very ture. 受过高等教育不等于精英。再说了,“精英”还不是自封的。自我感觉越良好的人心里承受力越差。好多人还不是国内混得高不成低不就才指望着靠出国来寻求优越感。结果出来后傻了眼,后悔不及之外把自己在国内所拥有的又捧上了天。
-philosopherstone(我要魔法);
2003-2-20{122}(#1052627@0)
I don't think it's your husband's fault to be so depressed. If you still think yourself 精英 here, you will be more disappointed than him in the future. If you think yourself nothing, maybe you can cheer up
-wander2001(猫行天下);
2002-12-16(#917578@0)
现实的残酷不可怕,可怕的是对未来失去希望。古人云,哀莫大于心死。过去朋友在国内遇事不爽时,我会劝他们去医院,看到那些痛苦的人们,和相依为命,相互鼓励的人们,深感老天不殊,珍惜所有,期惜未来,则何事不成。
Girls are much better off than boys because they usually speak out their unhappiness and concerns, not like boys.
-bh_zhang(Babyboomer);
2002-12-16{253}(#917848@0)
communication, communication and communication. Husband and wife can talk everything beside sex. But should be with patience and good temper.
-hucan(whocan);
2002-12-16(#918204@0)
Thank you all for your kind advice.
-ashofroses(玫瑰灰);
2002-12-16(#918241@0)
u r.....?
-babyface(★Unsophisticate★);
2002-12-16(#918244@0)
一个人在加拿大cai2可lian2, u r lucky because u have a husband. don't 逃避他,face him and tell him u r counting on him, push him to pick up the responsibility to be a real man.
-danniu(dandan);
2003-2-20(#1052282@0)
Life has to be supported by you both. You should feel lucky. Your husband will get master degree and has a smart healthy baby. What else you want?
-bugkiller(Driver Coding);
2003-11-21(#1478089@0)
All the marriage has difficulty time. If you still care about your marrige. Just calm down yourself and try to comfort your husband. I sure you will find out he will return you what you want.
-care(游戏人生);
2004-3-18(#1650591@0)