本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛I'm not writing to say good or bad about your article but just want to let you know that I understand what you are talking about because a close friend of mine has just had the same experience. I myself is very lucky because I got my visa in 3 months but during the period of waiting I did meet other nice guys and did think that what would happen if I were not married. However, this world is never perfect. We should learn to be responsible of our own decisions. We are both women. We need to be loved enormously and we are willing to love with all our heart. You didn't say anything bad about your husband so I assume he didn't treat you badly. It's just that you are apart for too long. I believe once you are together, you'll find that in fact he is not bad. About your sweet lover, I have no right or attempt to tell you what to do, my opinion is that if you really care about him, you'd tell him the truth because love isn't selfish at all. If you think you are selfish to him, that's probably because you are not in love but just lonely and need his company. New life is waiting for you once you are with your husband again. Please be strong!更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net