try to understand your hubby, he maybe very depressed in deep heart, you are little bit depressed too, you guys should talk to each other very often, suggesting him to guit internet for 3-4 weeks, do whatever else hewant,see if it works
-fatboy(大胖墩儿厨);
2003-1-25{20}(#999114@0)
True. Surfing could damage family life badly. It's not just for man. It could be to anyone. I was pretty addictive to internet till my husband blocked a bunch of BBS.You can do that too. First let him quit internet totally for a few weeks. Then just block Chinese forum. He would be a good hubby after then :)
-wade(wade);
2003-1-25{143}(#999174@0)
tell him u need a real man instead of a lazy "master".make a realistic plan with ur husband like travel, study, etc. share ur interests with him to find out what u both enjoy to do together. assign some house works to him tell him u can't handle them urself. encourage him to go out for all kinds of activities. please, please don't try to change him, otherwise he might feel offence.
-danniu(dandan);
2003-1-25{332}(#999131@0)
4, cut off internet
-lazycat(孤独的长跑猫);
2003-1-25(#999150@0)
To be serious, that's true. Sometimes we should return to the life from the virtual community.
-siebel(阿丽梦啊我来离萨);
2003-1-25(#999342@0)
thank you for your reply.However, I am not poor( we have enough money to live on) In fact, I am supposed to buy house for future life here. But he says, he doesn't want to stay in Canada. USA is his dream. BTW, I just got a better job( office job) which is my specility. Except marriage, I am not bad. But he is a General Labor....
-732144(民女~~可怜ing);
2003-1-25{307}(#999158@0)
hey, the first point is stolen from my ideas, I didn't know u also have such sad experience. how did u fix ur relationship at last?
-danniu(dandan);
2003-1-25(#999177@0)
Scared me, how do you know my relationship? The relationship seems to mean a kind of status of boring, menial, and poor between lady and gentleman...
-siebel(阿丽梦啊我来离萨);
2003-1-25(#999356@0)
Yesterday, I felt very sad. I told my daughter my feeling. She told me"think things on brighter side." She said that is what her teacher always says.You will feel better.
-river000(小河流水哗啦啦);
2003-1-25(#999321@0)
whatever you do, don't lose your independence. if he doesn't like to make friend, you mustn't keep youself away from your friends because you never when you will need a friend.
-banker(见面熟);
2003-1-25(#1000193@0)