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枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / 只需要真诚回复, 谢谢.曾经发过帖子, 我终于决定留在加拿大了,可是在上个星期, 与我分手的前男友参加了一个商务考察团在下周抵达这里,我特别惊讶.我现在的男友对我非常好,我不想也不会辜负他,我不会去见我前男友, 可是, 我心里有说不出的感觉.我该怎么办?
-mimang(迷茫);
2006-9-14
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哪位帮帮我, 我该怎么办? 心里好乱.
-mimang(迷茫);
2006-9-14
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心是怿动地,言是不由衷地。Listen to your heart, when it is calling to you!
-soloist(solo);
2006-9-14
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Thanks. You are right to some extent.That's why I am here. If I listen to my heart, I wanna go to meet my EX and tell him that it's over.But I am really worried that whether I should let my BF know or not, should I tell him?
-mimang(迷茫);
2006-9-14
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I don't think your boyfriend has to know this. But one question for you, you didn't tell your 'Ex'bf that you were over before you seeing other people here?
-soloist(solo);
2006-9-14
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yes, I did tell him that I've got a new BF, even last time I posted here. But to my surprise, I just knew that he would be here next week and insisted on meeting me.
-mimang(迷茫);
2006-9-14
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给自己找什么事,好马不吃回头草,分都分了,还见啥?
-cool_guy(cool guy);
2006-9-14
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是的, 分开一年半多了, 我不想和我的EX怎么样, 可是,他那么远来,哎!我也很想告诉他,就这样吧.要不, 我和我男友一起见他呢?我真的有点不知道怎么办了?
-mimang(迷茫);
2006-9-14
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It is stupid to get your boyfriend involved. Just call your ex and straight out you are over if you really don't expect anything more than this. Otherwise, if you meet, one thing leads to another...:)))
-soloist(solo);
2006-9-14
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Thanks,soloist. I will just give him a call. But the problem is I am not sure whether he will call me or not. If he did so, then my BF would definitely know he's here,I just don't wanna make it so complicated, Maybe I am worried too much, I guess.
-mimang(迷茫);
2006-9-14
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离好坑还差一步,还没成热点。鉴定完毕!!!
-xbla(我显摆故我在);
2006-9-14
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对不起,对于什么是坑我不感兴趣, 我在这里一共就发过2次贴, 刚才回了一个英文贴.不过还是谢谢您帮我顶贴.
-mimang(迷茫);
2006-9-14
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见一面就去到"辜负"的地步啦?只要心中没非分之想,见一见有什么?不远万里啊,不
容易啊,尽地主之谊也要啊。
-somewhere(云开不是守来D);
2006-9-14
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恩,要不, 我和我男友一起见他呢?你觉得这样合适吗?我真的不想让我现在的男友误会什么,真的.
-mimang(迷茫);
2006-9-14
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那样反而不妥,本来没有误会的,反而会产生误会.
-szqww(小家碧玉);
2006-9-14
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那, 咳.我自己想吧,谢谢您.
-mimang(迷茫);
2006-9-14
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Well, the problem is not only what you feel, but also what you make people feel. It is not wise to make your ex still think of you. "It is over" not a word more will just do the job for you.
-soloist(solo);
2006-9-14
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Got ya, I guess you are right. I should have done my part. I mean maybe more or less I give him kind of illusion that we can still be friends,but I did say firmly that we would never be that again. I mean BF and GF.Thanks.
-mimang(迷茫);
2006-9-14
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你是心中有鬼啊:还保持联系 - “个商务考察团在下周抵。。”, 如果真的想划分界限(免除任何一方的非分之想):1, 电话号码 - 换 2,电邮:不看直接删除 3, 信件 - "Moved" Return
-hahaha_ly(咳....);
2006-9-14
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恩, 我上次的贴我找不到了.我们从小就认识, 我父母和他父母都是好朋友, 他现在也总去我家.我没跟他联系过, 但他一定可以从我父母那里知道我的事情的.我没回过他的邮件,但我的确接过他的电话, 即便我们不是男女朋友, 我们不一定要成陌路人呀, 我是这么想的, 或许我错了.我男朋友也知道我以前的事情, 我从不想隐瞒什么.所以, 我现在才很烦.因为, 的确想告诉他的.可又担心他有别的想法.
-mimang(迷茫);
2006-9-14
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你让他见不着也说不上话, 他有想法也没有用, 不用你非的见面表白:我们完了(即使见面表白完他还是死缠烂打); 如果你让他见上面。。嘿嘿。。你那新关系(无论现在关系稳固不稳固的)可能要出现危机。。
-hahaha_ly(咳....);
2006-9-14
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恩, 我知道了, 谢谢您.非常感谢.只是有些突然, 我知道怎么做了.谢谢.
-mimang(迷茫);
2006-9-14
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说不出就别说。忘了他吧。
-rollor(Rollor);
2006-9-14
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恩, 忘记似乎不大可能, 所有发生过的毕竟都会在生命当中或多或少的留下痕迹, 何况我们从小就认识.可是, 我的确已经翻开新的一页了,并且开始我的新的生活.我也希望他能好好的生活.
-mimang(迷茫);
2006-9-14
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"分开一年半多了",也许别人也有新生活了。为什么想那么多呢?当老朋友好了。
-somewhere(云开不是守来D);
2006-9-14
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难怪这么多男人有处女情结
-james1976(james1976);
2006-10-13
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谢谢回复.谢谢.我自己再想想吧.
-mimang(迷茫);
2006-9-14
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忘记过去,开辟未来
-wujun73(东山与西山);
2006-10-13
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还是要告诉现在的他,然后单独去见原来的他。不要瞒。不然就算是没出什么事你也说不清。这也是个考验现在的他对你的信任的好机会。
-neww(sleepy);
2006-10-13
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这一招毒。表面堂皇实际容易出问题。大家都知道男的通常更忘情,如果分了还想见面说明没有忘情或者利用出差不好说,搞不好要出问题。
-tintin168(tintin);
2006-10-13
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去吧,人家来一次也不容易。见面之前,和你现在的男友打个招呼,这是人之常情。有一次我的前女友来我工作过的城市(中国),我和媳妇打个招呼就去了,回来后如实地向媳妇交待了全过程。媳妇说:好了,没事儿了,下不为例。
-happpyfuture(ED);
2006-10-13
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为啥不带你男朋友去见他(告诉你GF只是去见个老朋友,别说是EX)?带男朋友见朋友
是很正常的,如果你们两个彼此心中没鬼,大家都会很高兴。
-qqhskaren(暗香);
2006-10-13
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it's time to go home
-560(我来了);
2006-10-13
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