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枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / 今天从书上看到一句话,思考ing,大家怎么看? "促成美满婚姻的因素,当然是夫妻感情的和谐,生活的愉快,但最主要的还是性生活的美满与否,性生活是夫妻爱情的主要因素.
-enjoyrightnow(享受現在最重要);
2005-6-24
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不同意.精神上的和谐是最主要的,然后是性.二者都和谐了就完美了.比较难.HA3
-icecanadaice(皇甫丽雯);
2005-6-24
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wrong sequence. you got it all reversed.it is possible to turn a beast into a cultivated being. but it is hard (if not absolutely impossible) to turn a pure intellectual into a beast.
-the_dumb_one(dumb_and_dumber);
2005-6-24
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如果这样的话,怎么解释大都市里的高智商犯罪?
-icecanadaice(皇甫丽雯);
2005-6-24
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精神上的和谐可以是师生之间,蓝颜/红颜知己之间,姐儿们/哥儿们之间,但爱人之间,性的确是核心。唉,也是看多了同床异梦的女男,感叹一把。
-table(桌子来了);
2005-6-24
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性的和谐当然重要.只是如果没有精神上的和谐做前提,一定不会长久和美满.想想现在那么多的人用性爱工具,就知道为什么了.HA3
-icecanadaice(皇甫丽雯);
2005-6-24
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“那么多的人用性爱工具”这点我同意的,关于性的话题其实很多,也可以谈得很深奥,不仅是有人拿性做工具,对不少人来说,性是她/他的身份认同。可惜的是“性解放性革命”这样的话题,被不少人妖魅化。
-table(桌子来了);
2005-6-24
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东西方文化的差异。
-backjiangnan(江南);
2005-6-24
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对!做爱基本靠想.HA3
-falcon7x(鹰飘风流);
2005-6-24
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Too simple. Totally naive.
-rollor(Rollor);
2005-6-24
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No doubt!
-noproblem(大可以);
2005-6-24
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if you have never had something, then you don't know what you are missing.this principle applies to sex life, too.
-the_dumb_one(dumb_and_dumber);
2005-6-24
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this is true. ha3
-icecanadaice(皇甫丽雯);
2005-6-24
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美满婚姻如同爱花人对花儿的培育.每天都需要浇水施肥.不能认为花是我的了,而不再用去半点心思.
-nini1998(妮妮);
2005-6-24
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闪烁其词,答非所问。。。
-noproblem(大可以);
2005-6-24
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非也.我抓他的主语---美满婚姻.
-nini1998(妮妮);
2005-6-24
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非也.我抓你的比喻。是花就会凋谢,不管你怎样地浇水施肥. 用花来比喻美满婚姻,不吉利。。。
-noproblem(大可以);
2005-6-24
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那用钻石吧,永远不变.HA3
-icecanadaice(皇甫丽雯);
2005-6-24
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人要是能永远年轻,并活着多好.
-nini1998(妮妮);
2005-6-24
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#2362460 :)
-noproblem(大可以);
2005-6-24
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每天都需要浇水施肥是指每天都需要做爱?
-ycdiichy(just do it);
2005-6-25
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柏拉图式?没有爱,纯粹的性是死,没有性,纯粹的爱也是死! HA3
-casanova(大鼻子情圣);
2005-6-24
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总比半死不死的柏拉图式强.HA3
-icecanadaice(皇甫丽雯);
2005-6-24
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9494
-arfeifei(老顽童);
2005-6-25
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先以感情为主, 时间久了, 转为性为主,,,不, 应该是以孩子为主,,呵呵..如果有孩子的话...
-cicifake(失物招领-公主1名);
2005-6-24
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That is right. Take me as a example. No good sex--marrage didn't work---divorced. Now what kind of man do I choose? He must like sex very much.
-howtimeflies(goodolddays);
2005-6-25
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即使你们两人有共同的兴趣,爱好,精神上十分的和谐? 还是离婚了?
-enjoyrightnow(享受現在最重要);
2005-6-25
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After marriage, money are more important than 兴趣,爱好. He went to the south of china to earn money, but he didn't succeed. 2 or 3 years later we lived together and found there were no love and sex in our marriage..if we had a good sex, he would not go to the south by himself, so do other chinese families. when I hear some chinese men live in china and their wives and children live in Canada, I know sex life are not important in their marriages and doubt quality of their marriage.
-howtimeflies(goodolddays);
2005-6-26
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如果你老公生意成功并且赚了钱,能给你一个安稳的生活,你无须为生活奔波,你还会离婚吗?虽然你们还有感情,但在性上不和谐.你强些,他弱些.(从你的贴字看你比较强)
-enjoyrightnow(享受現在最重要);
2005-6-27
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哈,注意,性是双刃剑。如果他很强,又远离你做生意,你能放心?
-turksandcaicos(turksandcaicos);
2005-6-27
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请问:精神和谐与性爱和谐的爱人,哪个更容易找到?
-haizhihun(海之魂);
2005-6-25
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根据书上提供的数字:在你周围的100个人中会有一个人在性上与你是和谐的.
-enjoyrightnow(享受現在最重要);
2005-6-25
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I don't know. I think for most of us 精神和谐与性爱和谐 should be together. You just add sex to your精神和谐 . That's it.
-howtimeflies(goodolddays);
2005-6-26
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这种书有P用。难道它说性生活重要你就狠练性生活?完了性生活还就真的美好了?然后婚姻就真的美满了?
-nande(强 ®);
2005-6-25
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when you choose your partner, you should consider about sex. if one like sex very much and nother doesn't, they are not compatible. if you both don't care about sex, that's fine. no problem.
-howtimeflies(goodolddays);
2005-6-26
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totally agree your point here.
-boringlife(孤独);
2005-6-26
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没有性的婚姻就是缺少发动机的汽车,整个儿一个摆设.
-hearts(hearts);
2005-6-25
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真有多少没有性的婚姻? 不要极端吗, 大多数婚姻应该是介于两个极端之间的, 性生活这个东西大家理论上可以说怎么好就最好, 可是这个人不是机器, 如何能保持永远最好?就算今天最好, 谁也保证不了明天一定还好, 那就断了这段婚姻? 再说了, 就算生理上没有变化, 听说人心理上还有个喜新厌旧的毛病, 呵呵
-gnits(sting);
2005-6-26
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这个问题问问老杨跟翁帆怎么想的
-poree(Holliday, YIN);
2005-6-25
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听说情人之间的性生活比夫妻间要美满多了
-gnits(sting);
2005-6-26
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