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when i first went abroad for study, i was the only one Chinese in the class.

when i first went abroad for study, i was the only one Chinese in the class. and i was so shy that i didn't dare to ask any question. people thought i was so stupid that i didn't understand at all what was going on. one of the merits in western countries, you gotta be aggressive!

years later after i came to Canada, i made myself "aggressive" and kept asking questions. now people became even more annoyed and thought i was so stupid that i didn't understand at all what was going on.

if people don't like you, they don't like you anyways.


[ unable to type Chinese at work. please execuse my English. ]
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  • 枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / when i first went abroad for study, i was the only one Chinese in the class.
    when i first went abroad for study, i was the only one Chinese in the class. and i was so shy that i didn't dare to ask any question. people thought i was so stupid that i didn't understand at all what was going on. one of the merits in western countries, you gotta be aggressive!

    years later after i came to Canada, i made myself "aggressive" and kept asking questions. now people became even more annoyed and thought i was so stupid that i didn't understand at all what was going on.

    if people don't like you, they don't like you anyways.


    [ unable to type Chinese at work. please execuse my English. ]
    • LOL...welcome back!
      • thank you very much!
    • 你看问题,为什么这么灰色呢~~~~~这样不好~~~~~~~~大家很很很喜欢你呀~~~~~~~~~
      • 这是小古的幽默好不好? :)
    • 男人和女人相处也一样。。。所以WHATEVER, 自己要有好的心态
      • 对头,心态 ah 心态 ~~~ 昨天在隔壁论坛看到美女发言:男人的 自信心 和勇气 要比 外表 looking 重要的多。令我深受教育:信心和勇敢,会让男人产生吸引女人的气场 ~~~
        • 哪里呢? 这话说的很对的。 麻烦吧原来的帖子给个链接。
          • 借用疲惫的话说,那是“敌网”, 链不过来~~~ :)
            • 敌网? 头一次听说
        • 给女人安全感,可以放心的随他走四方
          • 兔子,你就安全感大大地。 很多女人都要跟你走的,呵呵呵呵呵
            • 呵呵。。。过奖了
            • 那还不赶紧的?
            • 是,安全感~~~~~~~~~~~~那天坐得离兔子比较远~~~没说上话~~~~~~他很斯文,和善,一直那样乐呵呵的~~~被兔子疼的女人一定很安逸,很幸福~~~~~~~
              • @。@
              • 谢谢美牛!
              • 我不了解vavav,但看你们说得起劲,我好奇了一下
                小女孩估计是找我儿子的 -vavav(HAHAH); 6.4 00:36 (#6720883@0) more 话题

                他似乎是有家庭的,你们不能让他犯错误
                • 不知道不要吓掺合
                  • 行,和我一点关系都没有。如果有谁知道,或许愿意澄清一下,也欢迎
                    • 别生气,我乱说话的。他确实是合法单身。
                      • 你是不是他的马甲?L.O.L
                        • 生活本来很简单的,不要把她复杂化
                    • 朋友们都知道我有儿子的,这里认识我的人也都知道
                      • 我是第一次知道。呵呵,我发誓。
                        • 我们不熟
                          • 确实不熟,这我也可以发誓。L.O.L
                            • 我们都信,不用发誓。老发也不好
                          • 我和他也不算很熟。。。但知道
        • 这道理你才明白?~~~~~~~~~潜台词: 黑鸟灰常的 good-looking~~~~
          • 我不紧要,我是想要让小古明白,我急啊 ~~~ :), BTW, 牛美,请不要胡乱猜测潜台词好不好 :P
            • 中年女人就爱琢磨潜台词,所以常常危机~~~~~~~~~嘻嘻~~~~~~~~
              • Been there, done that ~~~
    • 问完了问题,总得解决问题吧,可是你问完就完了,没有下面了,让大家看的很痛苦。
      • 是啊,特别难受。论坛上不能骂人
    • 一个大男人怎么对自己这么没有自信啊,女人少自信的多,但男人很少见少自信的,似乎个个都自信满满地,除了你。。。
      • 这里他只是写了一个故事
      • 男人也会有那么几天的
    • but if ppl (like all rolians) like you, they like you anyways, too.
    • Oh, poor u
    • 问题不在于你是否问问题, 也不在于问多少问题. 而在于你是否问了"right question".