Me too
-jameschen(我怕你了,还不可以吗);
2004-2-18(#1610323@0)
Well done! En is clear and simple. 3xs for shareing.BTW, I am just wondering, most of female "阿拉" are more tough than male " 阿拉", arent they?
-f5f5f5f5f5(YTHG);
2004-2-18{99}(#1610281@0)
you are great!我也有类似经历,但没有诉诸高层。就当时解决了。感觉就是鬼佬都是贱骨头,你越忍让他们越得意,你一强硬他们就老老实实的。还是毛主席说的对,一切帝国主义都是纸老虎!
中国人的忍让对他们是起不了感化的。
另外请教,你email中“Often times when...”的Often times是什么意思呀?是指“很多次”吗?
-gonerain(dancewithwind);
2004-2-18{283}(#1610931@0)
If some employers aslo have same negtive attitude to treat you, what you can doIf small firm, you don't have same comminuity coworkers, and no one to be your witness,so what?
Can you report to?
-cww(兔和猫);
2004-2-18{116}(#1610949@0)
man, that is not the point. agree with fatbean. I think it is more related with what kind of person you are or you want to be, than how long you have been working in Canada.
-worlds(COLORFUL);
2004-2-24(#1618475@0)
Great! Great! I feel very comfortable!
-dingling(UrU-MesMe);
2004-2-19(#1612177@0)
如是我,我会先找她单聊。“你最近作为太不近情理, 例如XXX。。。我跟你是井水不犯河水。不过你丫再跟我过不去,我就对你不客气了”
你所叙述的心态特别被压迫感。你要建立起自信心。Here is what I am going to say to him (I am a male and do not fight with a female):
"I want to be your friend. But if you keep fuck doing against me, I will let you know how I fuck you."
-laedon(laedon);
2004-2-20{189}(#1613058@0)
Your way will make the thing personal, not a professional way.
-huimin(huimin);
2004-2-20(#1613458@0)
So true!......even giving her excuse to report you to boss, badly bad.
-babyface(︽酷起酷起。。。呀呀);
2004-2-20(#1613464@0)
Reporting to HR may stop her doing against you but it does not gain respect. You should know how to deal with her one to one. HR is the last step after all tries.If you were in China and had some problem with one of your co-workers, Do you go to HR (ren shi)?
The right way (respect way) is that when she (German) said you should go home for makeup, you should get her a quiet place and told her that
"this is not your fucking business".
Crying for mommy does not gain respect.
-laedon(laedon);
2004-2-20{325}(#1613634@0)
我不这么认为,HR是最简洁有效的方法,有理有节的方法。Saying f-words in a quite corner is the way of street boys. 前提是得比人家身高体壮。
-enya(enya);
2004-2-20(#1613685@0)
1. Don't expect everyone respect you even you try your best, especially in workplace. 2. Respect is two-way. 3 You get to do what you get to do.
-huimin(huimin);
2004-2-20(#1613736@0)