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枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / 观美女天葬叹人生无常[转帖]
-laoguanggun(laoguanggun);
2005-11-22
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不妥!不妥!大不妥!唉!
-table(桌子来了);
2005-11-22
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所言极是。无论老幼美丑,又何尝是她一人经历无常?是人皆然。life is short, prepare hard. :)
-springspring(Fall);
2005-11-22
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I am totally shocked by the dramaticaly contrast scene!!!Can't believe a life can be vanished so easly. Start to think about what is the meaning of life. We struggle so hard in this real world. What for? What is we realy looking for? Only some big figures are writing the history of human being. Most of people' fates just like the ants, disappear without any trace. Sigh. Start to feel depressive.
-hotmoon(Who cares!);
2005-11-23
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that's true and this is the point for us to think about deeply. what is the meaning of life?美貌終有衰老的一日﹐青春會有退卻的時候﹐名利呢﹐ 權力呢﹐看看眼下我們正在追逐的一切。。。甚至親情愛情都有離別的一刻。金剛經說的好﹕一切﹐非一切﹐名為一切。世間之物﹐皆如夢幻泡影﹐實為虛妄。但也別驚慌﹐無論如何﹐你的心性還在﹐完好無缺。每人與生俱來的如來智慧﹐開顯出來﹐會帶人去遠離恐怖顛倒夢想的涅槃世界。
-springspring(Fall);
2005-11-23
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Which direction?I guess basiclly two big directions. One exclude yourself from the real world. Like the monks. If you already see through the emptyness of life, just save the energy, don't pursue anything . Another, enjoy the life as much as possible. Don't waste anytime to have fun. Right now I am between. But most time the fun just make me feel more emptyness deep down inside me. What do I want in the life? This moment? or next life?
-hotmoon(Who cares!);
2005-11-23
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You're experiencing the two extreme thoughts like me. Right now, I'm trying to combine this two extremes into my real life, and try to reduce the gap in balance.谁说关我到深山我就与世隔绝?倘若我的妄心继续造作不安。谁说留我在俗世我就随波逐流?只要我能安于当下将心歇息。
原因不在外,在内,自己的内。我们早以习惯于对错,有无,实空的对立,似乎不抓一点被认同的东西,心就不安。可去抓了,亦不觉安。一切都是二元对立的错。让我们紧紧抓住虚妄的外相,不放。
禅修可能是一个很好的方法,让思辨的心慢慢找到真正中庸之道,得到平和、智慧。May worth of a try.
-springspring(Fall);
2005-11-23
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You are so right!
-hotmoon(Who cares!);
2005-11-23
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I totally agree with your dad's thought on the western or eastern religion. It shows he has an open mind to different kind of things.Personally I will not sell something which is a treasure for me, like meditation, however, if you want to try it, it is better to follow a good teacher, who might be a monk or lama, or any one you have confidence on.
Then you will find your own answer from it, also you will know what should be filled into your daily mind.
You may also try as many things as you can when you are young, at least, after a try you will know if it attracts you or not .
Good luck for the life journey.
-springspring(Fall);
2005-11-23
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ow, you bet. I admire my dad a lot. I am glad I can find a person who have something in common with my Dad.
-hotmoon(Who cares!);
2005-11-23
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very glad to hear this. I am viewing a right way from you. Again, life is short, prepare hard and enjoy each moment you have.I know some monks and lamas, they are really rich because of the real compassion ,love and wisdom. I am sure they will bring you a different view beyond the mudane life and help you to reach the innest peace eventually if you are willing to prepare yourself in.
Again, may all the auspiciousness with you and your lovely dad.
-springspring(Fall);
2005-11-24
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这方式太残忍了。
-springwater500(矿泉水);
2005-11-23
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痴男冤女太多,缺乏对生命的深刻认识. 好似有啥深仇大恨, 其实都是鸡毛蒜皮. 人生无常,一死百了, 好好活着,何必太多抱怨.
-nz2005(新手);
2005-11-23
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亮出你的舌苔或空空荡荡
-xiaowu(小五);
2005-11-23
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good one。
-coast(三叶虫);
2005-11-23
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T_T
-arfeifei(老顽童);
2005-11-23
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不错,看透了就知道美和不美其实没有那么大的区别,人生一世也不过如浮生一梦啊。
-dalianmao(dalianmao);
2005-11-23
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It's hard to 看透, thoughts and emotions only exist when we are alive.And it's the beauty of "being", that we can laugh, cry, give and take. Indeed, there's no big difference between beautiful and ugly, there's big difference between normal and abnormal.
-labelle(㊣完美的海盗);
2005-11-23
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I agree with you too.But who can definite what is nomal what is abnomal. you or me? Weasten or Easten? African people or European people?
-hotmoon(Who cares!);
2005-11-23
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it is even harder to still believe our life has meaning after such observation, and still have the courage to live our life with paasion, kindness and generosity.life is a process leading to a fixed destiny -- the only mathmatic certainty we know of.
waht makes a difference is not how long or how short we have lived, but how intensive we lived -- length means nothing because the end is the same. life is beautiful, but not life's purpose.
-the_dumb_one(dumb_and_dumber);
2005-11-23
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Not the length. but the width. I agree.But how to extend the width? I guess different people have different points. My way: read more, travel more, think more. Anothern thing I realy want to do is coming back China help a few poor kids. Before I moved here, I tried to help a 3 years old kid she got HIVS . Very unsuccefully experience. Changing my attitude of life a lot. But I won't give up . Is this attitude of life ok or not? I want to know everybody here how to extend the width of life. How to make life more meaningful in your own way?
-hotmoon(Who cares!);
2005-11-23
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好人一生平安
-laoguanggun(laoguanggun);
2005-11-23
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经历战争, 了解了南京大屠杀, 你就不会有这样的感慨.
-ibelieveicanfly(东边日出西边雨);
2005-11-23
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没了灵魂,美丽也就失去了意义。只有经过天葬的她,才能在轮回中将美丽永驻。
-ddli(下雪了);
2005-11-23
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