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枫下家园 / 望子成龙 / 是老公不对还是我小气老公很喜欢游山玩水及户外运动, 而且总是一个人去,少则两三天,多则十天半月。计划源源不断,准备起行程兴高彩烈。 每次老公出外,我都会感到又闷又气, 但他的理由是他玩的都是比较危险的运动,我和孩子不能去,而且夫妻应适当分开,各自有自己的活动,否则天天在一起会经常吵架。这次孩子高烧几天,他临走时孩子烧到40度,看着他毫不犹豫的离开家,没有半点迟疑,我的心里感到有一种说不出的苦,眼泪怎么也止不住。这样的男人能变么?是我太小气么?
-redridinghood(红帽儿);
2006-1-7
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家里孩子多了,的确是个问题,可是都是孩子,该疼哪个,这就是你的权利了!
-hornhorse(爱泡妞的河马);
2006-1-7
(#2703524@0)
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对你不好, 可能是他粗心, 对孩子不好, 绝对是有问题。
-ningxin0809(雁影行洲);
2006-1-7
(#2703535@0)
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男人有男人的天地,女人有女人的世界,很正常,别指望谁能改变,作好你份内的事,他不在家理应你照管孩子作作家务,不要太小气,太过于计较了。
-halloween();
2006-1-7
(#2703536@0)
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哪些是老公份内的事情?哪些是老婆份内的事情?请指教.
-wakengduizhang(teamleader);
2006-1-7
(#2703603@0)
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你婚了吗?婚了的人应该都懂,无须问。没婚的人说了你也不懂,无须答。坑该挖则挖,该填则填,你这teamleader是怎么当的?
-halloween();
2006-1-7
(#2703615@0)
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你说不出,我来说.不管男人女人,结了婚就有他/她必须承担的责任.照顾生病的孩子,和照顾因为看护生病的孩子而疲惫焦虑的母亲,都是他的责任,就是你说的"份内".
-wakengduizhang(teamleader);
2006-1-7
(#2703663@0)
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问题就是出在这儿,他的责任,不是由你去定的。要承担的责任也是有条件限制地。你要知道的是你自己的责任,也就是这种状况下你份内该做的事,而不是满脑子对方的责任该如何如何。凡事都是有原因的,你无法准确盼断。
-halloween();
2006-1-7
(#2703684@0)
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你昏了还是没昏呢?我还真是看不出来.算了.我闪.
-wakengduizhang(teamleader);
2006-1-7
(#2703731@0)
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怎么像唐僧一样?
-nancyhe(囡囡细雨);
2006-1-9
(#2707729@0)
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现在的男人又大男子主义,又小气,普遍的,还没女人的度量大。
-nancyhe(囡囡细雨);
2006-1-9
(#2707726@0)
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这种男人也有.小孩生病还出去玩. 少见. 想起我们原公司的一个VP到中国访问, 下了飞机接个电话说他小孩病了. 立刻下班机飞香港转机回去. 就剩下一群接机的人傻眼了.
-flyingpig(小飞猪);
2006-1-7
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有此孩子有病半夜看急诊,他开车把我和孩子送到医院就回家睡觉了,理由是两个大人一起在医院等是白浪费时间。但我就不明白,孩子肚子痛得翻来滚去,他这么就能睡着觉。
-redridinghood(红帽儿);
2006-1-7
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sigh! 你嫁了个稀有动物. 结婚前怎么没有看出来呢?
-flyingpig(小飞猪);
2006-1-7
(#2703586@0)
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我的老板晚上睡觉戴ear plug,理由:孩子晚上哭声太吵。
-jeffrey815(Smartiecat);
2006-1-7
(#2703625@0)
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真羡慕你们2人呀. 一个敢做,一个能忍.
-notreal(别当真);
2006-1-7
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不忍怎么办。吵架只能让自己更生气,他该玩还是玩。
-redridinghood(红帽儿);
2006-1-7
(#2703590@0)
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男的不坏,女的不爱。
-ustax(roliatax);
2006-1-7
(#2703653@0)
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It depends on how often he leaves you and kids behind... And are you sure he goes to where he says he is? Sounds like he has another home or something... Just kidding.. but you need to find out...
-mocha(@ 2001-2006);
2006-1-7
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he goes out with his friends every time, most his frineds are single. I know where he go and i saw the pictures they took when he came back.
-redridinghood(红帽儿);
2006-1-7
(#2703582@0)
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Looks like you will forgive him and let him leave you guys behind again and again soon... 'coz you're so defensive of him... or call it love.. :-)
-mocha(@ 2001-2006);
2006-1-7
(#2703592@0)
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i don't know if i should forgive him, but i do hope that i could find out a solution. maybe you have good suggestions? thanks for your reply.
-redridinghood(红帽儿);
2006-1-7
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不是你小气,是他太自私了。
-omino(sleepy cat);
2006-1-7
(#2703579@0)
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是你老公不对。
-crystalcat(HappilyEverAfter);
2006-1-7
(#2703596@0)
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Regardless, who's right or wrong, I'll bet money on you can hardly find another husband behaves like yours
-mocha(@ 2001-2006);
2006-1-7
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I agree with you. But what i can do, he is so stubborn that nothing can make him change. I don't konw if i still love him, but i just want to give my daughter a happy family, she is only 4 yrs old.
-redridinghood(红帽儿);
2006-1-7
(#2703668@0)
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说各玩各的,省得天天面对吵架,还可以理解(每个人的生活方式不一样),但是在对孩子上,这个爸爸很不负责.孩子生病,自己怎么能安心去玩?
-ling7199(Michaell);
2006-1-7
(#2703619@0)
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认命吧, 你当初不就找的他吗?
-playtiger(喝点红酒吃点牛肉);
2006-1-7
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这样的男人很垃圾啊。另外,也听说过打着出去玩的旗号,干别的事情的
-johnnyhatesjazz(Rock and Roll);
2006-1-7
(#2703680@0)
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不要乱说, 搞不好出人命.
-playtiger(喝点红酒吃点牛肉);
2006-1-7
(#2703745@0)
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你老公不对。
-cfd(唱反调);
2006-1-7
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Seems that he don't care you and the family. try to seperate for a while (not necessary live in different house).
-ghyll(阿土);
2006-1-7
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How to separate if not live in different house?
-redridinghood(红帽儿);
2006-1-7
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会有这样的男人? 不会是一面之辞吧?
-alnd(alnd);
2006-1-9
(#2707439@0)
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这个老公不合格,父亲更不合格!
-starrain(星雨);
2006-1-9
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Thank all of you for the reply. I am seriously thinking about a divorce right now. Thanks.
-redridinghood(红帽儿);
2006-1-9
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男人都是大男孩儿,玩儿够了就好了,别动不动就离婚。那是犯傻。
-sui_watson(noname);
2006-1-9
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He has been playing for ten years and i don't think that he is going to change. He does not deserve to be a father.
-redridinghood(红帽儿);
2006-1-9
(#2708448@0)
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One of the most critical critieria for you to decide on whether or not you should divorce him is to see whether he still loves your kid. If he even doesn't show love to his own kid,he's just a selfish freak. So just KICK him out! The sooner, the better.
-sui_watson(noname);
2006-1-9
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(#2708497@0)
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you are right.You are right. My daugther had been the only reason for me to stay with him. I have been watching him for years. He doesn't care anybody but himself. Sometimes he shows love to his daughter, but, he loves himself much more. That is why he left a sick daughter with high fever at home and went camping by himself.
-redridinghood(红帽儿);
2006-1-9
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You know what? Your husband will end up with living alone and miserably when he gets old. Let's see.
-sui_watson(noname);
2006-1-9
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厉害角色, 我也喜欢玩, 但我更喜欢我的孩子.
-itguy0(艾T精硬);
2006-1-9
(#2708700@0)
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先别急着离婚呀!你和你老公好好谈过吗?是不是一向都是,你对家里的事大包大揽的。如果是就难怪了。和你老公好好谈谈吧。和他说说你的感受和希望。心平气和的,不要大吵大闹,尤其不要当着孩子的面。如果实在都无可谈了,就开始和孩子交底作准备。但是一定要告诉孩子,爸爸是爱她/他的。孩子对这些事很敏感。
-fairstory(秋天的童话);
2006-1-10
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We talked many times, but none of them helped at all. He thought he did nothing wrong, but got a wife who is too critical. There is nothing about houseworks but personalities, temperaments and resposibilities between us.
-redridinghood(红帽儿);
2006-1-10
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呵呵,我就是那个老公,换了个马甲上来,先向LD陪个罪,同时也给自己辩解两句,
-granmawolf(狼外婆);
2006-1-11
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(#2713263@0)
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我就说吗, 哪会有这样的人? 果然是坑
-alnd(alnd);
2006-1-11
(#2713484@0)
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... 鄙视你 ....
-loveblue(bluelove);
2006-1-18
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you are really a bad man.
-ghyll(阿土);
2006-1-19
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出去玩的时候锥间盘就好了, 强,应该拿医学奖。
-ningxin0809(雁影行洲);
2006-1-19
(#2731234@0)
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You said what I want to say. Feel sorry for the wife having a childish and selfish husband like this.
-ingridchao(Ingrid);
2006-1-19
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这叫有责任心的男人么!这也叫男人!
-jessicalu(风中的承诺);
2006-1-19
(#2731165@0)
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有时候你也应该轻松轻松自己。周末让劳工照顾孩子,你自己出去逛街,锻炼,或者做些你喜欢的事情。
-lilyba(sunshine 阳光灿烂);
2006-1-19
(#2731174@0)