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枫下家园 / 亲亲宝贝 / Need your adviceI am 32 in 2006 and will start my studies in Sep, 2006. If I plan to have my first baby now, is it possible that I take care of my baby while I am studying?
-gingerbeer(dilemma);
2005-12-21
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Do you have support from other family members?
-duck_nj(duck_nj);
2005-12-21
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My husband will graduate in May 2006. I am not sure when he will find a job. Our parents are still in China. But my parents could not take care of me. Sigh~~~~If I will have a baby when everything settle down, how old I am. 35 years old?
-gingerbeer(dilemma);
2005-12-21
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先养个娃是正事,读书可以晚半年。
-lotustears(圣诞快乐);
2005-12-21
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Both of them are too late. 1. Master is my dream. 2. We do not have good condition for our baby even a stable job. I am assuming that if I am pregnant under pressure, it is not good enough for baby.But when I think about I will have a baby when I am 35 even older, it is really terrible.
left hand, right hand~~~~~~~~~
-gingerbeer(dilemma);
2005-12-21
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我的意思,过1年你还是可以圆你的读书梦,而生孩子和母亲的岁数有很大关系。晚了有时就难度高了。
-lotustears(圣诞快乐);
2005-12-21
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如果没有其他人帮忙,只有你们夫妻俩,那真的很难做到,即使你舍得把孩子送到DAY CARE,也是很辛苦艰难啊
-nancy4(蓝雨);
2005-12-21
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how hard is it?
-gingerbeer(dilemma);
2005-12-21
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我家也没人管, 都是这么过来的. 支持+同情你
-canada1999(lovetochat);
2005-12-21
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我婆婆说小孩3个月就可以送daycare了
-canada1999(lovetochat);
2005-12-21
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刚毕业工资如果不高的话,daycare费可以全免的。楼主可以先注册上学,中间生小孩休1-2学期。-----自然,生/养孩子很辛苦的。
-llrm(小陳);
2005-12-21
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Sometimes I think if someone else can do it, so I can do it ethier. But after considering the best for us and baby, I hesitate to make a decision.
-gingerbeer(dilemma);
2005-12-22
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Why don't you try to find a job now? You should have baby first, and then start your studies when you are 35.
-gamma(gamma);
2005-12-21
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For some majors, 35 is kind of old.
-duck_nj(duck_nj);
2005-12-21
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As to the study, what's the diffence between 35 and 32? But a 32-year-old mom should definately give birth to a more healthy baby than a 35-year-old.
-gamma(gamma);
2005-12-21
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There is 3 year difference. All depends on what she wants. 35 to have a child, high risk of having a not healthy child. 35 to continue study, high risk of not doing very well at school.
-duck_nj(duck_nj);
2005-12-22
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If baby not healthy, you will have worst burden for your whole life. Easy choice
-boringcrazy(boringcrazy);
2005-12-22
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I am working under contract now. It will be finished next March. My plan was to have a baby at that time. But I just got this offer(through email).I applied for this university last year. They give me offer next January. But I have to delay it to next September. What am I going to do?
-gingerbeer(dilemma);
2005-12-22
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If you are 31 or 32 years old now, nothing to worry. In Canada lots of people have kids when they are more than 35. one of my girl friend had baby when she is 39 and she is good.
-canada1999(lovetochat);
2005-12-21
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Actually I was born when my mom was 40. I was in the hosipital before 4 years old, but now I am health and smart enough, just kiding.... I do not know what is my point.dilemma. dilemma....
-gingerbeer(dilemma);
2005-12-22
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i am 37 and my son is 10 months. but i do think any women should have their first baby before 35 if they really want the kids.
-applejam(apple);
2005-12-22
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Better not sway between decisions. You will never get there. There is no "wrong", "right", "good", "more appropriate". Spend a bit time, go for the decision easier to make.
-wangqq(Good Deal);
2005-12-22
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I think you should finish your degree first.I just have a baby (one month), before I study in university too, and I still have three courses need to finish. but now i do not know when i can make it. I can stay in school two days without back home when the assignment is due before. but i can not stay in school even half day now. of course it depend on your major.
-treehouse65(cherry);
2005-12-23
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