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枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / 真实故事--我,男朋友和他的分居妻子事。请大家给我出出注意吧。欢迎建议,接受批评,捣乱的不要.
-bepeaceful(爱羽);
2007-4-2
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(#3590649@0)
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你做的分析挺理智的, 这个人处理感情和亲情的能力有问题,自己婚都没离,却对你和别人吃饭啥的斤斤计较,你即使不和他马上分手,冷静一下也是必要的.
-tuantuan(油价跌破70);
2007-4-2
(#3590652@0)
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你做好打持久战的准备吧。 也是真实的故事, 我的朋友一直等到他男友的女儿高中毕业才结婚。她等了13年。不过现在很幸福。
-simmersnake(步履无声);
2007-4-2
(#3590660@0)
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离开, 他不care你, 只是要利用你.
-trytrytry(trytry);
2007-4-2
(#3590680@0)
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记得钱钟书曾经说过:读了大学的女子需找硕士男,硕士女就需找博士男,那流了洋的女博士就只能找双料男博士了。看来现在要加上:未婚的大龄女就只能找离异无孩男,离异无孩女就只能找离异有孩男了?女人何时何地都要对自己好点,何苦要掺合在他们家那些破事里呢?
-ivy_sh(失落的维京人);
2007-4-2
(#3590681@0)
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Absolutely.
-asker(amour);
2007-4-2
(#3590816@0)
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对“善意的谎言”看法是双面的:1,他还想和你好。2,也是男人想脚踩两只船的最好掩饰和借口或者说是手段。有点消极,但也是事实。你看看你能忍受多久,到头来顺其自然,不能忍,你也会自己离开他。你爱他,他爱你么?他更爱他的孩子。你干吗不要自己的孩子?那是你的权利!他如果不愿要你们自己的孩子那就是你眼瞎了,找错了人。
-kkll(庐山烤饼);
2007-4-2
{276}
(#3590736@0)
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SO DAMN RIGHT!!!!
-arfeifei(老顽童);
2007-4-2
(#3591280@0)
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他是个家庭型的男人,而且到了那年纪,也不可能内心把自己当成单身汉,他心里头位的是孩子,和孩子在一起那种家庭的感觉.他不CARE身边的女人怎么样.
-newtoronto(一家三口);
2007-4-2
(#3590741@0)
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说的对.他一定还有些留恋他的婚姻吧,不然一年前他就该离婚了. 更何况原来是他的老婆要离开的,现在如果说她后悔又希望两个人在一起,拿他是不是会为了孩子好而复合呢?
-sense(在雨中);
2007-4-2
(#3591215@0)
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Please, sister, please find a man who is legally divorced. GET RID OF THIS ONE.
-asker(amour);
2007-4-2
(#3590803@0)
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"分居两年多了", according to the Family Law, divorce can be finalized after one-year seperation, why this guy is still LEGALLY MARRIED after 分居两年多了? If he truly wanted to be with you, he would get divorced as soon as possible.
-asker(amour);
2007-4-2
(#3590810@0)
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LZ and him knew each other for only half a year. So he did not divorce for her is reasonalable.
-redcarrot(萝卜);
2007-4-2
(#3590844@0)
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Why get involved with a married man at the first at the first place, even he was just "legally married"?
-ruoer(乡下人);
2007-4-2
(#3590867@0)
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Why? because she simply love him! Do you always ask why before you love anyone? ;)
-redcarrot(萝卜);
2007-4-2
(#3590874@0)
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That kind of love is PATHETIC, indeed. Love a MARRIED GUY WITH A CHILD, AND NOT READY TO GET DIVORCED? For me, that is NOT love at all, but stupidity, blindness, and self-DISRESPECT.
-asker(amour);
2007-4-2
(#3590893@0)
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是啊,你是杜甫,但不是李白。:)
-redcarrot(萝卜);
2007-4-2
(#3590930@0)
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Even 李白 would not accept it, I bet. :)
-asker(amour);
2007-4-2
(#3591098@0)
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Of course, for love. If it was just for love, there is no difference between a single man, a married man or a man who is seperated but not divorced. Nothing wrong with being a mistress, as long as all parties accept it.
-ruoer(乡下人);
2007-4-2
(#3591016@0)
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Excuse me. For me, love means mutual respect, not that type of relationship between a married guy and a single lady., and to make things worse, that married guy has no intention to get divorced in the near future.
-asker(amour);
2007-4-2
(#3591083@0)
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I have already agreed with you. I am replying #3590874@0.Sometimes I feel I can see you:
a pair of inquisitive eyes hide behind glasses; always ready to respond and jump into a debate; slim and short, but one can't miss her even in crowd of hundreds; walk with a frisk pace with a very definite impression on her face; .....
Cheers, I am just exercising my imagination.
-ruoer(乡下人);
2007-4-2
{320}
(#3591214@0)
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Just a reminder that obviously, LZ DOES NOT accept it, which is why she posted a question mark here.
-asker(amour);
2007-4-2
(#3591088@0)
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Not for LZ or anyone else, but for himself, if he wants a new life. Obviously, he is not read to get COMMITTED to another woman, which is why he hasn't got divorced after 2-year seperation.
-asker(amour);
2007-4-2
(#3590883@0)
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同意asker MM. 那位男士如果真的爱LZ, 应该离婚. 感觉LZ比孩子妈在孩子爸的心目中的份量轻很多. LZ还是果断地撤离吧.
-wangqingshui(忘情水);
2007-4-2
(#3591134@0)
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Exactly, I'd say the same.
-kvapor(蒸蒸日上);
2007-4-2
(#3591163@0)
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Agree with you once.
-ruoer(乡下人);
2007-4-2
(#3590835@0)
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tuantuan,步履,trytry, ivy, asker,烤饼,还有 一家三口--真的挺感动,也非常感谢-- ---平时就能看见你们在网上的可爱的,幽默的,犀利的,或者智慧的发言。没想到今天你们能这么认真的给我出主意。真的很多谢。 我和他谈过了,让他改变不容易。我想最后我会选择割舍吧。 祝我,祝他,也祝你们大家都活得快乐!
-bepeaceful(爱羽);
2007-4-2
{206}
(#3590856@0)
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Be strong, sister. You deserve a better guy.
-asker(amour);
2007-4-2
(#3590895@0)
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舍得舍得,有舍,才有得.
-newtoronto(一家三口);
2007-4-2
(#3590902@0)
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Totally agree.
-alwaysbemaggie(xiaoxue);
2007-4-2
(#3591094@0)
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Just give him a chance to take the right actions showing he loves you. Otherwise, he wouldn't deserve your love without knowing what's right thing to do. All the execuse is bullshit.
-kvapor(蒸蒸日上);
2007-4-2
(#3591187@0)
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LZ is 35, and how long does she have to wait? Besides, the man seems to care more about his over-10-year marriage than LZ, a woman whom he just met for HALF A YEAR.
-asker(amour);
2007-4-2
(#3591277@0)
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But you need to be warned: They do not divoice after two years. And the reason for seperation is she does not want him. So he might still love her!!!If you want to marry him, you have to get used to a life disturbed by another woman forever, otherwise find another man. From your story, I feel you are really an excellent wife-to-be. Can I get to know you?
-redcarrot(萝卜);
2007-4-2
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(#3590857@0)
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I am pretty much sure that the guy loves nobody but himself and perhaps his daughter.
-asker(amour);
2007-4-2
(#3591107@0)
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No. The wife is the one who destroyed the family. She was more successful than husband, so she left him. Simply b'coz she did not get another man, she has not divorced the man temporally.I guess the poor man just could not accept this fact. He still loves has wife and daughter.
-redcarrot(萝卜);
2007-4-2
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(#3591164@0)
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I don't think the wife is supposed to be the only one who got blamed. Both the wife and the husband are resposible for the marital failure. Besides, we don't know the side of the wife's story.
-asker(amour);
2007-4-2
(#3591186@0)
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Yes, he loves the daughter, but not love his wife as much as you expect, though. Otherwise, he should not and would not have got a girlfriend while staying married.
-asker(amour);
2007-4-2
(#3591189@0)
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Or, this might be just a strategy to get his wife back to him, since the wife is super capable to earn the family a decent income.
-asker(amour);
2007-4-2
(#3591193@0)
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The wife had a white man first out of the marriage. She was a VP and is not a traditional wife that every man loves. So she is a very bad wife in the first place. There must be other things we donot know that delays the divorce.And LZ gets to know the man for merely half a year, it might be still too early for the boy and girl talking about a new marriage in a common sense.
-redcarrot(萝卜);
2007-4-2
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(#3591213@0)
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It doesn't matter, and what matters is that at this point, the wife is single, while the husband has got himself a pretty good girlfriend. As long as the wife has nobody, the husband will stay as somebody in her life, andshe will not let him go easily.
-asker(amour);
2007-4-2
{31}
(#3591223@0)
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Think about why the wife went to the white guy in the first place? Their family might have got some problems long before the white guy showed up in her life.
-asker(amour);
2007-4-2
(#3591247@0)
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My guess is: a family with a strong wife and weak man (in social status), is an unstable unit in current world with mixed stereotypes of men and women.
-redcarrot(萝卜);
2007-4-2
(#3591263@0)
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I obviously don't care about how the family get into this mess, and what I really care about is that LZ deserves better and LZ should leave this mess once for all.
-asker(amour);
2007-4-2
(#3591269@0)
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你也赶快生一个.
-flyingpig(小飞猪);
2007-4-2
(#3590935@0)
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千万别,自己委屈还不够,还带累着孩子也跟你受委屈?
-ruoer(乡下人);
2007-4-2
(#3591084@0)
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以后孩子就穿那个女人孩子穿剩下的衣服,用他们用剩下的玩具,你劳工倒是可以帮你们家省多点钱了。
-tracyd(假若明天来临);
2007-4-2
(#3591124@0)
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其实你现在的地位就是被夫人恩准了的妾,哪天夫人不高兴,你的结局就跟尤二姐差不远了。
-ruoer(乡下人);
2007-4-2
(#3591070@0)
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准!透!LZ 自己怎么看?
-jj999ca(jj999ca);
2007-4-2
(#3591119@0)
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正确
-wangqingshui(忘情水);
2007-4-2
(#3591138@0)
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I doubt that the wife feels happy about her husband's relationship with LZ. To her, the husband is like a tasteless backup who cannot completely satisfy her, yet is better than nothing at the point when she is still single.
-asker(amour);
2007-4-2
(#3591217@0)
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In other words, deepdown, no, the wife does not accept LZ as part of the family.
-asker(amour);
2007-4-2
(#3591229@0)
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So she is an evil woman. She is the source of the tragety if any. LZ should persuade man to leave her. If the man did, then they should still have a bright further in front of them. LZ, do you hear me? Don't give up at this point. Not yet.
-redcarrot(萝卜);
2007-4-2
(#3591254@0)
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She is not an evil, and nobody in this story is evil. The point is that it is unnecessary to figure out which one is right and which one is wrong, because right or wrong, LZ should leave this mess as soon as possible, and she deserves better.
-asker(amour);
2007-4-2
(#3591266@0)
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If the man get divorce right now, do you still think LZ should leave her love?
-redcarrot(萝卜);
2007-4-2
(#3591291@0)
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First of all, the man won't get divorced at least in the near future; second of all, even if he does get divorced, still LZ SHOULD GET RID OF HIM, because he has a familial mess which will follow him forever.
-asker(amour);
2007-4-2
(#3591296@0)
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你太有才了!!!
-holly999(酒肴肴-就是下酒小菜);
2007-4-2
(#3591386@0)
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You are right !! For LZ's boyfriend, LZ only is a spare tire.
-keepeyesopen(helloworld);
2007-4-2
(#3591925@0)
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这些事情只是刚刚开了个头,从51上找了篇文章让你看看。http://www.51.ca/news/show,news,21714.htm,36a61298f9878238c507d107110fe42c,search,%C0%EB%BB%E9
这个是一个已经结了婚的女人,她的劳工还是比较能够处理他们的关系的,来看看她和劳工以及劳工的孩子的故事吧:
http://www.51.ca/news/show,news,22822.htm,36a61298f9878238c507d107110fe42c,search,%B2%BB%C8%DD%D2%D7
等你和他结了婚,可能比这个故事的女主人更不如,因为你的男友更care他们,而不是你。
-tracyd(假若明天来临);
2007-4-2
{388}
(#3591117@0)
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立刻离开。
-x888(真诚,真诚,还是真诚);
2007-4-2
(#3591144@0)
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First, if he loves you, he will try his best to protect you and your feeling not to be hurt.Second, you are somehow getting yourself in the situation to be hurt . Today you are not happy what he did, someother day you will not happy what the daughter will do when the little girl grows up.
By the way, love is treating others the way they want to be treated. If you really can do so, you will be happy no matter what you will choose in the future.
-alwaysbemaggie(xiaoxue);
2007-4-2
{358}
(#3591158@0)
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Remember, they just started their relationship! (Only half year). While their love develops, the man is preparing to file the divorce application. They may on the track to a happy marriage. Do not make conclusion too early.
-redcarrot(萝卜);
2007-4-2
(#3591194@0)
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Why can't you get it that this is nothing about how long he will take to get divorced, or how long LZ and he have been in this relationship? This is about whether the man wants to get divorced or not at all. I don't think he wants a divorce.
-asker(amour);
2007-4-2
(#3591200@0)
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I guess he is pretty happy, cause he has TWO WOMEN to take care of him and his daughter. The wife is certainly jealous and painful, and perhaps regretful for the seperation.
-asker(amour);
2007-4-2
(#3591205@0)
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The wife is the one who left the family. Even she is regretful now, it might be because she did not grasp the white man. She is jealous because she see the man is still living well without him. She intentionly tried to estrange them.
-redcarrot(萝卜);
2007-4-2
(#3591240@0)
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So you do agree with me that the wife won't let go of the husband easily, don't you? Therefore, what's the point of blaming her for leaving the family first OR SECOND?
-asker(amour);
2007-4-2
(#3591259@0)
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My point is, donot blame the husband. The wife is the source of problem. The man should not be blamed if he does not decide to divorce and marry LZ because they just got to know each other for 6 months.How could he believe LZ is not the second his ex-wife? It needs time to see. Also the man should not be blamed if he really loves LZ, but he still needs time to figure out how to handle his love to daughter and wife, especially the wife is still doing something to get him back. He needs time to put away his broken old no-hope love and accept a brand new one.
-redcarrot(萝卜);
2007-4-2
{360}
(#3591284@0)
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Thanks very much for discussing with me, but I am sorry that I have to leave you alone, cause obviously, you care more about the wife and the husband, while I care ONLY ABOUT LZ.
-asker(amour);
2007-4-2
(#3591288@0)
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I care about LZ. I just do not want her miss a cherishable love only based on misunderstandings and your suggestion without knowing the details.
-redcarrot(萝卜);
2007-4-2
(#3591297@0)
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This is NOT a chance, but a MESS for LZ. Hope the Lord can open your eyes right now. :)
-asker(amour);
2007-4-2
(#3591303@0)
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LZ last try, get him divorced and marry you. Move to another city or live further from the ex-wife. The man can only see his daughter once or twice every year. If he can do this, don't leave him. Or leave him right now. And contact with me. :)
-redcarrot(萝卜);
2007-4-2
(#3591311@0)
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I am pretty much sure that LZ is smarter and wiser than you, which means she will not waste her time, and give it another meaningless try. :) Sorry that you are smart and wise, but not as smart and wise as LZ.
-asker(amour);
2007-4-2
(#3591322@0)
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I mean compared with LZ, you might be more emotional than rational.
-asker(amour);
2007-4-2
(#3591327@0)
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LZ也是杜甫? 但我还是觉得李白是更伟大的诗人。
-redcarrot(萝卜);
2007-4-2
(#3591343@0)
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I respect 杜甫 and 李白, but my favorite poet is Robert Frost who is a perfect combination of 杜甫 and 李白.
-asker(amour);
2007-4-2
(#3591354@0)
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Frost's wife loves another man before him. Frost is more practical, more 杜甫 than 李白. :)
-redcarrot(萝卜);
2007-4-2
(#3591376@0)
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Frost was more spiritual, romantic and symbolic than 杜甫, (similar to 李白), but more realistic, practical and rational than 李白 (similar to 杜甫). I can't tell he was more 杜甫 than 李白, or vise versa, depending on our different perspectives.
-asker(amour);
2007-4-2
(#3591413@0)
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Agree. Thank you. :) LZ should move from vancouver to toronto. So we can meet her here. :)
-redcarrot(萝卜);
2007-4-2
(#3591334@0)
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I am not available now, but I fully support your pursuit. :)
-asker(amour);
2007-4-2
(#3591337@0)
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I am happy that LZ is rational enough to question the relationship when it is only half a year old.
-asker(amour);
2007-4-2
(#3591305@0)
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Very nice to discuss with you! :) You are very good.
-redcarrot(萝卜);
2007-4-2
(#3591319@0)
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Thanks. :)
-asker(amour);
2007-4-2
(#3591325@0)
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Dump the loser. Right now!!!!
-arfeifei(老顽童);
2007-4-2
(#3591274@0)
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分局有两种情况,离婚也绝非那么简单。先把人靠准了。
-starlin(二黑哥);
2007-4-2
{1563}
(#3591559@0)
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费劲,如其这么折腾,还不如另寻别人了!光阴似箭啊!
-billwei(w4u);
2007-4-2
(#3591831@0)
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说得好,尤其第4点。
-fredwu888(回头是岸);
2007-4-6
(#3598163@0)
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冷静的考虑, 千万别采取不计后果的一时之快.
-unrestrained(真累);
2007-4-2
{1197}
(#3591668@0)
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你算了吧,简直就是大混蛋。劝 LZ 往火坑里跳,还自以为是大言不惭什么"不轻言弃, 愿天下有情人长相撕守 "。看清楚了吗?真正“不轻言弃,天下有情人长相撕守”"应该是 那两个老夫妻!!LZ 应该及时退出!!把两个分居两年都离不开的“有生活了很长的时间, 而且是从年轻的时候开始的,”的感情的两口子,要鼓励LZ去插一脚,活生生拆了一家3口,你够狠心的!!
你的大理论就算了吧。眼睛不行,相信你的脑子应该好使的。
-maple8888(树枫);
2007-4-4
{196}
(#3595528@0)
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他的分析很有道理。这个东西各有各的立场,本身就没有对错之分,大可不必这么谴责别人。
-fredwu888(回头是岸);
2007-4-6
(#3598167@0)
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LZ还是撤退为好。分居两年多了,还没有离婚,恐怕是他不想离。根据加国法律,只要想离婚的一方掌握了对方有奸情的证据,立马就可以申请离婚,而不需要任何等待时间。第二,也不存在配偶赡养费的问题,因为他老婆也有工作,收入还不错。关于孩子的赡养费,那时怎么也逃不掉的,按照政府的列表,大约为税前收入的11-12%。
他爱孩子,而且他们10几年的夫妻了,如果需要帮忙,他应该帮,这也是对的,但是要有分寸,要顾及到你的感受,最好是与你商量,至少也该给你打招呼,如果他真的在乎你的话。
你是个贤惠的好女人,经济上也不依来与人。我不觉得你的要求有任何过分。离开他,你还会有很多机会的。
-billwei(w4u);
2007-4-2
{406}
(#3591891@0)
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为什么为了一个还没有合法单身身份的男人把自己搞得这么被动?!如果他能马上离
婚给offer你一个正当身份,你再考虑这个问题也不迟,女人的年龄是拖不起的, 别再委屈自己了。。。
-qqhskaren(暗香);
2007-4-4
(#3595137@0)
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这种事情热络几个月就过去了,不要放在心上
-dodotoron(哇咧);
2007-4-4
(#3595149@0)
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绝非出于恶意,不解地问:如果你当初肯对前夫如此委曲求全,你们还会离婚吗?记得看过一讨论,新妻几曾隐忍但在一次陪同探访之后崩溃,有人跟贴说她没要孩子带大的后孩子曾很乖巧,7岁时她督促他功课,他翻着眼冷冷问:你是我妈吗,要你管我?她心冷得浑身打颤要知道之前她老公娶她爱她还很在乎她,也不溺爱孩子,更别提溺爱孩子妈了,但她活得想死,后来心寒寒地领养了一个“自己的”的孩子,邓婕到了也是领了一个。
不少初婚嫁二手成功男的跟贴泣诉:离开拖着继子女的老公时,她依然爱老公,老公也爱她,只是要么受不了前妻,要么受不了后孩,崩溃。
你去搜狐没准搜得着。
人啊,永远别挑战自己的动物天性,无论是男人抑或女人。自然更别指望别人能战胜天性。
-xiang2xingfu(可人儿);
2007-4-4
{382}
(#3595316@0)
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别对他离不离的事发表任何意见,冷眼旁观就可以了,他不离最好免得你日后烦S。目前可以一起接送他老婆,看他老婆累了怎么撒娇,也顺便看看他宝贝谁,最好的结果是:他们的宝贝排第一,你排第二。
-xiang2xingfu(可人儿);
2007-4-4
(#3595761@0)
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“永远别挑战自己的动物天性,更别指望别人能战胜天性“, 这个顶一下。虽然人不肯承认自己是动物,冠以“高级”二字,本质上还是动物。很多本性完全相同: 如哺育后代(亲生的),自私自利,弱肉强食。
-dorightthing(只做有益的事);
2007-4-5
(#3597277@0)
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还有雌妈妈孵出自己的宝贝后甚至赶紧把别人的蛋宝宝啄碎呢,她想自己的宝宝有更多的食物更少的竞争。
-xiang2xingfu(可人儿);
2007-4-5
(#3597495@0)
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:)人和动物有很多相同的天性。曾见过有一恶母,自家孩子捣蛋被人说了几句,恨得咬牙切齿;等到她的孩子打得别人孩子伤痕累累,人家找上门,她却笑笑说,这算啥,谁叫你家孩子不哭不喊的,活该。
-dorightthing(只做有益的事);
2007-4-5
(#3597819@0)
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他在找你解闷,永远不会给你个承诺。
-fromeastowest(避风塘炒蟹);
2007-4-4
(#3595564@0)
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他的妻子在拿他解闷。
-leonardma(一袋天椒);
2007-4-4
(#3595636@0)
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孩子的妈妈已经做错过事了而他还挺上心的,而对你先就一个"防"字, 这就是差距呀!
-yangguangyu(玉);
2007-4-4
(#3595723@0)
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“那送都送了,还能不接吗”这叫得寸进尺-----他夫妻俩都是!哪天他会一脸无辜地问你:“那我们孩子都生了,还能分得开吗?”姐姐,你自己看看,人一家的日子照过暂时分开过罢了,你烦得着吗?不如把这贴当征婚贴吧,市场调查结果已经出来了,多伦多单男热烈欢迎你!
-xiang2xingfu(可人儿);
2007-4-4
(#3595812@0)
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好主意,我也是这么想的。(爱羽MM, GG在此欢迎你了。
-billwei(w4u);
2007-4-4
(#3596060@0)
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将 W 4 U 改成 W 4 爱羽,以示诚意,并且 从今天起 你就有 商 标 了 !
-xiang2xingfu(可人儿);
2007-4-4
(#3596105@0)
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你是35岁?还是3x5岁?
-seethendo(苦海有边);
2007-4-4
(#3596132@0)
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有的女的对丈夫比较霸道,而且习惯了,男的习惯了被女的霸道,即使离婚了,女的也习惯她的EX随时听命于她. 你自己应该有主见,如果不是她真有什么实质性问题(比如绝症等),和BF谈谈,不希望他帮他的EX. 孩子的事按分居协议严格进行. 否则,不要在继续你们的关系比如她EX考试之类,坚决不让他送,更别说接了. 她考不好和你有什么关系?她自己想办法.如果实在要去,你一起去,办完事立刻走,什么逛商店之事, 坚决禁止,如果你的BF怕EX不高兴,但不怕你不高兴,你应该坚决向你的BF表明态度. 如果他一意孤行, 你应该考虑离开他.
-justhappy(happy girl);
2007-4-5
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(#3596312@0)
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整个感觉是: 2个女人在 Share一个男人,分居妻子追白人没有成功,想吃回头草,男人又想要享齐人之福。LZ 很被动啊!即便离了婚,情况也不乐观。前妻是个比较强势的女人,又有孩子这张王牌。
-dorightthing(只做有益的事);
2007-4-5
(#3597174@0)
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Rolia上的许多事,我很多都以为是逗大家开心的,没想到真有拿真事放到网上来说的,可见LZ已经崩溃了.真羡慕有些人真是好命,可以如此挥霍感情.上帝保佑那些苦苦寻觅幸福的人不至于落失,反得美满! Amen........
-falcon7x(鹰翔浅底);
2007-4-5
(#3597618@0)
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两个人一起生活了10几年,还有了一个小孩,彼此都已是对方生活的一个部分了,要切割得干干净净谈何容易。而且从你谈得情况看,他妻子有重归于好的念头。你的BF好像心里也有她。不过,时间会改变一切的。如果你觉得他是你一直等待的人,我劝你留下。
-fredwu888(回头是岸);
2007-4-5
(#3597740@0)
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你的cases都是小事. 你的男友心胸宽阔,有责任感, 难得. 调整一下心态, 努力的相处下去, 会有回报的.
-huyou(忽悠);
2007-4-6
(#3598346@0)
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你还是真是能忽悠
-huiyi76(退色的回忆);
2007-4-6
(#3598631@0)
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忽悠一句就撤?不把人俩忽悠成一家可对不起您的大号哦!
-xiang2xingfu(可人儿);
2007-4-6
(#3598722@0)
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男的不懂珍惜,这么好的女人和前妻谁轻谁重应该心里清楚,可能只想要齐人之福吧.
-beatlonely(就在孤独中暴发,不在);
2007-4-6
(#3599020@0)
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再不离开, 你就成第三者了.
-fatigue(relax);
2007-4-6
(#3599036@0)
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那后来呢,是离了还是分了?
-xiang2xingfu(可人儿);
2007-4-13
(#3613185@0)