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枫下家园 / 望子成龙 / 非常生气,女儿在daycare被两个小朋友抓破脸,老师说她没看见,"can't take any side"。下午要去办公室面谈,该说些什么?谢谢指点
-milly(Expecting);
2007-1-24
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一次的话,没什么了,要求老师注意一点孩子的AGRESSIVE行为就是了.
-lalam(lala);
2007-1-24
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That's normal. don't be angry. Last week my son had accedent with other two kids. he had a big "da(4)bao(1)" on his head. Teacher gave me accident report, and let me take care him at home.
-newcomer2005(new comer);
2007-1-24
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没有什么大不了的,去谈也没用。
-remember_me_not(r-m-n);
2007-1-24
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-mssg(Wild_Killer);
2007-1-24
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thanks for your info. my daughter is 4 and the kids who attacked her were about same age, they know what they were doing, because one kid followed my daughter when she try to ran away, and scatched her twice.
-milly(Expecting);
2007-1-24
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1. 2. 31. 如果我处在你的位置,我会说:I am upset about what happened,然后听老师如何说。
2. 其他父母说的不错,孩子之间的冲突难免,如果你觉得daycare在这方面处理不好,不妨换一家。
3. 你可以和孩子谈谈,看她如何反应,告诉她以后如何处理和其他孩子的冲突。
孩子磕磕碰碰长大,伤口会长好,父母不必过于保护。
-mssg(Wild_Killer);
2007-1-24
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thanks. I wonder what would be the proper way that daycare teacher should do to handle this situdation.
-milly(Expecting);
2007-1-24
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我想你可以带着问题去谈。what would teachers do? and what can parents help with kids conflict in daycare? how to talk to kids, help them develop social skills? 如果你觉得老师的理念和父母不同,你可以考虑换一家daycare.
-mssg(Wild_Killer);
2007-1-24
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先不想换daycare, 老师看见孩子的伤没有采取任何行动是不是不对?女儿没做错什莫就被抓伤,怎莫跟孩子解释?老师应该说什莫才能让孩子明白?
-milly(Expecting);
2007-1-24
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你可以询问daycare处理冲突的policy,不要着急谈对错。不妨问问老师:作为父母,在这种情况下如何和孩子解释,才能让孩子明白?
-mssg(Wild_Killer);
2007-1-24
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good point. thanks
-milly(Expecting);
2007-1-24
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根据上面连接里说的:防止冲突的发生是很重要的一部分,而且还得帮他们解决问题,老师应该知道这些吧。 就和老师聊聊这个吧,没看见就等于没发生吗。
-crystal-crystal(crystal);
2007-1-24
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是呀,最生气就是老师说没看见就no action. 孩子脸上的伤总看见了吧,为什莫没有安慰一下,或是批评那个孩子?
-milly(Expecting);
2007-1-24
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不管他们会怎么处理(大概是小事化了),说说你想说的,让自己好受点儿。
-crystal-crystal(crystal);
2007-1-24
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first child, mom is not ready to face this kind of reality. need to grow up with kids. thanks
-milly(Expecting);
2007-1-24
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不知你们的孩子多大?,我觉得daycare 老师应该pay more attention to kids and watch around room. 女儿描述的过程很长,老是不能说没看见就算了吧?daycare就是看孩子
-milly(Expecting);
2007-1-24
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我不要求他站在我这边,但是孩子受伤,总得有说法. 不知怎末表达合适。
-milly(Expecting);
2007-1-24
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不知道你小孩几岁.两三岁的孩子这种事情太常见了,因为他们语言表达还不够好,急了就可能动手.老师分分秒秒盯着也可能抓不住小手的.孩子本来就是磕磕碰碰长大的,有经验的老师/家长应该是利用发生冲突的时候引导孩子去学会SHARE和UNDERSTAND OTHERS FEELING.
-lalam(lala);
2007-1-24
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4岁,问题是老师没有引导孩子understand my daughter's hurt feelings, and they keep silent because they didnot see. 我希望老师指出抓人的孩子的错误,并警告他,要求过分吗?
-milly(Expecting);
2007-1-24
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老师说她没看见,你应该相信。这种情况下,老师不作为,是可以理解的。
-mssg(Wild_Killer);
2007-1-24
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不能理解,孩子脸上的伤总看见了吧,为什莫没有安慰一下,或是批评那个孩子?没看见谁对谁错,但事实是孩子受伤,难道就没事了?? I am confused, God.........
-milly(Expecting);
2007-1-24
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Learn boxing is the only way for that age until 15teen.
-expert3(expert3);
2007-1-24
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呵呵,跑得快也行啊。...想起了forest Gump.
-crystal-crystal(crystal);
2007-1-24
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是该让孩子学点防身的本事了,但事情得先解决了。孩子无故被抓伤,老师应该做些什么防止再发生,并且不能象没事一样就算了..........
-milly(Expecting);
2007-1-24
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给她留指甲吧,没说的。
-blanc(勃朗峰);
2007-1-24
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