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Pure friendship between male and female?

new2233(wonder)
本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛I saw the previous posts in the forum. Just a little bit sleepless, so I want to spit out the guts (please forgive me if you perceive from a different point of view)
I do not know whether pure friendship remains between male and female. If he is not your love, why should he pay attention to you as an indeed friend in need?
That is always what I am persuading myself which might make me feel a bit better that I should not count a man's care or anything else.
I am not sure what it means starting from friendship. Does it really exist? Guys would ignore me thoroughly when I am in need of help. I have been pissed off lots of times. I do not mean to obtain something without paying off something. His rejection could be such firm as if I were a stranger. Even for a trivial a matter.
I know some guys are not appearance oriented, but most guys do. Especially knowing from the net, there are two possible outcomes, one is he doesn't even want to be your friend. The other is he just wants sex.
I am not saying some guys are bad. However, it is what I have been encountering.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
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Last Updated: 2008-1-10
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  • 枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / Pure friendship between male and female? -new2233(wonder); 2008-1-10 {1086} (#4175576@0)
    本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛I saw the previous posts in the forum. Just a little bit sleepless, so I want to spit out the guts (please forgive me if you perceive from a different point of view)
    I do not know whether pure friendship remains between male and female. If he is not your love, why should he pay attention to you as an indeed friend in need?
    That is always what I am persuading myself which might make me feel a bit better that I should not count a man's care or anything else.
    I am not sure what it means starting from friendship. Does it really exist? Guys would ignore me thoroughly when I am in need of help. I have been pissed off lots of times. I do not mean to obtain something without paying off something. His rejection could be such firm as if I were a stranger. Even for a trivial a matter.
    I know some guys are not appearance oriented, but most guys do. Especially knowing from the net, there are two possible outcomes, one is he doesn't even want to be your friend. The other is he just wants sex.
    I am not saying some guys are bad. However, it is what I have been encountering.更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
    • hum........ -yummyy(水晶球); 2008-1-10 (#4175603@0)
    • 应该是有的,如果你可以象那个男人的母亲,哥们一样,让他没有"邪念", 而又对你欣赏有加的话, -raza(razr); 2008-1-10 (#4178439@0)
      • as long as they dont cross sex line and no sexual intention between them.. another word, either the girl is not attractive enough or the guy is so dumb -xiaokeai(notcute); 2008-1-11 (#4178996@0)
    • 有，绝对有，我就见过，但是女的都很丑的说。 -roshi(如是我闻); 2008-1-11 (#4178871@0)
      • 认为其他人都很狭隘并不能证明其他人的狭隘，而只能证明你自己的狭隘。 -newdonkey(me); 2008-1-11 (#4178915@0)
        • 或者是那那男人有问题？ -jeffca(iamjeff); 2008-1-11 (#4178982@0)
          • "男人分两种,一种是好色,一种是十分好色" 不好色不是真的男人，楼上两位能不能说说自己是哪一种？呵呵。。。 -roshi(如是我闻); 2008-1-11 (#4179652@0)
            • 好色程度和在这里发贴数成正比. :) -super_mario(倒立中); 2008-1-11 (#4179687@0)
              • 哦。。。很少看到你在这里发贴子啊，呵呵。。。 -roshi(如是我闻); 2008-1-11 (#4179715@0)
        • 你好象认为我很狭隘，呵呵。。。 -roshi(如是我闻); 2008-1-11 (#4179671@0)
          • 他在说反话,这样你就不会有狭隘的感觉了. :) -super_mario(倒立中); 2008-1-11 (#4179683@0)
        • 感觉像岳不群说的那番话，呵呵。。。 -roshi(如是我闻); 2008-1-11 (#4179706@0)
    • pure friendship between male and female? mission impossible .. unless he's a gay or she's a lesbian -xiaokeai(notcute); 2008-1-11 (#4178980@0)
      • absolutely right -leavemealone(fly); 2008-1-11 (#4179095@0)
    • 此类关系能维持的前提条件: 一方或双方很丑, 或者两人地位条件相差悬殊. 已经不在同一世界的说了. -marcowang(Milan Milan); 2008-1-11 (#4179925@0)
      • 正好相反。需要双方都是大智慧。不过说了你也不会懂，所以俺就不说了。呵呵！ -int_arts(int_arts); 2008-1-11 (#4180238@0)
    • 最近此类话题泛滥成灾，视觉疲劳。能不能换点别的？ -major154(苏温婉); 2008-1-11 {164} (#4179947@0)
      各人的经历不同，观点自然不一样。没必要绝对吧。

      偶有纯粹的异性朋友，双方都不丑，没有悬殊，否则怎么成为朋友呢？关键是，是真正朋友就不会故意制造暧昧同床的机会独处。
      • friends can become good friends,good friends might become soulmates.有些人你可以肯定他/她的为人。也只能作朋友，不能认可其处世之道的，也有可能成为朋友。但是，真地做到密友/知己，能有几人呢？做了就做了，错了就错了，who cares? -bubblespa(云中漫步); 2008-1-11 (#4179995@0)
        • 这位老大，您究竟想说什么？偶怎么看不懂逻辑呢？ -major154(苏温婉); 2008-1-11 {233} (#4180026@0)
          朋友是分很多种，但是恐怕没有一个人能100％完全赞同另一个人的价值观，人生观，处世之道的。能够做到相互坦诚，相互理解就已经很不错了。

          别对异性朋友指望太多，人家最好的应该是给自己的伴侣。别要求得过分了，什么事都有个界限。这是偶的观点。
      • 没看懂吧. 异性朋友多数是泛泛不深交的朋友.这样的谁都有几个. 众人谈的是那种同床睡,排解感情烦恼的异性朋友. -dianchuan(xiaoming); 2008-1-11 (#4180087@0)
        • 同床睡？有病啊？ -major154(苏温婉); 2008-1-11 {60} (#4180095@0)
          深交的异性朋友当然也有，但是特地要同床睡来考验，吃饱了撑的！
      • 能. Let's 换点别的 -- impure friendship between male and female , please attach stories below ...... -win(秋天的菠菜); 2008-1-11 (#4180246@0)
        • 偶没有这样的故事。 -major154(苏温婉); 2008-1-11 (#4180258@0)
        • IMPURE? 每个人在有发展的时候都自认为PURE。到最后，一些当事人变了。。。 -bubblespa(云中漫步); 2008-1-12 (#4182215@0)
          • 哈哈，看来偶没有发展到世界大同的最终结局啊。 -major154(苏温婉); 2008-1-12 (#4182221@0)

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