中国人认为喜欢应该放在心里的。换句话说就是：行动上的表现要多于口头上。那才是真心喜欢。 -cathy345(雁舞九天) @安省华人论坛:安省枫下论坛 The Rolia Forum of Ontario

枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / Questions: If a guy calls you 'baby' or 'honey' after you two just had a few-hour talk. What are you going to do? -bookworm(初夏好心情); 2006-5-3 (#2946239@0)

It happens in my private life--on the first date, outside the workplace. And guys said it are Chinese. My point is if they don't know how to express affection in English, then don't use it. -bookworm(初夏好心情); 2006-5-3 (#2946446@0)

是是，国移男表达感情的时候都有点笨笨，也许他应该先问问你，能不能叫你蜜糖, 再作决定？ -maple88(㊣枫叶); 2006-5-5 (#2949694@0)

中国人认为喜欢应该放在心里的。换句话说就是：行动上的表现要多于口头上。那才是真心喜欢。 -cathy345(雁舞九天); 14:04 (#2950225@0) -bookworm(初夏好心情); 2006-5-5 (#2950412@0)

Many girls like both 行动上的表现 and 口头上的表现, though. -asker(asker); 2006-5-5 (#2950479@0)

that's a good one, hahaha. -tuantuan(givemeabreak); 2006-5-3 (#2946256@0)
What do you want to do? :) Anything special happened to you after the talk? -asker(asker); 2006-5-3 (#2946265@0)

Hey, sister somewhere, where is Mr. Fullmoonnight? I haven't seen him like ages. -asker(asker); 2006-5-3 (#2946273@0)

In this case, just let it gone with the wind. -asker(asker); 2006-5-3 (#2946502@0)

if the dating didn't happen firstly, where is the "dump" from...:-) -earthcitizen(地球公民); 2006-5-4 (#2947172@0)

"honey" and "baby" 非常中性的称呼, 可对家人或朋友称. -newlife_2006(newlife_2006); 2006-5-4 (#2947037@0)
Nothing special! -cathy345(雁舞九天); 2006-5-4 (#2947820@0)

honey, nobody told him that. -worldsmile(无情); 2006-5-4 (#2949090@0)
"You mean, did we hit it off? No. -bookworm(初夏好心情)". -asker(asker); 2006-5-4 (#2949125@0)

After I replied her, I relized that I misunderstood her. :) -bookworm(初夏好心情); 2006-5-5 (#2949574@0)

中国人认为喜欢应该放在心里的。换句话说就是：行动上的表现要多于口头上。那才是真心喜欢。 -cathy345(雁舞九天); 2006-5-5 (#2950225@0)

叫你honey的时候你应该能知道你是不是他的honey，或者他是不是真心想让你作他的honey.如果你一点都没有做他的honey的感觉,那倒是能看出他性格的一个方面。 -catchyou(Catch You); 2006-5-5 (#2949680@0)
Some waiter, waitress have the habit of calling everyone honey, sweetheart. -ruoer(乡下人); 2006-5-5 (#2950231@0)
shut up honey -sunding(sundin); 2006-5-5 (#2950265@0)
专做Richmond的有一个很有名的白人老太太，我每次和她谈deal，无论是接电话还是当面，一开口她就叫“my boy”、“my sweet”，我从开始的鸡皮疙瘩到适应，现在如果她不怎么叫，我还想想是不是什么地方得罪她了。 -fishlonely(一人独钓一江秋); 2006-5-5 (#2950304@0)
不要过于敏感，很正常. -peterpeng(爱江山更爱美人); 2006-5-5 (#2950311@0)

对. -paopao631(泡泡); 2006-5-5 (#2950352@0)
很正常??? I guess a lot Chinese have misunderstood local dating culture. No wonder I heard news about local people dating Chinese women. The report said Chinese women are incrediblely open. -bookworm(初夏好心情); 2006-5-5 {46} (#2950422@0)
They go to bed with the guy on the first date.

Come on. The reporter was in shock becasue he/she thought Chinese women were still binding their feet. -ruoer(乡下人); 2006-5-5 (#2950451@0)

There should be a balance between getting sex on the first date and binding their feet, shouldn't there? -asker(asker); 2006-5-5 (#2950491@0)

I read that report as well, which also said that many westerners were stunned by those women. One of my white friends even asked me if it was true. I felt so embarrassed. -asker(asker); 2006-5-5 (#2950487@0)

Many Chinese new to the West got the impression that the West was sexually open and incontrollable by watching those Hollywood movies. They don't realize that both America and Canada are sexually more conservative -asker(asker); 2006-5-5 {19} (#2950494@0)
than current China.

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