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枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / 真想在外面交个异性朋友寻求点安慰. 哪怕是可以诉说心中的苦闷也好.来到加拿大八年, 我持一份不错的工作赚钱养家. 老婆没有工作过一天. 我从来不抱怨她. 回到家后还尽可能地做家务. 可老婆不怎么通情达理. 在很多事情上觉得她对我很苛刻. 有时甚至为了一点小事骂得我很难受. 本人各方面都不错, 对老婆也好. 但却搞不懂为什么老婆会对我那样. 我在多伦多附近没有亲人, 也很少朋友,. 有时真想在外面交个异性朋友寻求点安慰. 哪怕是可以诉说心中的苦闷也好
-songtao(SONGTAO);
2007-7-11
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同情ing, 可要把握好尺度, :-)
-warmbedtonight(来吧...);
2007-7-11
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那你LP 在家干吗? 如果在带小孩, 你应该多与她沟通.
-lovingmom(confused question);
2007-7-11
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my daugter is five years old. it is not difficult to take care of her.
-songtao(SONGTAO);
2007-7-11
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Though, it's not difficult for her to take care of a five-years-old, still she has to bind with her and has no freedom to do her own stuff. Try to talk to her and add more understand between each other.
-lovingmom(confused question);
2007-7-11
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Why don't you talk with your wife? 诉说心中的苦闷 to 异性朋友 will make things worse.
-holly999(酒肴肴-就是下酒小菜);
2007-7-11
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同意,要是给她看到这种信息,日子就更不好过啦
-xiey302(sandie);
2007-7-11
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thank you. i will. actually i talked with her for so many times. it is hard to change her
-songtao(SONGTAO);
2007-7-11
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well, well... - http://fh.rolia.net/f0/c7050/all/post/2995111.html
-woshishui(woshishui);
2007-7-11
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mark
-buma(蔓毒黛扬);
2007-7-11
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有个孩子5岁,估计你结婚七年了,so it is your 七年之痒。
-roshi(如是我闻);
2007-7-11
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why not make friends with same gender , especially couples , and let your wife know them as well , broad her imagine.
-linxia7_7(qianqian);
2007-7-11
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yes. i did. everytime she directly told me other people's husbands are better than I am.
-songtao(SONGTAO);
2007-7-11
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Hehe...Don't worry...not only your wife...99% married women will agree on this..
-pandabamboo(deepsnow);
2007-7-11
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but i don't think they will tell their husbands directly
-songtao(SONGTAO);
2007-7-11
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no,no, they wont. they will tell other woman's husband derectly....
-cocorice(心想事成);
2007-7-11
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和你LP沟通沟通吧,说不定很多你不注意的细节她很在意,女人有时候就是小心眼,有时候小事看的很重,无法自拔, 关键是看你的能否让她平衡下来,女人被爱着的时候,是不会去”攀比“人家的老公,古云:情人眼里出西施
-pandabamboo(deepsnow);
2007-7-13
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maybe she's telling the truth...
-cocorice(心想事成);
2007-7-11
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did u ask what is better , in what sense ?
-linxia7_7(qianqian);
2007-7-11
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That's a very destructive thing to do to a relationship. Sorry to be cruel, but maybe she's having an affair? Or maybe she's just mean by nature - pay attention to her parents behavior, you can find it out.
-woodhead(Happy Wood-Head);
2007-7-11
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So go with swing. who 怕 who
-tubie(上浮)(冒泡)(下潜);
2007-7-11
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Another possible reason is that your wife stay at home too long specially in this kind environment..far away from families and friends and less social activities could change a person.she might need more attentions from husband due to above reasons.Communication among two people and increase some social activities could be helpful.
-pandabamboo(deepsnow);
2007-7-11
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http://fh.rolia.net/f0/c7050/all/post/2978105.html
-buma(蔓毒黛扬);
2007-7-11
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可能白天你挺好,晚上你却怠慢了你妻子.有些妻子可能长期呆在家里吧,反正不知什么原因,火变的很大,需要专职的灭火员---老公,努力灭火,所以光谈没用,要用实力,否则很可能大火焚家.作男人难呀,作人家老公的男人更难!白天拼命地干赚钱养家,晚上还要前仆后继地干,否则那个日子过的叫烦,哎,难呀!
-edcw(说着玩的);
2007-7-11
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如有很能的话还是跟老婆先谈谈吧!了解她的真实想法。
-whatislove(什么是爱);
2007-7-11
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同情, 生活中见过两对夫妻因妻子不出去工作与社会脱了节, 自己不仅每天生活在自己的井里不仅变得很不随和, 在和劳工思想交流上出现了也很大的分歧. 你们夫妇俩该不是我认识的吧?
-northface(夫妻双双来砸砖);
2007-7-11
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有意思,你06年就开始网络征友,到现在还没啥收获么?另外,你那征友用语明显有其他倾向,说明你说找同性朋友更苦恼其实可能只是借口.
-dalianmao(上山打老虎);
2007-7-11
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ah..
-bugkiller(Driver Coding);
2007-7-13
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无言.独上.青楼
-it.uncle(路逍遥);
2007-7-12
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OMG, maybe you always go there.
-budwaterlily(含苞露荷);
2007-7-12
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没有去过。因为我没有楼主那么苦闷。
-it.uncle(路逍遥);
2007-7-12
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这里真是一个鱼目混珠的地方! 婚外恋 横行
-nohwl(NOHWL);
2007-7-12
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哪里不横行?对了,国内已经不横行了,国内流行。从大款包二奶开始横行,到现在
中产阶级接受事实共同参与,实现了质的飞跃。
-it.uncle(路逍遥);
2007-7-12
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"在多伦多附近没有亲人, 也很少朋友," 两个人有同样问题.找找背景合适的家庭做朋友
-is4life(ON);
2007-7-12
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1.媳妇太闲,让她上学跟同学比分数, 你得装作特关心她:"啊?你都这么玩命了怎么GPA才3.9呀?". 2.你太忍让, 主动找个茬气气她,然后再哄回来, 找找"驾驭"的感觉.
-findinghouse(不写错别字。8);
2007-7-12
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高手!
-warmbedtonight(来吧...);
2007-7-12
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感觉你的分析最有道理. 我还读完了你在ROLIA的所有文章系列. 非常感激.
-songtao(SONGTAO);
2007-7-12
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lz要有这个本事也不会到今天这步了。
-whatislove(什么是爱);
2007-7-13
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楼上的说得对,不能把老婆关在家里,她成天除了你女儿就是你,没别的事干,日久天长,就把你当她儿子看待了。娘数落儿子,你见有客气的么?
-ffuunn(人约黄昏);
2007-7-13
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还要预防"红杏出墙", 现在这个世道啊, 哎! 女人说出就出了.
-redhotchili(Red&Hot);
2007-7-13
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主要原因就是老婆呆在家。当年我lp也是这样。老发火,搞的我宁愿呆公司也不愿回家。后来孩子送daycare,她也出去上学,有了自己的交际圈才好多料,现在电话比我还多。
-bugkiller(Driver Coding);
2007-7-13
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