It seems to me that they just use children as the excuse to keep themselves passively accept the existing life style. Even they say so, usually I do not see them do too much special for their children.
-windnorth(Y2J);
2003-1-13(#973274@0)
Under current situation, maybe some parent work harder to support their children's live and study in Canada.
-resp4child(教育基金);
2003-1-13(#973400@0)
One more tip want to share with you, if not for children, more and more Chinese immigrants will go back to China.
-resp4child(教育基金);
2003-1-13(#973406@0)
especially when the kids are less than 15. I do support parents should consider themslves more when the kids are getting independent.
-emc(whoami);
2003-1-13(#973462@0)
I am a mother. I am agree ! Chinese has to think about it...
-minliluo(min);
2003-1-13(#973383@0)
when the kids are less than 10, can they choose their own way?
-emc(whoami);
2003-1-13(#973474@0)
How do you explain a 30-year-old man saying 我这辈子就这样了?
-windnorth(Y2J);
2003-1-13(#973401@0)
I am not talking about kids here. Sth is not right here ...
-windnorth(Y2J);
2003-1-13(#973408@0)
let's take it this way, if he meat to say 'he wants to be a prime minster', then he would never have a chance regardless he is 30 or 40 or 50,it's very reasonable for him saying so, and it would be much practicle to dream his son would be one 1 day, hehe, all about his expectation, eh?
-rootbear(啤酒大叔);
2003-1-13{145}(#973444@0)
you mean Bush's two girls are not his daughters? hehe ...
-windnorth(Y2J);
2003-1-13(#973458@0)
why not take the child out to the trip with you?
why not move to another province/country and bring your child?
Thousands of people already did this ...
It is all about you, not your kids.
Over.
-windnorth(Y2J);
2003-1-13(#973472@0)
jiaozi looks like a cutie kid herself, if you only mean pushing him to be in college kind of thing, it's really not a big deal as it seems as your initial post,you made it a national-wide issue, even international, hehe
-rootbear(啤酒大叔);
2003-1-13{59}(#973606@0)
yes, It is "international" issue...:-)
-dropoutinmiami(饺子@2003年);
2003-1-13(#973610@0)
very good and thoroughly thoughts...
-dropoutinmiami(饺子@2003年);
2003-1-13(#974002@0)
Thanks. Actually, I think it's just another kind of "do nothing". take it easy...My brother graduated from community college. He enjoyed his simple life in China with his lovely son. His style is pretty same with your brother and he has no intention to get another degree or come here do something with me. It's fine. It's his life. I respect him much more than before.
Do nothing with an excuese, or just do nothing, should have little difference...
-siebel(阿丽梦啊我来离萨);
2003-1-13{375}(#974077@0)