,三次都选错了。
还要结婚,说明他胆子大,有勇气。
又有女人愿意和他结婚,说明这个女的自信自己会强过前三个女人。
不知对你有没有帮助? 祝你幸运。
-ballfan(BALLFANS);
2007-12-24
(#4142106@0)
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Sorry, 看错了,只离了两次婚。
看贴不细,全是这圣诞酒闹的。
-ballfan(BALLFANS);
2007-12-24
(#4142109@0)
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在女人之间比较哪些方面才能算我比他的前二任强?目前,我只知道我比她们年轻至少7岁,我还知道他的第二任到加拿大不久就找到专业工作.婚姻就是赌注.
-huamulan(huamulan);
2007-12-30
(#4150866@0)
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偶只想知道.....他的EX484一个比一个年轻...
-proserpine(沉香);
2007-12-30
(#4150672@0)