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枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / 我该怎么办?LG 几个月前从网上认识一个比他小18岁的MM,现在天天想着她,疯狂追求她,我不知道该怎样面对。
-heartbroken(water);
2005-4-6
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兔子的尾巴!
-icecanadaice(皇甫丽雯);
2005-4-6
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他爱她,不爱我了,我怎么面对不爱我的人。
-heartbroken(water);
2005-4-6
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要么离开他,要么把他当朋友对待.
-icecanadaice(皇甫丽雯);
2005-4-6
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不是那个什么Chinatiger 吧。理解你。没办法,一定要想开。男人真是混蛋阿。
-mine888(mine);
2005-4-6
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haha, too nasty
-slimpigggy(主席是豬);
2005-4-6
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很多男人没有忠诚的概念。楼主,如果你不能离开他,就挣只眼闭只眼,架一定要炒,不吵更难受。觉一定要睡好。如果你觉得这块鸡肋丢了也罢,就开始办离婚。当然他的态度也很重要。就是说,合也成,分也成,会过来的。
-mine888(mine);
2005-4-6
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哎!国人!
-thisunreal(饭得志);
2005-4-6
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就是心里时常不能平静,想不开啊,不会是所有男人都可恨吧!
-heartbroken(water);
2005-4-6
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我理解。很多很多男人都和你老公一样。一点也不稀奇。发生了就是倒霉。你没什么错。别埋怨自己。一定要对自己好。给你自己做好吃的。不想给他做就不做。
-mine888(mine);
2005-4-6
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每天容忍他去追别的女人?
-heartbroken(water);
2005-4-6
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每天和他吵。如果他出门了,就让他走。
-mine888(mine);
2005-4-6
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我觉得不吵才明智。由着他。他现在属于头脑发热的时候,过一阶段降温了就没事了。
-sleeping_beauty(田野里的麦苗);
2005-4-7
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越吵走的越快。刚好给他一个理由出走。
-thecoolguy(孩哥);
2005-4-8
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告诉你老公,因为男女生理的差异.那个女的将来30如狼似虎的年龄时候,你老公肯定不行了,这样一说,你老公也就懂得和她长久不了.
-byebyecanada(byebyeCanada);
2005-4-6
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好像我们的杨振宁老先生也不懂这事。你快去救救我们的...Nobel...
-hahahaly(hahahaly);
2005-4-6
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让他净身出户, 勇敢追求爱情去
-7y7(醉里吴音);
2005-4-6
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净身出户? 净身---has special mean Mm;-)
-maple88(枫叶);
2005-4-6
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why do people have so much hatred to their ex-spouse?
you loved and you were loved -- that is the most important thing.you cannot have a job for life -- why do you expect a marriage for life?
everything changes in this world. nothing is eternal.
-old_man(old_guy);
2005-4-6
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It is not hate. Nobody likes to get hurt. And some guys like to own more than one woman. It is not fair to whom loves you.
-mine888(mine);
2005-4-6
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we choose the way we live.when such thing happens (meaning a man wants to chase more than one woman) as long as no one is kept in the dark then it is a matter of personal choice.
it will be a lot worse if the man hid the fact from his wife or lie to the other party about his marital status.
as a matter of personal choice it is beyond good and evil, in other words, it is beyond moral judgment.
-old_man(old_guy);
2005-4-6
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知道波音CEO一把年纪, 因为婚外恋丑闻被扫地出门吗? 这不止是PERSONAL CHOICES, 这是ETHIC. 婚外恋无论公开不公开都是背叛, 北美企业界认为连枕边人都可以CHEAT的, 根本没有社会道德职业道德可言
-7y7(醉里吴音);
2005-4-6
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It is a personal choice. To stay with your wife without affair or divorce.
It is same whatever the man hides the fact or tells his wife. For his wife, she has right to chose her reaction too. Love, or not love.But, anyway, affair is still a kind of betrayal. Betray your swear when you got married.
No good words for this.
-mine888(mine);
2005-4-6
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that is the point.everyone has the right to choose -- with the assumption that they will be responsible for the consequence.
-old_man(old_guy);
2005-4-6
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I know what you mean:) I am not attacking that people cannot get divorced. But, this woman has her right feel bad and hate her husband. Enough resons.
-mine888(mine);
2005-4-6
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feel bad is different than hate someone.
how can you hate someone if you have loved and being loved?you have gone through part of your life journey together and you were happy -- that is enough.
-old_man(old_guy);
2005-4-7
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跟你都说不清了。你爱他,不是爱过,是爱着。他背着你去找别人了,年轻那么多了,她不高兴了,很难过。心理的怨恨自然而然的生上来,因为被背叛了。你不能不允许别人难过,怨恨。如果怨恨能让她觉得好受,为什么不?没有人会麻木的接受现实。
哎。
-mine888(mine);
2005-4-7
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hate does not help you or the other party. it will only make things worse.if you love someone you would like him/her to be happy.
and you should respect his/her right of choice.
hatred will turn your life so far into a dump and you will become some who even hates him/her self.
-old_man(old_guy);
2005-4-7
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No love. Become hate for some people. It is natural and understandble.
-mine888(mine);
2005-4-7
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why should the choice only be either love or hatred?
you can still have affection, friendship or caring after marriage.after all, if someone accompanied you for a long journey that person must have some good quality. otherwise why didn't you get out before long.
-old_man(old_guy);
2005-4-7
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没错儿,可被解雇的人总是感到愤怒(我拼4拼活地干......)和悲伤(就这样被抛弃......),辞职的人就不一样了(bye-bye吧您啦~~). 婚姻解体的时候也是这样
-zxcvb(朝天椒);
2005-4-6
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marriage is different than your job.
you cannot negate what you had just because you will have it any more.retaliation is not going to save you or the other party.
-old_man(old_guy);
2005-4-6
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that is called loser mentality.
everything becomes a waste if it cannot continue.we live for the moment. only Gods live in eternality.
-old_man(old_guy);
2005-4-7
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咦, 我有说恨了吗? 支持男人寻找新爱, 只是要做条汉子, 你可以不爱, 不可以不负责,把房产汽车存款通通留给家小, 每月交赡养费,再去寻爱. 不要在家享受老婆准备的吃喝干净衬衫, 一出门再去找小美女谈纯情恋爱. 世上有这等好事?
-7y7(醉里吴音);
2005-4-6
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是不是意味着把他象一个乞丐一样地扫地出门,让小美女把他疯狂孽待后,体无完肤的他回过头向你求饶,地支持呀!
-wolveschief(狼头);
2005-4-6
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why should a man leave everything (house, vehicle and savings) to his ex-spouse?the law protects the one in disadvantage -- be it man or woman. the property is to be equally split. you are too emotional and you lost your fairness. what if the man makes less money than the wife? she is supposed to support him -- even if he wants the divorce.
we live in a world that changes so fast -- and ourselves are what changes the fastest. how can you demand people not to change in order to maintain the eternal stability of marriage? it is naive.
-old_man(old_guy);
2005-4-6
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您可真够抒情的, 可以去写现代金瓶梅了. 加拿大离婚案例照顾弱者和子女, 女方若有孩子抚养权, 房子基本归女方, 尤其在男方出轨有过错的情况下. 您不用说服我, 想法说服加拿大法官去吧
-7y7(醉里吴音);
2005-4-6
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infidelity is not a factor a modern judge considers when dealing with divorce case. you are giving the wrong information.family asset is to be splited equally. the principle is gender blind.
-old_man(old_guy);
2005-4-6
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您到底是头脑特古老还是特摩登?
-7y7(醉里吴音);
2005-4-6
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I am giving correct information.
-old_man(old_guy);
2005-4-6
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your statement is correct 50 years ago when infidelity is still a factor to be considered in divorce case.especially in spliting property/asset.
now the judges are more open-minded and the rule based on the concept of no-fault divorce.
-old_man(old_guy);
2005-4-6
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If husband has affair, how coule be no_fault divorce?
-mine888(mine);
2005-4-6
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http://www.a1-ontario-divorce.com/divorce.htm
-old_man(old_guy);
2005-4-6
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no-fault means you don't need a reason for divorce.
as long as you separated for a year your can file for divorce.
-old_man(old_guy);
2005-4-6
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给你个例子,发生在一个月以前 #2223952
-zxcvb(朝天椒);
2005-4-6
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what is your point?
what do you want people to learn from this example?
-old_man(old_guy);
2005-4-7
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我的point是男的在离婚这事儿里是占不到便宜的
-zxcvb(朝天椒);
2005-4-7
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so what is one's choice?
be a good boy? or pay the price for your freedom of choice?
-old_man(old_guy);
2005-4-7
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Wrong.
-mine888(mine);
2005-4-6
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what is wrong?
-old_man(old_guy);
2005-4-7
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那要是女方有错呢?
-arfeifei(老顽童);
2005-4-6
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the divorce law is gender blind.
it protects the weaker party -- be it a man or a woman
-old_man(old_guy);
2005-4-6
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够狠的了
-thecoolguy(孩哥);
2005-4-8
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#2222740 is it him? :-)
-guiren(你的贵人);
2005-4-6
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别说, 现在的小姑娘确实可爱.
-huashanpai(xixi);
2005-4-6
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不是可爱的东西都要拿来拥有的。看看就可以了。人还是要有责任感的
-mine888(mine);
2005-4-6
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别担心,那小MM陪他玩玩而已。不会有什么结果的。
-holly999(酒肴肴-就是下酒小菜);
2005-4-6
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郑重声明一下:本人和heartbroken(water)毫无任何关系。本人还是单身,至今未婚。请大家不要乱引用俺的名字,违者必究!
-china_wei(精英内敛戒骄戒惰强矫);
2005-4-6
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Hahaha.主要是太巧了。如果冒犯,见谅
-mine888(mine);
2005-4-7
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你这一怎么办?把我可坑惨了,名誉严重受损
-china_wei(精英内敛戒骄戒惰强矫);
2005-4-6
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同意
-china_wei(精英内敛戒骄戒惰强矫);
2005-4-6
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Let it go!!
-silverbell(银铃);
2005-4-7
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你也去找个小帅哥,他玩你也玩。有什么大不了的。
-wangkeke(wangkeke);
2005-4-7
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呵呵,现在流行找二爷
-bj130(坏蛋难人);
2005-4-8
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Divorce with him by law and take good care of yourself. Move on. There are a lot of fish in the sea!
-thecoolguy(孩哥);
2005-4-8
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