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枫下家园 / 望子成龙 / 孩子问题, 请教各位。请说说你的看法和观点。
-maojian(maojian);
2006-2-9
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"他看到地上有一分钱时,总是要捡起来",太可爱了,和我小时候一样。
-smallwhale(喝不了咖啡);
2006-2-9
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夸自己可爱 :-)
-webx(webx);
2006-2-9
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Cannot agree the words STEAL A PENNY.
-tai1or(Tailor);
2006-2-9
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Doesn't matter how much. So long as he took someone else's belonging. It is the behaviour itself matter. The only thing differ is whether he understand it is wrong.
-23456789(大白乎);
2006-2-9
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It is for sure my son should not take things, which belong to other. But that the teacher used the word “steal” made us feel so bad.We just want to know it is a big problem?
-maojian(maojian);
2006-2-9
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A child education program, called "Raising Cain", was aired last night by PBS channel. It was about understanding how boys think and behave from early childhood to high school. Try www.pbs.org and search the program.
-23456789(大白乎);
2006-2-9
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Don't see teachers as natural child education experts or child psychologists. Some teachers are not well educated.
-sui_watson(热干面);
2006-2-9
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I am not going to argue with the teacher even I don’t like the word as a parent.The key for us is to find a good way to help him not doing this again. That is why I like to meet the teacher because they are professionals in education.
-maojian(maojian);
2006-2-9
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借你的帖子问同样的事情, 真心请教有经验的其他家长我女儿四岁。以前从来没有发现有拿别人东西的毛病。 最近连续发生了两三次。昨天我从她口袋里翻出了学校的一个小lego. 她还开始想撒谎,后来自己承认是从学校里做完activities以后放在口袋里的。我的邻居说这种情况有时候发生在家里即将有第二个baby的时候。老大会感觉失宠,家庭地位受威胁。我们是要有老二了。 作为父亲,我有时是严厉了一点。 昨天我就给了她一个非常严厉的time out. 之后又苦口婆心地讲了一晚上道理。 我就不明白,家里什么都不缺,她什么时候有这样的毛笔。苦恼。
-xinsheyuan(二他妈妈,快拿大木盆);
2006-2-9
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I asked him what his teacher said to him before I sent him to school this morning. He just kept quiet and didn’t say a word.We will talk to him very seriously when we get home this afternoon. I don’t only want to tell him if you do this again police will send you to the jail (My wife told him like this before when she found he brought the pieces of Lego to home).
We really like to find a good way to stop him doing this kind thing again.
Thanks.
-maojian(maojian);
2006-2-9
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看着他, 让他自己把拿的东西还回去. 并且道歉.
-czs10m(春夏秋冬);
2006-2-9
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我觉得,对孩子一定不要太严厉,要用轻柔的声音问她为什么拿它,然后还可以以家里的东西为例子,和蔼和自豪地告诉孩子:宝贝家里的每一样东西(哪怕是一粒米)都是爸爸妈妈自己挣钱买的,让她从大人的语言和神态中能够感觉到,什么是对的,什么是错的...以后再经常启发她.不能急的.
-happysunshine(sunshine);
2006-2-9
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告诉你的小宝贝,看到东西捡起来后就一定要交给老师或家长.因为那东西迷失了它自己的主人,那我们要帮它一起找到主人.,唯一能帮助它的找到自己主人的就是老师和家长(警察)了,所以不要把它只是放在自己的包中,那样它会哭的,就象你,要是出去玩找不到妈妈了一样会哭鼻子的.
-happysunshine(sunshine);
2006-2-9
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1.您需要跟老师谈话.绝不能用"偷"来定义孩子,他还分不清"偷"和"拿"的概念.2.心平气和地但是严肃地跟儿子讲清楚什么是偷什么是拿,3.他拿了幼儿园什么玩具挑其中他最想要的,不贵的给他买回来.但最好讲好条件:如果他再拿东东,以后什么玩具也不给买!!别担心,相信您的儿子是个好孩子!只要明白了道理,很快会改正的.
-doreimi(wanglin);
2006-2-9
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