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枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / 这里很多女人来自国内的小地方, 见识也不广. 女人都希望自己找到一个好男人, 但如果不下些心思去了解所谓的好男人的想法, 生活方法, 就算你遇上了, 也不会有结果的. 好的情商对女人比智商更重要. 如果你不能改变世界就努力改变自己,否则, 听天由命吧
-zaitoronto(在多伦多);
2006-5-4
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Discrimination. Girls from big cities could be shallow as well. Sometimes even worse: (shallow + snobbish) >> shallow
-ruoer(乡下人);
2006-5-4
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Agree.
-asker(asker);
2006-5-4
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可能, 但见多会识广些
-zaitoronto(在多伦多);
2006-5-4
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One thing I like to add is that girls should learn some basic skincare and makeup techniques, and how to dress themselves. How to present yourself in front of men is really important.
-asker(asker);
2006-5-4
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Beauty inside will become so pale without the accompany of beauty ouside.
-asker(asker);
2006-5-4
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asker, you are not asker :-)you are a talker :-). are you a student? how come you have so much time hanging on net?
-baring(无风);
2006-5-4
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yes, she is a good student with an average of more than A.
-book1022(阿奔);
2006-5-4
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基本上, 对于一个女人来讲, 好的教养和修养是基本的. 否则再漂亮也没有用. 外表还可以教, 本质的东西要改就难了
-zaitoronto(在多伦多);
2006-5-4
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再漂亮也没有用?个人观点:女孩子漂亮是有很多很多好处D。。。其他的,近朱者
赤不是?
-somewhere(身为女人);
2006-5-4
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Absolutely. An American report that I read says: Pretty or handsome lawyers, doctors or other professionals earn MORE than their colleagues who are not.
-asker(asker);
2006-5-4
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Also those prettier or more handsome ones can get jobs MORE easily.
-asker(asker);
2006-5-4
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:))))))))))
-somewhere(身为女人);
2006-5-4
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强烈反对。没听说“做人难,做长得漂亮的人更难,做又聪明又漂亮的最难,做聪明漂亮又有钱的难乎其难”吗?
-neww(sleepy);
2006-5-4
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没听说过难在何处。
-somewhere(身为女人);
2006-5-4
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:))))))))))))))
-asker(asker);
2006-5-4
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粉丝粉丝。
-somewhere(身为女人);
2006-5-5
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hahaha, did you really have to read that stupid report to learn this?????!!!!!@@!~!@!@!@$ Man you're killing me
-bristol(likeucare);
2006-5-4
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Of course, a smart guy like you does not need to quote to write stuff, because you are your own reader, aren't you? :)
-asker(asker);
2006-5-4
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you will know it is true when you get to know the real world.
-lostindarkness(阳光灿烂);
2006-5-5
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Right, just that if you want to write something and you cannot do the survey by yourself, you had better read others for accurate statistics to prove your ideas.
-asker(asker);
2006-5-5
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呵呵,‘smart' 不敢,’handsome'嘛到是沾不少边;)
-bristol(likeucare);
2006-5-8
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What I am talking about is the difference between "reading something to know" and "reading something to prove". Hopefully you got the point.
-asker(asker);
2006-5-5
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Partially agree. But why are there so many Taiwan and Hong Kong girls who have not only 教养和修养 but also 漂亮? Well so many mainland girls are short of it?
-asker(asker);
2006-5-4
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漂亮是自然的(如果不去做手术的话)。教养和修养是后天慢慢培养的。这和环境有很大的关系。自从改革开放以来,我们伟大中华民族的一些优良传统在大陆已经慢慢消失了,取而代之的是盲目崇洋媚外,一切向钱看的风气。为了金钱,什么友情,亲情,道德,仁义都可以不顾。哪还有时间来顾到教养和修养阿。。。
-lostindarkness(阳光灿烂);
2006-5-5
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漂亮女人的机会很多的, 如果她还没有多少见识, 那是她的智商有问题.
-missgirl(女人中的女人);
2006-5-4
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见识广的,有情商和智商的女人,不会把心思花在了解所谓的好男人的想法, 她只需
要跟着感觉走,用心去爱。
-somewhere(身为女人);
2006-5-4
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感觉是经验的积累. 人都有共性和个性. 不能光凭感觉走的. 要有心事, 把这个关系引向你想要去的方向
-zaitoronto(在多伦多);
2006-5-4
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水到渠成D东东,还要“引向你想要去的方向”?呵呵
-somewhere(身为女人);
2006-5-4
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:)
-asker(asker);
2006-5-4
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:))))))))))
-somewhere(身为女人);
2006-5-4
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鼓掌..
-paopao631(泡泡);
2006-5-5
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赞成SOMEWHERE的说法。
-lovecalgary(calgary);
2006-5-5
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粉丝粉丝。
-somewhere(身为女人);
2006-5-5
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两方面其实都重要. 很多时候了解并不等于放弃自我和讨好. 是沟通的需要.
-paopao631(泡泡);
2006-5-5
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从这个帖子看出来了,某些大城市的女人对好男人的定义可能就是房子,车子或者是事业有成了。并且还会为这挖空心思。小地方的女人比较质朴,所以得不到所谓的“好”男人。但“好”男人真的就是房子,车子吗?萝卜青菜,各有所爱罢了。
-haoxia74(haoxia);
2006-5-4
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整个帖子,就这句看到关于“房子,车子或者事业”了。
-somewhere(身为女人);
2006-5-4
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在这个商品社会里, 钱是衡量一个人是否成功的最基本标志之一
-zaitoronto(在多伦多);
2006-5-4
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是“标志之一”,但不是“基本”更不是“最”。
-somewhere(身为女人);
2006-5-4
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那除了钱以外, 你还能有什么例证? 不要告诉我抽象的, 具体的
-zaitoronto(在多伦多);
2006-5-4
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比如说,不碰二手货。。。
-objectspace(New File Sys);
2006-5-4
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那么请告诉我,在你眼中,除了钱以外,其他的成功标志是什么?
-somewhere(身为女人);
2006-5-4
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Degrees, published books and etc. :)
-asker(asker);
2006-5-4
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反对....那些用处都不大....最重要的..是....能力...::))))))
-serenade123(橘子红了);
2006-5-4
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What if someone has 能力, but doesn't know how to translate 能力 into money or degrees or other stuff? :)
-asker(asker);
2006-5-4
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有能力,想没有钱也难啦! 但也有特例,比如,一朋友到国外读MBA,花很多钱,暂时没钱,可毕业后,面试都是由别人公司买飞机票,佩专车。有时,有能力的人会遇到困难,会暂时没钱,比如,朋友,家人花钱,投资etc. 但有钱不一定有能力和可爱,比如贪污,损友,etc.
-china888china(1of中加农民);
2006-5-5
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好奇地问一下——啥地方是大地方,啥地方是小地方?
-tulipa(tulip);
2006-5-4
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进来..告诉你...长tulip的地方就是大地方....长狗尾巴草的地方..就是下地方..:)))
-serenade123(橘子红了);
2006-5-4
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情商和智商跟一个人的来源地有直接的关系吗?毛泽东来自于韶山,克林顿从小石城( little rock )走向白宫? 指点江山,鸿图伟略....
拿你来说吧, 你这位来自发展中国家的同志,智商不会低过在加拿大这个发达国家中长大的某位先生吧?
-nark(18楼养的牛牛);
2006-5-4
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世界上也指出过一个毛泽东,一个克林顿,想他们这样的人,无论来自哪里,都会成为伟人的,大部分人呢?
-jetman(好人);
2006-5-5
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看样子你还得多多努力改变自己
-dancewithmyhubby(与猴共舞);
2006-5-8
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