本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛Glad to hear all your voices, no matter you were supporting me or protesting me, I appreciate all of them. Now, I don’t' feel that alone, hehe, which is good. Keeping everything inside didn't do me any favor, it only drove me crazy. Did you ever feel something like, everything was good at the beginning, and one day your partner suddenly said 'It's not working simply because you're a woman!" It's only a metaphor but you get my point? The trigger of his intent of breaking-up lies in a fact which has been there all the time and it's not something I can choose to not be or give up.
I'm actually nothing as an unintelligent woman(at least that what I've heard from others all the time) so I've been hating myself all the time because I really don't know why I got stuck so badly. If he dug a deep hole in front of me, why I must jump into it? However, what has been happening all the time is, I volunteer to jump in the hole, then he pulled me out, and then indirectly pushed me in again, and then pulled me out.... it's a circle, how many women have done this in your life, once or twice?
I can't say I'm smart anymore because I'm apparently now. It's the totally opposite. I just want to hear what the other sisters and brothers thinking about this. Anyways, learn to be not stupid, that's it.
To make some people feel good, I would say 'I'm the bad person in our relationship, and I would like to take any responsibility to the failure of our relationship. But the good thing is, it's over.".
Don't be stupid as me. Your life will be different.更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
I'm actually nothing as an unintelligent woman(at least that what I've heard from others all the time) so I've been hating myself all the time because I really don't know why I got stuck so badly. If he dug a deep hole in front of me, why I must jump into it? However, what has been happening all the time is, I volunteer to jump in the hole, then he pulled me out, and then indirectly pushed me in again, and then pulled me out.... it's a circle, how many women have done this in your life, once or twice?
I can't say I'm smart anymore because I'm apparently now. It's the totally opposite. I just want to hear what the other sisters and brothers thinking about this. Anyways, learn to be not stupid, that's it.
To make some people feel good, I would say 'I'm the bad person in our relationship, and I would like to take any responsibility to the failure of our relationship. But the good thing is, it's over.".
Don't be stupid as me. Your life will be different.更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net