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你这个MM呀, 哈哈

本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛WHERE
1. 认识喜欢运动的朋友. 有些网站帮你结识喜欢运动的朋友, 比如打网球, 排球, 划船, 大多是集体运动. 可以结识很多COOL朋友, 一起玩.

2. 各个城市都有免费报纸, 如温哥华好象是GEOGEIA STRAIGHT, 上面有每周的EVENTS, SINGING, DANCING, READING等等很是丰富, 可以选择你喜欢的爱好. 有一次我们在维多利亚经过一个COFFEE SHOP, 晚上几个人自编自导自演, 及其自娱其乐, 非常认真, 很有趣. 另外我的一个西人朋友, 她参加BELLY DANCING, 认真排练, 参加本地组织的演出, 她们组最大的年龄有70岁老太太.

3. 很多妇女组织
上面说的那位朋友邀请我去她们'GODDESS PARTY", 自制COSTUM, 每人代表一个GODDESS, 听起来很有趣, 不过我因有事未能参加.

4. 咖啡厅, 周围邻居, ...
养成和别人聊天的习惯. 对别人感兴趣, 别人自然会对你感兴趣. 平时准备十个八个话题(如天气, 体育, 电影, 旅游, 生肖, 星座等等). 电梯里, 排队中都是开始聊天的机会.

5. 社区活动, 书店, YOGA CLASS...

交朋友的关键是找共同爱好....

不知道上述建议有无帮助. 如果是单身女孩子去酒吧, 最好2个以上一起去.

不管什么方式, 要注意起码的安全. 希望你很快有很多朋友, 朋友是ENJOY的, OPEN YOUR EYES AND MIND去找, 但也不用DESPERATE.

ENJOY!更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
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  • 枫下沙龙 / 谈天说地 / 饺子MM/JJ请进:
    呵呵,能告诉我们怎么开始和西人打交道么? How to begin? How and where can I know them?
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      • 你在他们眼里不是什么异性啦,普通朋友啦,是玩物或者是富有刺激性的动物,刚在某次party上与你交谈过,就敢问你愿不愿与他date,还向你要电话不信 ,只跟他讨论结婚,家庭,义务,看他有没有兴趣
        Westerns motto: has as many sexes as possible, more..
        Before you are commited to an westerner, considering the
        following:

        1. Many of them have drinking problem. We Chinese just can'
        t imagine how prevalent and how horrible that problem is;
        what's more horrible is that they behave perfectly normal
        and even noble when they are sober, but when they get into
        the binge of drinking which can be triggered by anything
        from a bad hair day in the office and a frenzy night at the
        football stadium; you are in for a big, big surprise;
        careful.

        2. Single has no restraint on sex; it's like
        eating a good meal. No love involved whatsoever. Don't be
        fooled by his tricks to lure you into his bed. Anyway, he
        expect you also have a good time. And it's just merry-
        making, nothing else.
        • 每次看你的贴子都不知道你的主题是什么. @@ 真抱歉.
          • You got grow up. What he/she is saying is
            本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛just like what I told you. The white young guy just want to date with you and .........Just like what I want to do on them if I am not married. They won't treat you as real friend. If one white guy wants to marry you, be careful. I knew one guy, he was my teammate. He married a TW girl. He was a really crazy guy, really bad. He never wrote documents, he doesn't want to share anything with anybody. He deleted everything He made when he left. The white guy who wants to marry immigrant is not pure white people, sometimes they got lots bad things. My manager(40 yr. local white guy, very traditional, his wife(our co-worker) was his classmate in high school, university, unit. I asked every co-worker(all white), they said they usually marry classmate. Doesn't matter they went to different place) told me that he even can't believe the white in Toronto if he didn't know them. You can't imagin what he said. That's huge change for them. I am in a really small town. I know how important the trust us for them. If they trust you, you got everything, really easy to get job or boing business. a little bit "pao ti". Anyway, If you are not born in CA, forget it. I tried lots, but I found a really nice guy (my manager) when I was going to give up. I think if the person has good education(university or over), like to stay with parents in small town, very traditional, that's the person you can make friend or marry. Not too much chance. This is just my feeling, can't say all. I don't want to argue with anybody. Good luck.更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
    • The easy way is go to night club if you want to know young guy, dance with somebody. But be careful, they want to take you home...
      • 您老经常这么干么??@@
        • I did once when I was working alone in another city. But I was invited by my black brother. I didn't invit any girl to dance. So I went home alone. I just like to watch dancing. Wasn't in street club.
        • go to church
      • 那就学习egg同志,吃了炮弹,扔回糖衣。
        • That's right. But remember don't be drunk and don't have drug, otherwise.......................
    • 你这个MM呀, 哈哈
      本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛WHERE
      1. 认识喜欢运动的朋友. 有些网站帮你结识喜欢运动的朋友, 比如打网球, 排球, 划船, 大多是集体运动. 可以结识很多COOL朋友, 一起玩.

      2. 各个城市都有免费报纸, 如温哥华好象是GEOGEIA STRAIGHT, 上面有每周的EVENTS, SINGING, DANCING, READING等等很是丰富, 可以选择你喜欢的爱好. 有一次我们在维多利亚经过一个COFFEE SHOP, 晚上几个人自编自导自演, 及其自娱其乐, 非常认真, 很有趣. 另外我的一个西人朋友, 她参加BELLY DANCING, 认真排练, 参加本地组织的演出, 她们组最大的年龄有70岁老太太.

      3. 很多妇女组织
      上面说的那位朋友邀请我去她们'GODDESS PARTY", 自制COSTUM, 每人代表一个GODDESS, 听起来很有趣, 不过我因有事未能参加.

      4. 咖啡厅, 周围邻居, ...
      养成和别人聊天的习惯. 对别人感兴趣, 别人自然会对你感兴趣. 平时准备十个八个话题(如天气, 体育, 电影, 旅游, 生肖, 星座等等). 电梯里, 排队中都是开始聊天的机会.

      5. 社区活动, 书店, YOGA CLASS...

      交朋友的关键是找共同爱好....

      不知道上述建议有无帮助. 如果是单身女孩子去酒吧, 最好2个以上一起去.

      不管什么方式, 要注意起码的安全. 希望你很快有很多朋友, 朋友是ENJOY的, OPEN YOUR EYES AND MIND去找, 但也不用DESPERATE.

      ENJOY!更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
      • Thank you very much :-) BTW, 上哪有GEOGEIA STRAIGHT拿呢?
        • 随便街边的报摊上就有, 免费的. 另外VANCOUVERSUN的周末版也会列出下周的EVENT. 书店有时会有READING REVIEW, 书作者和读者见面, 也挺有意思.
        • #302370
          • ?????????????
            • 给你介绍的一本书 :)
              • 谢啦, xixi :-)
        • 图书馆和社区中心都有,有些高楼电梯旁也有。但报纸里列的感觉都挺贵,至少我是消费不起的... ; 我觉得去社区中心和公园不贵甚至不用花钱,还能碰到些人聊天,对培养口感和信心挺有帮助的
          • 贵吗? 我以前看的很多EVENTS才$3-$8. 有些READING的聚会是免费的. 去本地MUSICIAN举办的一个小型SHOW, 借的场地, 才$3, 挺好玩的.
            • 如果是低收入家庭,是免会员费的。此外参加过几次POTLUCK,挺有意思,还能认识很多人。费用>=0 and <5.00