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枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / 如果他/她看上去比实际年龄小许多,无论相貌、性格还是行为方式都是如此,这是好事还是坏事?
-holedigger(digger);
2006-9-22
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好事. 永保革命青春.
-somewhere(身为女人);
2006-9-22
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if he, maybe not better; if she, is better
-cristina(cristina);
2006-9-22
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那得看什么事情,俺有个朋友平常说话聊天跟实际年龄很不符,但做起正事来,决不含糊,这叫收放自如:DDD
-stockwalker(傲狮群熊潜水中);
2006-9-22
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我 我 我, 又想照镜子了.
-somewhere(身为女人);
2006-9-22
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不是你,你是女的又没结婚:DDD
-stockwalker(傲狮群熊潜水中);
2006-9-22
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女的就不可以 平常说话聊天跟实际年龄很不符,但做起正事来,决不含糊,收放自如 吗? 没结婚的就不可以 平常说话聊天跟实际年龄很不符,但做起正事来,决不含糊,收放自如 吗? ?
-somewhere(身为女人);
2006-9-22
(#3223128@0)
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女人啊,俺又误会你照镜子了,你看今晚的月亮哪里去了:DDD
-stockwalker(傲狮群熊潜水中);
2006-9-22
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酸酸的问,啥正事呀?
-647i(流浪的步行万里);
2006-9-22
(#3223014@0)
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那就多了,比如说工作方面的事,
家庭方面的事
正常社交方面的事
朋友间的矛盾调节
等等等等
:DDDD
-stockwalker(傲狮群熊潜水中);
2006-9-22
{82}
(#3223044@0)
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关于社交方面, 对他/她好象不是特别有利,因为吸引的都是小许多的人, 相反同年龄段的人则保持距离.
-holedigger(digger);
2006-9-22
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那和俺这个朋友不一样,俺这个朋友各个年龄段的人都能相处,上有忘年交的老友,下有刚会说话的BABY, 哈哈.
-stockwalker(傲狮群熊潜水中);
2006-9-22
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你说的都不是问题,他/她的问题是: 在结识新朋友时, 更容易和年龄小的打成一片, 同龄的则把他/她当成孩子, 其实在思想上经历上他/她和同龄人更有共同语言.
-holedigger(digger);
2006-9-22
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那就不叫收放自如了,俺那朋友遇啥人说啥话,所以老人,朋友,小孩都喜欢他,哈哈.你这个坑挖的不浅啊:DDD
-stockwalker(傲狮群熊潜水中);
2006-9-22
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It depends on how you perceive it. To me, it is 坏事, cause I believe in age wisdom.
-asker(amour);
2006-9-23
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I don’t really agree with that. For me, age has nothing to do with wisdom. It depends on the person’s talent. Some people like joking around and act like a kid but inside of them, they're gorgeous and charming.
-wyholm(孤星);
2006-9-23
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Agree. But those kind of people need time to make others understand and accept them.
-refreshing(memory);
2006-9-24
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That's true. You have to know him/her very well then you'll know the real him/her. It takes time.
-wyholm(孤星);
2006-9-24
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他/她的困惑更多的是在与异性的交往中.
-holedigger(digger);
2006-9-23
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You're absolutely right !
-wyholm(孤星);
2006-9-23
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结识新朋友时, 他/她是否应该刻意得说明或暗示自己的年龄, 以免引起将来不必要的误会?又或者说, 如果认识了一个看上去天真活泼的朋友, 后来得知他/她其实比你大, 甚至可能大得多, 你会不会有受骗的感觉? 尤其是可能你对他/她有不同于一般朋友的想法.
-holedigger(digger);
2006-9-24
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Funny...
-1010(1010);
2006-9-24
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He/she should have hinted u, if not from the start, at least from the point that he/she felt that you had special feeling or had a crush on him/her. Sometimes, "not telling the truth" = "lying"
-woodhead(Happy wood-head);
2006-9-24
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How about that If he/she is really a charming person?He/she'd better tell almost everyone his/her age at the first meet with the new friends, right? Is it embarrasssing for him/her?
-holedigger(digger);
2006-9-24
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It is not his/her obligation to tell everybody his/her age. After all, personal privacy is highly respected here.But if he/she noticed that you are interested in him/her, from moral point of view, to avoid misleading or hurting you, he/she should hint/tell you.
-woodhead(Happy wood-head);
2006-9-24
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u used the word "charming". To me, "charm" means more than good looking, it's a combination of confidence, intelligence and warmth. It's acquired throughout years, and that's what we are attracted to.
-woodhead(Happy wood-head);
2006-9-24
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You are right. That is really what I meaned. Only good-looking is not attractive enough.
-holedigger(digger);
2006-9-25
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It's really depend how people thinking about age. he/she may not care it too much.
-1010(1010);
2006-9-25
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如果你问了别人的年龄他/她告诉你假的年龄才叫受骗, 如果你问也没问, 只是猜测, 后来发现你的猜测跟事实不符, 那叫受骗吗? 下次你可以直接问别人的年龄.有的人看上去比实际年龄大很多, 或者小很多, 并不奇怪, 就象老外看中国人总觉得中国人年龄很小, 可是实际上看着象20的中国人已经40. 这些都是正常现象吧.
-gyousou(Concrete);
2006-9-24
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假如你想交个非一般的朋友,那么你应该有多一点的了解吧?为何不直接问呢?要是一般的朋友,你管他多大呢?和收入一样可归入隐私,没必要了解,能一起疯癫熬夜地玩就行了。就算结了婚的人,也没必要一开始就到处介绍说我已有老婆孩子,或者老公在国内云云吧?
-happysmile(快乐小路);
2006-9-25
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天山童姥,你行吗?
-romanceviolin(Sonata);
2006-9-23
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谈不上好事坏事. It's the nature of him/her.
-gyousou(Concrete);
2006-9-24
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