I try to make it short and just raise some points for this first post.
I just got my citizenship this early morning. While waiting, I was again reading that small book, "As A Man Thinketh". ("For as ... [a man ] thinketh in his heart, so is he".)
I think I've got everything what I want for now (not the things other people may want). I am completely satified with what life has given to me in this beautiful land. Of course, it will be even better to meet the girl I just dreamed a few days ago, but that's only a nice-to-have thing.
So, if we are so happy with the current life with no more desires, what's going to drive us going further? I feel I have this issue now, and how am I going to deal with it.
I have more questions later.