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枫下拾英 / 心灵感悟 / help------how do you handle the pressure?
-wantcalm(grace);
2004-9-3
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(#1871934@0)
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放松,放松。看你写的,英语不错啊。如果是四川朋友,就向专家请教一下本地发音。当年Egg在IBM开会连1/2都听不懂,还自己买了录音笔,把会议录下来回家反复听,现在人家也已经税后10万了。没什么大不了的。慢慢就好了。
-dnc(蛋泥);
2004-9-3
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thanks. Everybody told me just relax. I already said it to myself 1000 times. But i just cannot find a concrete way to ease my mind, to comfort myself and to change it. The situation is getting worse. ..
-wantcalm(grace);
2004-9-4
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(#1872010@0)
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我们类似啊,不过我脸皮厚,对自己要求不严,听不太懂也没关系的,谁还没个适应过程啊,先听吧,再努力表达自己,慢慢来,不着急。
-yuanfei(yuanfei);
2004-9-4
(#1872031@0)
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Please help me and tell me how to do that..........To be honest, I do really hope i can be a "hou lian pi" person. That is a way to loose up. But i am so sensitive, so easy to get nervous,and i care the result too much. Many times i even want to quit it, but another self is just saying inside: stoping thinking that....no way! And all the friends beside me say the same words. But if i really cannot find a way out, to let my inner side relax a little bit, i know i will be in a crazy house......
-wantcalm(grace);
2004-9-4
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我曾经因为语言问题犯过极大的错误, 好在补救回来.
-begin_now(时至今日);
2004-9-4
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(#1872082@0)
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lack of sleep can make people upset and moody. 8-hour sleep everyday will give you more confidence and a quicker reaction in communication. believe me, a good sleep does help.......
-chachacha(茉莉花);
2004-9-4
(#1872052@0)
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no.relax is nothing when you don't have enough confidence. i believe your problem is you don;t collect enough confidence
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-silence4u(winagain);
2004-9-4
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为什么一定要是四川朋友?“如果是四川朋友,就向专家请教一下本地发音“
-laowang38(老王);
2004-9-4
(#1872152@0)
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坚持住!我刚开始时也是这样, 越紧张越出错...我不只一次对自己说过"打死我明天也不来上班了"...好在遇到的同事比较 nice, 知道偶英语不是很灵光, 在工作问题上就耐心的慢点说, 直到我sure. 自己也要strong, 我有时就用"每天入帐的大银" 来鼓励自己,比较阿Q. ;) 相信自己....心态越好, handle的就越快! 也许不用两个月, 你就 enjoy the job 了. :)
-begin_now(时至今日);
2004-9-4
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when you get nervous, people can feel it. so dont push yourself too hard. that only makes things worse. if you dont understand what your boss says, just ask. if you dont understand a joke from your colleague,just ignore it. you are not hired for small talk anyway...
-chachacha(茉莉花);
2004-9-4
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(#1872059@0)
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没有关系的,我刚去公司,我什么也听不懂。所有的任务必须以书面形式向我下达。现在基本他们适应了我浓厚的quebec口音,所以猜都猜得出来我说什么。给你自己一些时间,也给别人一些时间。
-eric2003(finding);
2004-9-4
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我也一样,不管听的懂听不懂看着对方表示你在认真听,听不懂适当微笑
一下,听懂了插上两句,这里人还是挺有耐心的
-lili2004(lili);
2004-9-4
(#1872270@0)
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如果你的英文真的那样糟,你又怎么可能拿到这个工作offer呢。还是多给自己一些时间去学习,去适应吧。即使是native speaker在一个新的环境里也需要时间去适应呢。
-spagetti(hot hot hot);
2004-9-4
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具体说说是哪方面的问题。是英语听不懂呢?还是听懂了英语却不明白意思?或是别人不明白你想表达的意思?如果是第一种情况,不外乎多看电视(带字幕),甚至录下了反复看,我记得几年前CNN的有些节目还可以在网上下载解说词。如果是第二种情况,多读本地报纸,和邻居同事多聊天,脸皮要厚,不懂就问。第三种情况改进要更困难点,除了多读多听外还要多记多背,肚子里的洋墨水多了,自然就好表达。
既然有工作,花点钱请人教也是个方法。这钱当投资,一般有回报,不会打水飘,别舍不得。
-dilbert(UCD);
2004-9-4
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(#1872495@0)
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要有信心噢,语言只是一个工具而已,不管问多少遍,听讲清楚就可以了。和这边出生的人比语言是不值得的,他们除了语言比我们好点其实的其他很多地方很蠢的。只要敢说,多说,一定会有变化,我的亲身感受。
-chillyqq(House Decor);
2004-9-5
(#1872511@0)
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好像大家一般都有这么一个过程。我觉得背诵一些相应背景的文章对提高听力和口语,尤其是提高自己领域的单词的听觉敏感度很有帮助,不妨试试。
-fatbean(青年发明家:零零发);
2004-9-5
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看的出你的英文底子不错, 只不过口语和听力可能还不够, 这一点雇佣你的上司应该早看出来了, 既然雇佣了你, 就说明他们用的是你的才智和专业经验..既然语言不是你的卖点, 你又何必过于紧张? 这样反而不利于你提高口语, 学语言(尤其是口语) 一定要"脸皮厚"点, 大胆说, 错了有什么大不了的? 你行文严瑾, 功底不错, 再放松点, 大胆点, 一定能更上一层楼.
-wind999(Wind);
2004-9-5
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try this: greeting your colleagues you met in the morning with a big smile. you will find it works like opening the door to the English world of the day.
-rawmoon(rawmoon);
2004-9-10
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妹妹不要紧张,一定要挺住啊。我和你有相同的经历,当时因为我没有挺住而放弃了,现在想来非常后悔。建议坚持上课恶补英文,同时每晚祷告增强信心。记住哦,加拿大是个离神很近的地方……
-jackie-yuer(雨过天青);
2004-9-10
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Thanks for all the friends' help. I feel a little bit better in this week, not really cuz any improvement in Language but the encouragement from the all friends here,and the precious peace of mind you bring to me ......I know it is a long way. I am still very nervous and uncomfortable when i am in the office, but at least I can eat and have a better sleep now. Thanks!
-wantcalm(grace);
2004-9-11
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(#1880635@0)
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我在加拿大工作都三年多了,还不是一样听不懂别人开玩笑!教你几招。首先, 不要把自己当盘菜, 忘记你辉煌的过去, 踏踏实实承认自己是颗螺丝钉。
第二。 不要害怕寂寞和孤独。 不做办公室红人, 做一个耐心的倾听者。
第三。 寻找英语水平和自己相当的或比较nice的同事, 在这些人中建立友谊。你也可以跟这些朋友开怀大笑的。
有时间多想想工作以外的事, 比如一百年之后你会在哪? ivan飓风会使多少jamaca人无家可归? 俄罗斯人质遇害的儿童。。。
-whatwhenwherewhy(一生何求);
2004-9-11
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同感!
-templeliu(小河);
2004-9-13
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同感!不过我就算已经挺过来了!请进:
-templeliu(小河);
2004-9-13
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really good points. cann't agree more. It is very important to clarify.
-rawmoon(rawmoon);
2004-9-14
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Thanks a lot !
-wantcalm(grace);
2004-9-14
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Maybe you can get a tutor to help you.It's normal not understanding jokes - it does take time. If it's hard for you to understand when your manager talk about your assignments, may be a tutor can help you adjust faster. You can check the Star for English tutor.
-magnolia(magnolia);
2004-9-13
{225}
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not a tutor,dude,but a psychiatric counsler
-hutuchongca(hutu);
2004-9-22
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Hi, I'm in same situation with you.
-armani7(昵称);
2004-9-16
{829}
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attitute
-hutuchongca(hutu);
2004-9-18
{1025}
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