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枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / 是否接受他的爱自己有着一个比较满意的家庭.
现在被一男生苦苦追求.
无论从哪方面讲他都不是我理想中的人(如果我真的想找个情人的话).
但是他特别的真心,我一直拒绝着他,不愿与他见面.
昨天一个朋友说他病了很严重.我想一定是因为我.
我真的怕他越陷越深,又怕给他打击.
接受吧,我又不是很喜欢他.
放弃吧,他的爱又是那么真切和感人,可能我今生不会再遇到.
为什么这个世上遇到一个你爱的同时他也爱你的人那么难.
-cloverplan(plan);
2006-9-28
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他床上怎样,没试过的就别先否定做情人的可能性。
-cigarette(香烟);
2006-9-28
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连KISS 都没有(因为我一直在拒绝).难道找情人只是为了性?
-cloverplan(plan);
2006-9-28
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就要天寒地冻了,至少可以互相取暖,拒绝什么。
-cigarette(香烟);
2006-9-28
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你这种人不为性,难道还配谈感情??
-cool_guy(cool guy);
2006-9-28
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这坑挖的不好, 打回重挖
-ningxin0809(雁影行洲);
2006-9-28
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接受他吧。反正是段婚外情,不搞白不搞。等他过些日子把你玩腻了,不用你拒绝,他肯定不愿见你了。到那个时候,你再好好爱你老公,或者再找个可心的情人吧。(这是什么世道呀!)
-rollor(Rollor);
2006-9-28
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他决不是想玩一下的人.
-cloverplan(plan);
2006-9-28
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这样更麻烦。千万别惹火烧身。请看PM.
-rebecca70(佳飞猫);
2006-9-28
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男人在女人面前都说我对你是真心的。他要不这么说,你能这么动心吗?
-rollor(Rollor);
2006-9-28
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他决不是想玩一下的人, 是想玩兩下或者三, 四下.
-wyholm(孤星);
2006-9-30
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if you don't even like his type, why would you even contemplate having an affair with him? and you are satisfied with your family life, you must be out of your mind now...
-whirlwind(双庭);
2006-9-28
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因为不想让他伤心,大家都不容易。
-cigarette(香烟);
2006-9-28
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這個世界伤心的人很多, 誰管得了!
-wyholm(孤星);
2006-9-30
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不要占着毛坑儿不拉屎,你要想跟他好,先把你老公让出来,不想就拉倒!
-buyi(不依不挠);
2006-9-28
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If she 让出来 to you...,do you want...?
-serenade123(橘子红了);
2006-9-28
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这种女人我才不要,她自己都不知道她想要什么,该要什么。
-buyi(不依不挠);
2006-9-28
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How about 让那个他出来给你。
-cigarette(香烟);
2006-9-28
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这种男人最没骨气,人家明明有老公,还很幸福,他却要死缠着。
-buyi(不依不挠);
2006-9-28
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想玩火, 别烧着, 不好好过日子, 扯大发了吧.
-xiaoxiaochuan(囡囡妈);
2006-9-28
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现在国女还知道礼义廉耻这些字怎么写吗?明明接了婚的,居然堂而黄之的写这些东西.当然那个男的也很不要脸,如果他知道你是已婚的话.
-cool_guy(cool guy);
2006-9-28
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俺们当地话, 经常这么说, 打一古代兵器------
-xiaoxiaochuan(囡囡妈);
2006-9-28
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别在这假正经了,谁都有可能遇到这样的事.换做你还不一定象他们那样理智呢.
-sophy374(nocollet);
2006-9-28
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遇見自己喜歡的, 可能不一定理智, 但是這個他, 她是不喜歡的.
-wyholm(孤星);
2006-9-30
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雷锋精神
-7y7(醉里吴音);
2006-9-28
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perfect answer
-cristina(cristina);
2006-9-28
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是大公无私的雷锋精神.
-xiaoxiaochuan(囡囡妈);
2006-9-28
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是勇于献身的精神。
-somewhere(云来云去);
2006-9-28
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自己还有家(还满意). 要献身的还不满意,你这买破衣服呢?问啥问,回家好好过日子。
-qianwanli(来到这里);
2006-9-28
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感情的问题好象就是这样, 明知道没有结果, 可就是放不下, 想守住那一点儿心动的感觉.个人建议: 心动固然重要, 但要对自己的行为负责. 另外别以为别人没有了你就活不了. : )
祝痛并快乐着.
-peoplesoso(peoplesoso);
2006-9-28
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你真的相信他是爱你马?!以我所见,他只是想和你上床-因为知道你结婚了所以没
有后顾之忧,真心爱你的知道你结婚了是不会纠缠你而只会痛苦的离去。 生病是因
为你?!-演韩剧呢?!
-qqhskaren(暗香);
2006-9-28
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good point
-aishangni(ailejiuaile);
2006-9-28
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"昨天一个朋友说他病了很严重.我想一定是因为我." ?????????? Are you sure???????????
-asker(amour);
2006-9-28
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I just can't help laughing out and loud. :))))))))))))))))))))
-asker(amour);
2006-9-28
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嘿嘿,我也笑呢........还是心太软,不喜欢还费这个劲
-blackmm(Penny&Peggie);
2006-9-28
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我倒觉得她是性情中人, 只是不知道怎么把握自己.
-peoplesoso(peoplesoso);
2006-9-28
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What's your definition of 性情中人? To me, those including this one who are "happily married as they claim" should get DIVORCED first, otherwise, they are nothing but cheaters.
-asker(amour);
2006-9-28
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I have no even one ounce of sympathy for them. For God's sake, love is NOT what they can understand and claim.
-asker(amour);
2006-9-28
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I don't think Love is something people could be able to claim, but something about people's feeling. She feels it and confused by it, nothing wrong. I think she can find herself.good for her. : )
-peoplesoso(peoplesoso);
2006-9-28
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What I want to say is "Good for her husband or children." I just don't take those who are disloyal to their spouses as ideal human beings for love, if you do understand what love is.
-asker(amour);
2006-9-28
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Perhaps I am just too idealist. To me, love is too pure, too elegant and too noble to show up in the mouth of someone who has a husband physically but another man mentally.
-asker(amour);
2006-9-28
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IMO you're being too harsh on this lady. All she has got for that guy is just sympathy. She just feels sorrow for his pain. That's not cheating in any dictionary. After all, we're all humans with feelings, not some cold machines.And she did say no to him, right?
Of course, in an ideal world, she should've said NO in a heartbeat, but still, that doesn't make her a cheater in any sense.
Other than that, I pretty much agree with you.
-mymagdalena(APC);
2006-9-29
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Like that guy wants her sympathy. Who needs sympathy? LZ or that guy? Who plays whom? For God's sake, save some face for us women.
-asker(amour);
2006-9-29
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There's a big difference between love and sympathy, I'll help somebody because of sympathy. I'll date somebody because of love only. If she feels sorrow for his pain, comfort him, explain to him.Going out with him can't solve the problem.
-wyholm(孤星);
2006-9-30
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如果你接受他的爱会怎样? - 离婚 还是 作情人?建议你问问他说你想离婚和他过看他怎么说。
-qqhskaren(暗香);
2006-9-28
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我想离婚跟你过,如何?
-560(我来了);
2006-9-29
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你这个事,是不是就是大连猫说的‘艺术这个东西’?
-fxid(闲聊灌水 达20字符);
2006-9-28
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嘿嘿。 :-)
-babyface(★又来了,又来了。★);
2006-9-28
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难道你跟你丈夫并不相爱就结婚(回复最后一句话的)?真是不知所谓,为这种事而烦恼,这个女人嫌日子过得太满意了。
-prettycat007(可爱猫咪);
2006-9-28
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他要拉个肚子,得个急性肠炎也是因为你?
-3721(人生是一段旅程);
2006-9-28
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不是急性肠炎, 他是因为她而變成色情狂的. 為了安慰他, 她雖然不喜歡他, 都考慮做他的情人.
-wyholm(孤星);
2006-9-30
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静观事态发展。。。
-dmw0001(me, myself and I);
2006-9-28
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请随时告诉我们最新进展
-dmw0001(me, myself and I);
2006-9-28
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zt: 他是你的大棚爱情. -------错过了随便恋爱的好时光,情人就成了不能应季的大棚蔬菜,毕竟那是催生的东西,可以图新鲜,但千万别贪嘴。因为不仅死贵死贵,而且未必好吃呀
-cathy345(雁河东);
2006-9-28
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道理太多,记不住
-dmw0001(me, myself and I);
2006-9-28
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接受,接受,你总不能让我那哥们白追一场吧?
-falcon7x(鱼翔浅底);
2006-9-28
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:))))))))))))))))))))
-asker(amour);
2006-9-28
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先问下是啥病再说.
-helloyou(你好!QQ230);
2006-9-28
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电话的铃声响了,来电显示着他的号码当电话铃声第三次响起时,我还是按了接听键.
当我问他的病是不是好些了.我却听到他压抑的哭声.
....
他说他尊重我的选择,他也定了回国机票.
我说,"我很谢谢你."
他问我有没有听过小刚的<黄昏>
他的心情都在那里面.
我不想再说下去,或许这是最好的结局,这样每个人都不会受到伤害.
这也是每个位热心朋友所希望的.
我突然有种解脱的感觉.
-cloverplan(plan);
2006-9-29
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Whatever each of us readers think s doesn't matter, what matters is how you can stay with your very own husband MENTALLY, SPIRITUALLY, instead of only PHYSICALLY. God bless your husband and wish him well.
-asker(amour);
2006-9-29
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very true
-crystal_clear(水晶心);
2006-9-29
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AMEN!
-falcon7x(鱼翔浅底);
2006-9-29
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精神出轨, 身体出轨是迟早的事; 精神出轨, 身体还未出轨是时机不成熟.
-crystal_clear(水晶心);
2006-10-2
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这是男人的一种以退为攻的方式,把球踢给你了。你来决定是进还是退。如果这个时候你选择了跟进,你们就成了,万无一失了
-happpyfuture(ED);
2006-9-29
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最完美的結束, 這種事情跟本就不應該開始, 如果每一個追你的人都接受, 你的生活將會亂得象一個公用的廁所.
-wyholm(孤星);
2006-9-30
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一点建议结婚前我也碰到真切和感人的爱,使我差点放弃现在的LG. 我很庆幸,没有被迷惑. 相信我,你只是因为心地善良而被感动了,那不是爱. 试问你真的愿意和他过一辈子吗,有福同享有难同当. 我的LG就不会甜言蜜语,但我知道,如果我患病在床,他会一直伴我到老... 还有什么比这更浪漫呢.
一片文章,希望你的心早日回家.
http://msn.qihoo.com/prog/frame.html?src=msn&u=http%3A%2F%2Fclub.book.sohu.com%2Fr-wangzhai-254774-0-8-0.html&t=%C7%E9%C8%CB%B2%A1%E9%BD%C7%B0+%CB%FB%B5%C4%C6%DE%D7%D3%C8%C3%CE%D2%BA%B9%D1%D5&pid=89219
-lisa97(花房姑娘);
2006-10-1
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"放弃吧,他的爱又是那么真切和感人,可能我今生不会再遇到." -- 真的这样的话, 就勇敢的上吧...就是千万记住一点...别瞒着你现在的老公, 把你的选择告诉他, 不要选择背叛就好...
-winter111(醉卧沙滩妾莫笑,古来);
2006-10-2
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