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枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / how to : 去了解所谓的好男人的想法, 生活方法?我这人比较笨,用我同学的话讲,不太会跟男生相处
-may2002beijing(不会游泳的鱼);
2006-5-5
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tell u how: more u practice, more u learn. and stop surfing the Internet.
-gnits(byebyeCanada);
2006-5-5
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All the best!
-bookworm(初夏好心情);
2006-5-5
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Sister 鱼, by reading you, I don't feel so at all. :)
-asker(asker);
2006-5-5
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feel "so"?what? i really don't understand~
-may2002beijing(不会游泳的鱼);
2006-5-6
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I mean I fee you are a pleasant and great sister by reading your stuff here and there. :)
-asker(asker);
2006-5-6
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舍不得孩子(你自己),套不着狼(男人的想法)
-647i(步行万里);
2006-5-5
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:)
-asker(asker);
2006-5-5
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make sure you do not loose yourself.
-lostindarkness(阳光灿烂);
2006-5-5
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Then how to balance 舍不得孩子 and 套不着狼? :)
-asker(asker);
2006-5-5
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it is possible that you can 套着狼 without loosing yourself.
-lostindarkness(阳光灿烂);
2006-5-5
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How, though? :)
-asker(asker);
2006-5-5
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还是不得要领:(
-may2002beijing(不会游泳的鱼);
2006-5-6
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“我不入地狱谁入地狱”
-647i(步行万里);
2006-5-8
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从大大方方入手. 不要太敏感, 多疑, 那会让自己羞涩,男士尴尬. 大方交流一下生活的认识, 无聊的, 有深度的, 娱乐的等等, 日子久了, 想必你自然 就明细了.还有不不一定就是奔着了结交好男儿的目的. 普通的异型朋友有时更让你明白不同男性的思维方式.比较之中, 好男自然就水落石出了.
-paopao631(泡泡);
2006-5-5
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可是很多时候女国移大大方方,男国移就会误以为有其它的意思,结果根本连一般朋友也做不成,更别提进一步了解了。
-mousehappy(jerry);
2006-5-5
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这种情况绝对有. 有的男士有不懂和异型交往的问题.胡猜乱想. 让他去好了.咱们大方就是.
-paopao631(泡泡);
2006-5-5
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还有的情况是一女故作羞涩,含情脉脉;一女大大方方,打算进一步了解,结果好男人让前者抢了去。:)
-mousehappy(jerry);
2006-5-5
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I think lots of men do not like those who 故作羞涩,含情脉脉. Yes, they might be attracted to them at first, but later on, they may feel tired of 故作 styles. The best way to have relationship lasting might beshowing your spontaneity.
-asker(asker);
2006-5-5
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嘿嘿,含情有结连理之意, 大方往往只有结交之心. 两人显然目的不同, 难怪男方抢前者. 不过话说回来,后者还不一定答应呢.
-paopao631(泡泡);
2006-5-5
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就是,见多了烂瓜才会珍惜好瓜,即使是个歪瓜
-zheyi(风细柳轻狗熊醒了);
2006-5-5
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嘿嘿.
-paopao631(泡泡);
2006-5-5
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梅以曲为美,瓜以歪为甜
-zheyi(风细柳轻狗熊醒了);
2006-5-5
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If you don't charge me patent fee, I like to print this out and hang it in my room. :)))
-asker(asker);
2006-5-5
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It's my pleasure! 希望多印几张广为散发给更多歪瓜带来欢乐。
-zheyi(风细柳轻狗熊醒了);
2006-5-5
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但是我这人有个毛病。。如果我对一个人(尤其是男的)没有好感的话,跟他单独相处会很难受的
-may2002beijing(不会游泳的鱼);
2006-5-6
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如果没有好感就别强求自己了. 但很多时候, 我感觉"好感"的定义范围其实很宽.除了两情相悦的, 还有较为中性的. (譬如某点性格的欣赏, 能力的佩服, 思想的相近, 或是某点娱乐,脾气的相投等等).彼此交往不一定就限定于跟你成为白头的那类, 如果你把范围再扩充到和你渡过很多快乐时光人群时, 同性, 抑或异性. 把握好度的话, 我想你会渐渐看见和了解他们的世界的.
-paopao631(泡泡);
2006-5-6
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谢谢啦!可不可以再说明白一点?
-may2002beijing(不会游泳的鱼);
2006-5-6
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一两句真说不清. 无非是话题和距离的定位.话题的具体内容很难表述, 个人经验是如果自己的思维模式较为中性, 即不是过与女性的角度,自然就会很多谈得来的. 距离呢,自己心中定位大方, 把他们当朋友, (用我的词汇即是"中性")对方自然会感受到.外向的男士往往也会把握很好, 到是内向的开始是要收敛一点, 恐他们胡思乱想, 不过时间一长, 他们一般也会理解,这类人其实很多内心丰富, 长相处起来老有很多新奇的东西, 挺有意思的.
-paopao631(泡泡);
2006-5-6
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It's easy. just keep smile to man,they'll tell you anything.
-cathy345(雁舞九天);
2006-5-5
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I smiled to someone by the door in the mall when I went out for lunch today. When I came out, she smiled back and asked me to help her for lunch becasue she is a diabetics and needs to eat immidiately.
-ruoer(乡下人);
2006-5-5
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keep try.Next time you'll be lucky.
-cathy345(雁舞九天);
2006-5-5
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Ah? :) Tell us anything? :)
-asker(asker);
2006-5-5
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yes.
-cathy345(雁舞九天);
2006-5-5
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I feel this strategy works better with those white guys, while some Chinese guys are not that sensitive to smiles. :)
-asker(asker);
2006-5-5
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对付Chinese man,用nice talk比较有用。talk 一会儿,你就会有感觉,要如何把握尺度。
-cathy345(雁舞九天);
2006-5-5
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Actually, Chinese men like to be listened to. Listening to them is one of the best ways to show your respect for them.
-asker(asker);
2006-5-5
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you are right.But some of the Chinese man 不会主动的talk to you.I think these man are better choice .
-cathy345(雁舞九天);
2006-5-5
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Hm, interesting point. :) Why do you think so?
-asker(asker);
2006-5-5
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I like the a little bit 老实 man。They are nice to people.They are more care about people not themselves.All my male friends are this type.They are really good friends.
-cathy345(雁舞九天);
2006-5-5
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By the way,my male friends tell me anything.
-cathy345(雁舞九天);
2006-5-5
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i smiled when talking to our customers but no one told me anything :(
-may2002beijing(不会游泳的鱼);
2006-5-6
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^_^
-cathy345(雁舞九天);
2006-5-6
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