除了你所说的这种正常反应外,痛苦还有它的另一个侧面如下:
Pain is just a reflection of our path, a path that tell us that our projected self is too far from our true self. So the lost of self causes us pain. Sometimes the more we try to fix "it", the outside "it", the more pain we will experience in the future. or we try to delay this pain, or try to avoid confronting this pain, then a bigger pain is waiting for you on the path.
Then how do we deal with pain? my experience is that facing the pain, transcending the pain. By saying this, I mean we change our self, finding the correct path, align the lost self with truth and life, where the abundance and love exist. So this is the paradox of life, pain is the root of happiness. With this in mind, though we don't hope for pain, we will embrace pain so that we can transcend the self.
痛苦的核心问题不是痛苦,而是自我和生命.
Pain is just a reflection of our path, a path that tell us that our projected self is too far from our true self. So the lost of self causes us pain. Sometimes the more we try to fix "it", the outside "it", the more pain we will experience in the future. or we try to delay this pain, or try to avoid confronting this pain, then a bigger pain is waiting for you on the path.
Then how do we deal with pain? my experience is that facing the pain, transcending the pain. By saying this, I mean we change our self, finding the correct path, align the lost self with truth and life, where the abundance and love exist. So this is the paradox of life, pain is the root of happiness. With this in mind, though we don't hope for pain, we will embrace pain so that we can transcend the self.
痛苦的核心问题不是痛苦,而是自我和生命.