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枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / 帮我想想我应该怎么办?一个男人我很喜欢他,相处了三个月,感觉我们没有可能,因为他总是对我不冷不热。而另一个男人追了我有一年多了吧,我对他一直很冷淡,也对他说了我不可能喜欢他,可是他还持之以恒。两个月前他去了美国那边工作。下个月他结束了那边的工作要回来了,他一直打电话来希望我同意和他相处。他的各方面条件也不错,我也不知道我为什么会对他没有感觉。一个我喜欢的不喜欢我,所以我想和那个我不喜欢的相处一下。因为我欣赏他对我的恒心。你们说行吗?
-need_charge(阳光总在风雨后);
2006-7-2
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要是不喜欢就算了。你这样两边倒,以后很容易让人瞧不起。一旦瞧不起就心生厌恶。一厌恶就什末都完了。
-clooney2(clooney);
2006-7-2
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一什末都完了就可以重新开始了
-bristol(likeucare);
2006-7-2
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最理想的情况当然是双方互相喜欢。如果暂时没有可能,就多做一般性交往,跟着感
觉走,做时段性最佳选择吧。
-kevenzhou(Kevin);
2006-7-2
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你是说第一个还是第二个。我每次见到第一个回家后,他对我有时好有时不好的态度心里都特别难受。两三天内每晚只能睡三四个小时。他说先和我做一段时间普通朋友,过段时间再决定是不是正式相处的事。我想他可能是在默默的寻找他喜欢的人。
-need_charge(阳光总在风雨后);
2006-7-2
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I suggest you give up the first one that you like, and try the second one that you do not like at this point. But do NOT try them both at a time. No matter what, we women should respect ourselves by being moral.
-asker(answer);
2006-7-2
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"我想他可能是在默默的寻找他喜欢的人。 " Yes, he is. If I were you, I would not choose him, as I don't want to be a backup.
-asker(answer);
2006-7-2
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Certainly, you are not his dream. But you should let him feel that you are the best among the girls he knows, also let him feel he may lose you as many other boys are contacting you.Certainly, you are not his dream. But you should let him feel that you are the best among the girls he knows, also let him feel he may lose you as many other boys are contacting you, and you are contacting them. Make a general friend for both and try to find the 3rd and 4th general friends, and decide when you are ready
-kevenzhou(Kevin);
2006-7-2
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Yes, give him a chance, and 和那个 你 不喜欢的相处一下.
-asker(answer);
2006-7-2
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前几天,第二个一直打电话来和我聊这方面的问题。我只是避重就轻的说了我的想法。我说我想还需要一段时间的自由选择空间,再过四个月我还是没有找到的话,会试着接受他。他听了后也很高兴。因为我已经找了一年多了,可是还是没有找到那个他,不知道我命中的他在哪里。你们说我这样做对吗
-need_charge(阳光总在风雨后);
2006-7-2
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这里你这类的中国女人太多了,眼光似乎挺高,高不成低不就,一晃几年过去了。尤其很多相貌很普通的,还自觉pretty,很搞笑。
-book1022(哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈);
2006-7-2
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Have you ever been hurt by some of these women or what? You sound like devestated sometimes.
-asker(answer);
2006-7-2
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Caocao is coming while being talked about? For me, no women could hurt me since I never take them serious.
-book1022(哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈);
2006-7-5
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Only God knows. :)
-asker(answer);
2006-7-5
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Only immature people can be hurt by man-woman relationship problem.
-book1022(哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈);
2006-7-5
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Only those immature people say something like "I am mature". Come on.
-asker(answer);
2006-7-5
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I am pretty sure I am maturer than you, a school girl, who can't even type your own native language.
-book1022(哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈);
2006-7-5
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如果你被他的耐心所感动,试试交往一下也无妨,说不准会发现他的其他优点,喜欢上他。至于你喜欢的那个,多想想你又什么优点可以吸引他吧。
-greyblueorchid(greyblueorchid);
2006-7-2
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不过说真的,第一个人各方面条件不如第二个。只是第二个的个性软弱了一些,他事事让我,那是他的个性。而第一个有些个性,他能分清事事非非,谁对谁错。请不要砸我,女人都是这样的。
-need_charge(阳光总在风雨后);
2006-7-2
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You are telling the truth, sister. :)
-asker(answer);
2006-7-2
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而第一个有些个性,他能分清事事非非,谁对谁错那是因为人家不是很在乎你,关心则乱这句话你总听说过吧
-buma(buma);
2006-7-2
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"他听了后也很高兴"? I feel kind of scared at this response, though. What kind of men can tolerate this? YOu may need to find out his purpose or motivation. Is he after love or something else? Be careful.
-asker(answer);
2006-7-2
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我没房,没车,没钱,工作一般。不象他拿高薪,他不想我去上班,想我去上学读书,他出钱。我问他你为什么会喜欢我和要选择我。他说喜欢我的人品,不是那种随便的人,喜欢我有自己的想法,做任何事都不会出格。
-need_charge(阳光总在风雨后);
2006-7-2
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Sounds really touching. Then give him a chance when you are ready, but still find out if he is really in love with you. Love is in action not by mouth. At this point, he sounds very nice.
-asker(answer);
2006-7-2
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I think he really loves you. Why does he want you to go to school? What is your education background?
-crystal_clear(水晶心);
2006-7-2
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I am not so sure that he is really in love with her just because of what he has said. My friend's younger sister met a guy who said he was a loyal family guy, but after he got that girl in bed,he seemed to have forgot family, marriage and loyalty. After they were together for more than 4 years, that guy still didn't propose to the girl. When the girl finally asked him when they could get married, he said he was not sure and needed more time to settle down.
Eventually they didn't get married, and the girl kicked that guy out of her life.
Therefore, do not just think that a guy really loves you by hearing what he said in the first place.
-asker(answer);
2006-7-2
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so that poor lady dated with her next with non-virgin status...
-objectspace(New File Sys);
2006-7-2
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I don't know if she is a virgin or not while dating that guy, which is not imporant in my view. My point is that some guys like to use certain words to get girls hooked up.
-asker(answer);
2006-7-2
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非常感谢你一直给我的建议和帮助。
-need_charge(阳光总在风雨后);
2006-7-2
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u misunderstood. i mean, after she dumped that guy or he dumped her, she started the next mate hunting with non-virgin status...
-objectspace(New File Sys);
2006-7-2
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I got your point, but my point is that I don't know if she started with that guy in a non-virgin status. In other words, I don't know if that guy was her first.
-asker(answer);
2006-7-3
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nice。。。seems to you that she probably has no chance to be the Saint Virgin....
-objectspace(New File Sys);
2006-7-3
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Sounds like you want to be Virgin Mary. Give me a break. :)
-asker(answer);
2006-7-3
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you are not sure about her non-virgin when she was with that guy; I'm certain that she started or will start the next journey with non-virgin...,; u show less certainty then I do..
-objectspace(New File Sys);
2006-7-3
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我认为这根本不是讨论的主题,很晚了你应该早点去休息了。
-need_charge(阳光总在风雨后);
2006-7-3
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Girls should learn a lesson from this common-law relationship. the difference between common-law and marriage is that there is no committment in the common-law relationship.
-crystal_clear(水晶心);
2006-7-3
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只是我想拿一个北美的学历。
-need_charge(阳光总在风雨后);
2006-7-2
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不是我的眼光高,只是想找一个我爱的人,他也爱我。可是这看来很难,如果不能并行的话,我只能找一个爱我的人。
-need_charge(阳光总在风雨后);
2006-7-2
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Agree, just that find out if the second one is really in love with you.
-asker(answer);
2006-7-2
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A silly girl! Make a general friend with a perosn whom you love, while marry a person who loves you.
-ellesmeer1(没有昵称);
2006-7-2
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先搞清什么是爱吧,要不,会迷惑一生
-www4000(Wayne);
2006-7-5
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饥不择食,两个都别来
-zheyi(葱花小油饼);
2006-7-2
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奋不顾身再跳大坑!!!!!!!.................................
-celerycrab(属小螃蟹的);
2006-7-2
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You are so brave.:)
-fairgame(fairgame);
2006-7-3
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欣赏不等于爱
-may2002beijing(想飞。。。);
2006-7-3
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The 2nd guy it is! Way to go, girl!
-bristol(likeucare);
2006-7-5
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