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枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / 人生有真爱吗?能持续多久?
-alwayshappy(happy);
2007-10-5
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一生。
-esagf(lotus);
2007-10-5
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7 years. google "german 7 years itch legislation"
-win(秋天的菠菜);
2007-10-5
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depends on the understanding of '真爱', and it evolves when you grow...
-beit(左黄右苍);
2007-10-5
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没找到之前相信有,生活才会更有劲更美好。找到了就要想啊不会再有了,就该是这个样子了,是不是这样?
-kindcat(倔猫);
2007-10-6
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真爱是个结果而不是过程,因为未经风雨考验,你很难确认是不是真爱,就算女人每天都问:你是不是真的爱我呀?每天得到的那个“真爱”,也未必可以当真。参看:#3970382@0这个帖子已经略有探讨:不解的问一下,为什么大家出了国,很多都离婚了呢? -yoyohappy2008(yoyo); 10.3 19:13 (296 bytes. #3970382@0)
所以,不存在中间“找到了”的情形,即使曾经共患难,也保不住因富贵而分离;至于先富后难的,发生什么,大家都可以理解。。。
当然,很多人以为他们现在就是,嗯,我也希望他们生活在天上,而不是凡间;一生可以共担风雨,共赏彩虹,最终可以携手老去。。。
-happysmile(快乐小路);
2007-10-6
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基本上能分开得,到哪里都会分开的。移民只是一个诱因,移民后的压力让人直接的暴露本性,加速分开。不会分开的一辈子都不会!
-newshoes(一双绣了花的Puma);
2007-10-6
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基本上能分开得,到哪里都会分开的?----要是他们那都不去,也许就一辈子不分开了----这个世界又多了一份真爱。
-happysmile(快乐小路);
2007-10-7
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你听过咫尺天涯吗?什么时候你真的懂了这个词是什么意思,你就明白了!
-newshoes(一双绣了花的Puma);
2007-10-7
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真爱肯定有的,至于能持续多久,就难说了,也许一生,也许只有几个月。真爱也是感情,感情是会变的。而且感情的事情,往往受其他非感情因素的制约和影响。如果爱是在真空中的,应该是可以永恒的,就像杨过和小龙女,不用操心工作,mortgate和钱等。
人生难得有真爱,只要真心爱过,不管持续多久,也是值得珍惜的。
真爱要么在夫妻关系中持续,要么在情人关系中持续。前者的真爱会淡化为亲情,后者的真爱会由于缺乏一个共有的”家“而过早夭折。 有情人也未必能成眷属,只要相信真爱,心中有爱,就够了。
-allgone07(过去现在和未来);
2007-10-6
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精辟!
-bluebbird(learn to forget);
2007-10-6
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你的这种“真爱”,理论上,有的人一生可能会有无数次!问题是:和楼主的原定义一致吗?
-happysmile(快乐小路);
2007-10-6
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“理想,和爱情一样,是我们 必须全心相信的谎言”
-xizangren(summer);
2007-10-6
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There was love when young. There are responsibilities when more than young. Thus, much more family are happy all day.
-jacksoon(jacksoon);
2007-10-6
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as long as 你不再相信有爱!
-newshoes(一双绣了花的Puma);
2007-10-6
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你呢?
-serenade123(橘子红了);
2007-10-6
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我当然相信有啊!你呢?
-newshoes(一双绣了花的Puma);
2007-10-6
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en...我认为这种感情...不一定是生死与共...
但应该是不离不弃,患难与共的...见不到TA的时候,你会牵挂着TA.....
-serenade123(橘子红了);
2007-10-6
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TA是什么?
-newshoes(一双绣了花的Puma);
2007-10-6
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She or he...:)))
-serenade123(橘子红了);
2007-10-6
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如果两个人吵架,事后原谅对方,然后更珍惜对方,那就是真爱。理想化是没有任何外界因素限制,最简单也最感人的真爱就是她不在乎你做什么,有没有经济基础,爱的就是你这个人,而且永远鼓励他。那个他能够在天冷时候给她温暖,..(to be continued)
-readingbook(珍珠豆蔻);
2007-10-7
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快说快说!还有什么?偶好好学习学习:)
-geoguy(决定放松放松几个月);
2007-10-7
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Can't agree more. Where are such girls?
-mauser_98k(old rifle);
2007-10-7
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There are too many. Most of my girlfriends behave like that. However, the assumption is that the guy is good enough to deserve being treated and loved like that.
-summer.sxh(summer);
2007-10-12
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to be continued-- it's a secret..lol
-readingbook(珍珠豆蔻);
2007-10-8
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The secret is: that girl has never existed!
-panzer88(88 gun);
2007-10-8
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The secret is:for real nice girls,a guy’s financial status is among the least important factors to judge him.Howerer,such girls will not always come into your vision field.Even they do, some guys may feel unconfident and think it is too good to be true.
-summer.sxh(summer);
2007-10-12
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越问这问题,麻烦越多,越不在意这个问题,生活越幸福。
-intentional(confused);
2007-10-7
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“真爱”这个词其实包含很多Robert Sternberg曾经用一个三角形来解释过爱是什么,他认为爱有三部分(intimacy, passion, decision/commitment),只有三部分共同存在时才是爱的最高境界(他称为:consummate love)。
only intimacy=liking,
only passion=infatuation,
only commitment=empty love。
intimacy+passion=Romantic love
intimacy+commitment=Companionate love
Passion+commitment=Fatuous love
intimacy+passion+commitment=consummate love.
看个人追求什么了
-xxii(xxii);
2007-10-7
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我怎么觉得首先是patient呢?还有tolerance.
-newshoes(一双绣了花的Puma);
2007-10-7
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:)
-xxii(xxii);
2007-10-8
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有想知道真爱的靓MM请和我联系,我这里有的基本上都是真爱.
-edcw(说着玩的);
2007-10-7
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你是上帝?!
-newshoes(一双绣了花的Puma);
2007-10-8
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I like tender, caring and smart girl, that will be my 真爱. Is it very difficult to find?
-panzer88(88 gun);
2007-10-8
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sure, love myself, my daughter and wife.
-caa(ChinaEI);
2007-10-12
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