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枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / who will pay the bill during the dating?
-snowspring(orchid);
2007-8-24
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如果mm和国男dating,就得由国男pay...,有个别有个性的,AA的,通常就会受到歧视,有IBM 50刀男为例;和老外dating的,通常是AA....mm会觉得很正常,而且没有任何歧视。
-serenade123(橘子红了);
2007-8-24
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buddy, please wrap your head with your arms..... MMs are coming beat you to death....
-win(秋天的菠菜);
2007-8-24
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我只是为国男说句话,呵呵。。。无恶意:))))
-serenade123(橘子红了);
2007-8-24
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I've gone out with some CBCs, everytime I offer to pay, they never let me pay.They would say "Ok, you pay next time". I don't mind to pay AA but sometimes it just feels weird to split the bill. If I insist to pay AA, that means we are really just friends and I don't want to go any further with him or I don't expect to go out with him any more.
-doudoumei(逗你玩儿);
2007-8-24
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(#3889865@0)
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Totally agree with you. I did the same thing as you did.
-lindtchocolate(chocolate);
2007-8-24
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I just ask one white canadian: who pay the bill when they are dating. His answer is that the first day he will pay the bill, but if he like to continue the relationship, he likes share.
-blacksea(Blacksea);
2007-8-24
(#3890548@0)
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我想你的话,不同在于,国男想泡MM, MM想泡老外,所以有了你的结论,推理一下,好像也没什么不对
-eaglebrook(溪流);
2007-8-28
(#3899303@0)
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呵呵,,,你还挺爱推理?其实我想说,国女对内,对外在搞双重标准。。。这是典型的种族歧视。。。是崇洋媚外^o^
-serenade123(橘子红了);
2007-8-29
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(#3899617@0)
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DATE到拉手之前都是AA
-peeler(逛街的西瓜);
2007-8-24
(#3889802@0)
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拉手->AA , emm, very graphical..... so basically when AA becomes E, they won't split bills any more....
-win(秋天的菠菜);
2007-8-24
(#3889920@0)
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啥?
-peeler(逛街的西瓜);
2007-8-24
(#3889933@0)
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did you get it eventually?
-win(秋天的菠菜);
2007-8-24
(#3890056@0)
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啥?
-peeler(逛街的西瓜);
2007-8-24
(#3890467@0)
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如果只是dating的话,aa好些吧。
-pingaling(Doraemon);
2007-8-24
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我付。
-rollor(Rollor);
2007-8-24
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有这好事儿?说的我都想Dating了。。。LOL
-noproblem(。o O);
2007-8-24
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LOL....
-jj999ca(jj999ca);
2007-8-24
(#3889989@0)
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每一个勇于赶赴 DATING 的人,都应该具备 “我付钱” 的大无畏精神。要不然,这 DATING 很容易就失败了。
-rollor(Rollor);
2007-8-24
(#3890185@0)
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Really? “我付钱” 的大无畏精神sounds money talks, so dating is more like talking money 。。。
-noproblem(。o O);
2007-8-24
(#3890263@0)
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勇于“我付钱”是成功约会的必要条件,不是充分条件。此条件对男女双都适用。
-rollor(Rollor);
2007-8-24
(#3890391@0)
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原来rollor的话是有但书的… : )
-righttoleft(noname);
2007-8-24
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但书何解?。。。
-noproblem(。o O);
2007-8-24
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和很多周围的mm们讨论过这个问题,结论是如果gg真的想追到mm就不要吝啬,因为mm通常会把gg是否愿意为她花钱当作一个衡量感情的标准。所以建议国男们如果真的想追到你中意的mm就一定要大方点,多给自己创造点机会。如果大家只是普通朋友的话,谁付都无所谓。
-lindtchocolate(chocolate);
2007-8-24
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How can I do if a guy have paid the bill for one week dating. Should I pay the coming week during the dating ?
-snowspring(orchid);
2007-8-24
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NO.....让他继续付下去。。。。。
-serenade123(橘子红了);
2007-8-24
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I personally feel if you want to be with him, then think for him.If he is rich and doesn't care about how much money he spends on you, you can casually pay for him whenever you like(but if he insists to pay everything for you, then let him do it and you can find other ways to "thank him" ;) ). If he is not in a good financial shape, you'd better help him pay the bill.
-doudoumei(逗你玩儿);
2007-8-24
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(#3890393@0)
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Agree.
-lealealea(leah);
2007-8-28
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现在的问题是;朱古利易找,甜心难寻呀!揣着钱都找不到心甘情愿想为她花的人.
-edcw(说着玩的);
2007-8-24
(#3890323@0)
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Make more friends:)
-doudoumei(逗你玩儿);
2007-8-24
(#3890450@0)
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How can I reject one guy who wants to see me everyday?
-snowspring(orchid);
2007-8-24
(#3890512@0)
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就说。。。今天,橘子请我吃饭。。。
-serenade123(橘子红了);
2007-8-24
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(#3890538@0)
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How hard is it to tell him directly? Or you can say you are busy.. busy... busy... everytime. lol
-doudoumei(逗你玩儿);
2007-8-24
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我的意思是:找个吃1,2次饭的mm真的很容易,找个想请她吃一辈子饭的很难,已经请n个MM吃了n+m次饭了,都是无言的结局,好在吃饭都不用付钱(涮卡),否则那个伤呀!
-edcw(说着玩的);
2007-8-26
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吃饭不付钱何称为“请”? 再说,功利心不要太强。就算做不成男女朋友,也可以做普通朋友嘛!也许她所认识的女孩子中有你的“那一位”呢?不过切莫误导对方,如果真能交个朋友那也挺值吧。
-doudoumei(逗你玩儿);
2007-8-26
(#3893696@0)
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没老婆俺急呀!那有闲情雅趣和闲杂人员吃饭聊天交朋友!
-edcw(说着玩的);
2007-8-26
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确实应该大方一点,不过这个mm一直没有表示,又很安心花你的钱的话,还是放下屠刀,及早回头是岸吧,色字头上一把刀啊
-ouer(ouer);
2007-8-24
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基本上通常会把gg是否愿意为她花钱当作一个衡量感情的标准的mm,通常iq和eq都有问题。如果你真心爱他,和他过日子的,他的钱就是你的钱,你乱花他的钱就是乱花自己的钱;如果你不爱他,乱花他的钱就是rpwt了
-ouer(ouer);
2007-8-24
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提这种问题的应该是女人吧。如果你和他交往,有一点点诈或卖的成分,就该让他付。如果你是真心和他交往,就不该有这样的问题。
-whatifso8(高中生);
2007-8-24
(#3890496@0)
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sharingI just ask my workmate who is white canadian guy. He said if the first day, he likes to pay the bills, but if he continue the relationship, he likes sharing.
-blacksea(Blacksea);
2007-8-24
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(#3890556@0)
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so easy.. if you like the guy.. let him pay it; otherwise AA..
-readingbook(reader..);
2007-8-24
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我觉得第一次还是AA比较好一点吧,以后就看感觉了,如果还有以后的话.
-neversummer(sam);
2007-8-24
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agree. lol
-lilyba(sunshine 阳光灿烂);
2007-8-26
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都dating啦,还是哪个有钱哪个付好了:)
-fattyfish(囧 最近有点败--);
2007-8-24
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前几天刚问得,说是男方看上女方的就男的付钱,没看上的就AA。所以,以后不论结果,付款之前绝对要先走人,免得浪费时间,自己付钱而且还很受伤。不过,在国内好像看上看不上都得男的付钱,我曾介绍一个哥们工农中建加中央银行5个MM,全部都他买单,乐得我白吃白喝,他还要同我说谢谢。
-hillsouth(海珠珠);
2007-8-24
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(#3891285@0)
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为此,其他的哥们纷纷请我吃饭,那时觉得3个人加起来100多岁实在很恐怖,保证义不容辞得继续推销。结果害得我在银行的朋友到处抓人,因为不能把介绍过的MM在介绍给其他的哥们,最后差点开PARTY了
-hillsouth(海珠珠);
2007-8-24
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