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枫下沙龙 / 谈天说地 / 你的生活是一种表演吗?
-drunker(酒囊饭袋);
2002-1-13
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一旦你显露了表演和展示的倾向,(转)世界就会即刻进入并禁锢你。你成了一个受害者。一旦你对他人对你的看法发生兴趣,你的每一个新的行动都将是一次失败。你活着,满足你自己,其他人活着,满足他们自身。如果他们对你有所期望,那是他们的问题,他们将痛苦。但你不必为此弄虚作假。
-drunker(酒囊饭袋);
2002-1-13
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是呀,所以说人活着一定要先满足自己,让自己每天高兴才是真的!
-tristan(风亦雪@起个大早);
2002-1-13
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爱也是因为高兴,不是一种投资那么,婚姻是一种投资吗?
-drunker(酒囊饭袋);
2002-1-13
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YES?
-babyface(Tracy);
2002-1-13
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愿闻高见
-drunker(酒囊饭袋);
2002-1-13
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Investment of LOVE, SHARE, GIVING?U used a evil word through!
-babyface(Tracy);
2002-1-13
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Didn't you seesome intend to see marriage as investment?
didn't you hear the conversation like --
husband, "I've done this, this and this; you should do that, that and that."
Wife, "I've been fair to you, but you didn't give me this and that..."
When a couple start to compare who devote to the family more, doest't it sound like an investment?
-drunker(酒囊饭袋);
2002-1-13
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Well, both should contribute to their marriage of coz........by their own role and ability......The point is not HOW MUCH, The point is: HOW HARD U DO.....right?
-babyface(Tracy);
2002-1-13
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我同意爱不是一种投资,不然就不是ture love, 有的“气管炎”一辈子过的幸福,因为他一直有恋爱的感觉!
-tristan(风亦雪@起个大早);
2002-1-13
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U mean a hopeless maybe happier than a engineer who has stable job and stable marriage life?
-babyface(Tracy);
2002-1-13
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I meant, when it's not for living, one should follow its heart rather than follow other's
-drunker(酒囊饭袋);
2002-1-13
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some people set their living goal like a house, car, kids, wife, dogs. Some people set it like: Have extra money to travel lot....Some are jet plane....and The truth is: most people chase after material......coz they will be happier after get those.......
-babyface(Tracy);
2002-1-13
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also coz material wouldn't betray their owner.....haha
-drunker(酒囊饭袋);
2002-1-13
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U got! :-)
-babyface(Tracy);
2002-1-13
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NO, lower level than that even! :-)
-babyface(Tracy);
2002-1-13
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What do you mean by lower level?
-drunker(酒囊饭袋);
2002-1-13
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I am not famous, successfully, holding a high position and rich! :-(
-babyface(Tracy);
2002-1-13
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Well, the key to you own happiness is whether you are following your heart, right?once a white friend of mine said to me :" xxxx, you know, you Chinese are so used to play guilt - how parents would think about it if I do this or that; how other people expect me to do this or that.... For western guys, we would say,"who cares?!!!!" no wonder Chinese are less happier!"
I opened my mouth, then said in a lower tone," not all the time...."
-drunker(酒囊饭袋);
2002-1-13
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I know, esp Chinese men have more pressure from parents and society.Tell u truth: Now, I am following money, :-) ha ha!
-babyface(Tracy);
2002-1-13
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goot thoughts! ;-}
-drunker(酒囊饭袋);
2002-1-13
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