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You'd better wait until your husband finds a good job.

How old is your first kid now? If not too big, better wait for a while to have the second one.

As you said, you don't have much money and time. You will be much more constrained on money and time if you have a second one.

在物质上无条件地满足孩子当然不好,但是如果不能给孩子买些书,玩具,出去不能隔3叉5买麦当劳买点零食,总要提醒他/她那些东西很贵,小孩过地也不舒服。如果你现在的孩子是属于较舒服类,而且你也有精力和钱(每个月至少100多额外支出给小BB,如果请人看,更贵!!),可以考虑要第二个。否则老大会受苦的。

Enjoy what you have now, but of course hope you can enjoy more without having to sacrifice the first kid somehow.
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  • 枫下沙龙 / 谈天说地 / 移民来加拿大,现在大家的情况都差不多,难!可时间飞逝 ,该不该再生孩子?请大家来讨论。
    • 總是會苦一些
    • we have no time to ........
      • 我也没时间,没钱,不知是不是该......
        • Then don't. It's not fair to the baby to have parent like this.
          • 听你说的确实让人深省,其实这就是矛盾所在,谁知道以后的日子是好还是坏?就怕四十多岁的时候经济上好了,可。。。wwwww。不知道以前父母是怎样带大孩子的?
            • You are so nice. I thought that you would punch me for what I've said. If so, I think it's fair for the baby to have a parent like you. If you above 35, do it ASAP.
              • 为什么总让我选择,我是很苯的那种人。虽人未过三十,可想问题已经有些糊涂了。
                • Are you serious? If so, it seems you have low self-esteem. My suggestion is to read self-help books for yourself.
                  • explain it in simple word in china .though i had use词霸 i could not grasp what u exact mean .soory for my poor english.
                    • 其实要不要孩子是要自己拿主意的,
                      想想就算别人出千个主意给你,但最后生他,养他的是你,没有人会帮得上你的忙.要生活的那个人是你.为何不让自己活的轻松一些呢!
                      不过如果是我的话,如果我没钱,没时间,我是绝对不会生小孩的.个人意见
                      • 能看的出来,你不会打无准备的仗。when u have little tomoto,我们可以多交流。谢谢。
                        • 我正在等我种的tomato结果,其它的目前都不在考虑范围内!
                  • Sorry I can't write in Chinese now. Would you mind go to / 枫下文萃/ 枫下拾英 to check my post- 发现母亲 王东华 -? That's my thoughts about parenting. As to self-esteem...I'll write something later in Chinese.
                    • go there now.
                    • it is better than the article which i have read about what should i give to our children before.another discover is u came from beijing too,right?
    • have baby asap, now maybe you are reluctant, but 3y later you will wish you have already done it 3y ago
      • 希望更多游击队员们来参加这场战斗讨论,哪怕给个声援也好!!!!
        • 坚决再生一个!!!和和和。。。:))
    • 生不生,没有定式,但是做这个决定一定要对自己负责,对子女负责。
    • Of course you should. The child will be happy in Canada.
      • 所有你的帖子,都很积极向上,向你学习。是否你是一个成功的爸爸。
        • Will be in future. Birth control is unhuman policy in China, I believe. Why don't you give birth to many children. I remeber when some guys told their girls that he love her, he always request: "给我生一大堆小孩".
    • You'd better wait until your husband finds a good job.
      How old is your first kid now? If not too big, better wait for a while to have the second one.

      As you said, you don't have much money and time. You will be much more constrained on money and time if you have a second one.

      在物质上无条件地满足孩子当然不好,但是如果不能给孩子买些书,玩具,出去不能隔3叉5买麦当劳买点零食,总要提醒他/她那些东西很贵,小孩过地也不舒服。如果你现在的孩子是属于较舒服类,而且你也有精力和钱(每个月至少100多额外支出给小BB,如果请人看,更贵!!),可以考虑要第二个。否则老大会受苦的。

      Enjoy what you have now, but of course hope you can enjoy more without having to sacrifice the first kid somehow.
    • 我个人认为,现在不应该生,连自己都过的不是太好,能给孩子什么呢,我想你也不是太老,应该在等几年。不过我想你自己心理已经有答案了,就是想得到支持,那算我白说,呵呵。
      • God. One of my main goals of immigration to Canada is to give birth to a lot of Children. Without it, I would rather stay in China. Don't hesitate to meet your future children.
        • hahaha...
    • 我觉得生好。我想家里热热闹闹的,可是又不敢,等于没说。