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枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / XDJM, tell me your ideas if I have the right to love her and to be loved by herA single man, more than 30s, have a temporary job to cover daily spending and pursue a professional career with huge pressure and uncertainty. She is a really beautiful and lovely girl with her smartness, has a decent job with the stable life, and treat me very well when we were together and don't mind my situation right now. But last night, she cried sort of for my pressure. I hesitate because I don't want to ruin her peaceful life and let her to feel disappointment in the future.
-dreamingman(colorparrot);
2007-6-25
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'she cried sort of for my pressure' ...not quite understand what that is supposed to be?
-geoguy(谁敢横刀立马);
2007-6-25
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right, i am "sort of " confused too, not the words but the logic of context
-ffuunn(ffuunn);
2007-6-25
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I use " sort of " because she felt push me forward so hard under the pressure, but she don't want to do that to me. She don't want to give me more pressures and any responsibilities for we are together.
-dreamingman(colorparrot);
2007-6-25
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女人都是要现实稳定和生活可期盼的,如果你真的爱她,就放手吧,等你有了稳定未来再回头,如果她已经嫁了别人就祝福她,如果她还在等你就祝福你自己,世界上的好女人很多。。。
-maple88(㊣枫叶);
2007-6-25
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是啊,这个是困难的时候。只要你还有信心,对自己的前途有信心,无论成功失败,你都有坚强生活的信心,我觉得你可以继续追她。收入,体面的收入是爱情和婚姻里的因素,不过不是最大的因素。我认为应该是其他方面的,那就是你的坚强,你的努力,你的关怀,你的忍耐,你的坚定,你的自信,随时提供作为男人的保护。事业也许是自信的基础,可是一个人没有在专业上获得承认,有很多原因,不要因为没有好工作这一点而失去追求的勇气。生活到底是很宽广的一个经历。不要失去勇气,努力,但也现实。如果是好姑娘,就追。
-triton(我就喜欢写读后感);
2007-6-25
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我觉得这些话你不应该来问我们,应该对她说。你爱她,愿意为她努力,但是目前你他和她有差距,你有顾虑,问她愿不愿意给你一点时间。如果她愿意等你,你应该加把劲,如果她退缩了,也一如既往的祝福她。如果她不确定,那么让爱,心来决定。但是你应该把顾虑说给她听,以免有错觉或误解。
-tearmark(泪印子);
2007-6-25
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The hard situation for me is how to response these words in her last night's email: no matter what you do to make a living, no matter where you go, i am always with you.
-dreamingman(colorparrot);
2007-6-25
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告诉她,你是个幸运的男人,你会尽你可能的让她幸福。你怎么还会有疑虑呢,当然是勇往直前,你的疑虑简直对她是羞辱。你的犹豫,会另她对你失望的。
-tearmark(泪印子);
2007-6-25
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Even though I will try my best to make a well living condition for us, I am still afraid of that I can't make it finally and dragging her to a worse life.
-dreamingman(colorparrot);
2007-6-25
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原来是怕辜负她。其实女人也很简单,如果让她知道最终有可能的结果, 她也会甘心的,但是不要给空头支票。
-tearmark(泪印子);
2007-6-25
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你会爱一个因为你有钱或者有好工作才爱你的女人吗?你这里说的话反映出了你的爱情观。我倒有点替那个女孩子担心。刚才有个帖子讲有的男人成功了就会换老婆。我想你把爱情和功利捆绑在一起的观念,将来就有这个危险
-ffuunn(ffuunn);
2007-6-25
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I've called and told her that I will take the responsibilities for the future.
-dreamingman(colorparrot);
2007-6-25
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人都放胜负手了,还犹豫什么?
-tidy(大米虫);
2007-6-25
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遇到这么好的女孩,话说得这么白,一个大男人,居然还扭扭捏捏!
-happysmile(快乐小路);
2007-6-26
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