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枫下家园 / 亲亲宝贝 / 有几个老公是这样的: 我自己带3个月的宝宝,平时很辛苦,终于盼到周末老公能在家帮我,但是他要么是让宝宝白天睡大觉好让自己安心看"大长今",要么是把孩子扛在肩膀上睡觉自己看电视,根本不跟孩子玩.
-janetj(Janetj);
2006-2-25
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继续:后果是: 晚上自己跑到别的房间睡觉,我自己带孩子,孩子因为白天睡的多玩的少,晚上睡的根本不踏实,一会一起. 我几乎不能休息,等天亮了孩子彻底精神了,我又得带他,老公睡到11点.
-janetj(Janetj);
2006-2-25
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继续:我最近两个星期,身体真的不行了,早上起来心慌,掉头发(纯母乳喂养,孩子不吃奶粉),腿发软. 我已经跟老公讲过了,他辩解说孩子白天困了就得睡大觉. 我的体会:难难难!!!
-janetj(Janetj);
2006-2-25
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我宝宝都七个月了,我的头发还在掉呢,我想你主要是睡眠不足,宝宝白天睡觉时你也跟着一起睡会好些的。宝宝白天困了是该睡,但醒着时要多活动,多消耗点体力。
-nomi12(nomi12);
2006-2-25
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我老公也一样..大一点送DAYCARE就好了...自己晚上在带..平常我也长自己一个人带孩子上街..让他爸带我也不放心.
-jessiejojo(jessie);
2006-2-25
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可能是孩子还小,爸爸还没感受到和宝宝一起玩的乐趣吧,大一点会好些的。我们家的还抱着宝宝在电脑前打麻将呢。。
-nomi12(nomi12);
2006-2-25
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Same here, my husband doesn't help me at all. my son is 3 months now, i take care of him day and night. understand you, where do you live?
-angee(angee);
2006-2-25
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north of Toronto. How about you?
-janetj(Janetj);
2006-2-25
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Mississauga, contact me then we comfort each other and share the experience of taking care baby :)Sometimes I think that my husband is not easy, he need to earn money to support the family, the pressure is intangible, he may need you to understand.
-angee(angee);
2006-2-25
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你要学会自我调节,孩子白天睡你就和孩子一起睡,这样就不会那么累了,掉头发也正常,才3个月,我那个时候一把一把的掉,孩子醒的时候要多活动,3个月可能只会抬头,那就让他多锻炼抬头呀多动动手指什么的,体力消耗的大自然会好睡的。
-pooooo(豆豆);
2006-2-25
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对老公不要抱太大希望,我现在都懒的说他,随他去。把你的爱都放在孩子身上吧。
-byly(好好学习);
2006-2-25
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对,孩子白天睡的时候,你也得睡,不过可以多买些玩具,让LG陪着一起玩会有趣些。
-letshavefun(假如);
2006-2-25
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怎么还有男人爱看《大长今》??
-pingle(玫瑰扇子);
2006-2-25
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mssd, 火狐的蓝言
-ningxin0809(雁影行洲);
2006-2-25
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what means mssd? I saw lots of people saying that.
-vega_lee(天津包子-就不改);
2006-2-25
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水岗土话, 等于没啥说的
-ningxin0809(雁影行洲);
2006-2-25
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If I were you, I wil 1. tell him to help or he won' t have the second child; 2. wake him up when the baby wakes up at night; 3. teach him how to play with the baby, such as:singing following the tape or CD, massaging the baby, talking with the baby, walking outside with the baby, going to early year centre.
Taking care of baby is both of your responsibility. Don't indulge your husband too much, or he will forget his role.
-gina2002(至爱小肥肥);
2006-2-25
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原来这样的男人还不止一个啊,我家的这个也是。觉得赚钱了不起了,啥活不干。哎,自叹命苦啊。岂料命苦的姐妹们这么多啊,非常理解楼主的感受,让我们这些姐妹们相互勉励吧。
-raincease(raincease);
2006-2-26
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同情一下. 掉头发不用担心,那是因为身体激素变化, 怀孕的时候毛发掉的比平时少,现在平衡过来, 会一下掉很多, 有些地方会掉得看上去比以前头发还少, 不久又会重新长出来. 不如你白天和孩子一起睡,让你老公看<<大长今>>,但是要他煮饭.
-wakengduizhang(teamleader);
2006-2-26
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让你老公带宝宝出去玩,你在家才能休息.
-douban(江湖菜);
2006-2-26
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