本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛Dear, I totally understand your pain and your questions. And I know the reason behind all your questions partly because we share the similar personality. We are all straightforward and crystal frank to people we like. That's why we will easily get hurt if someone betrays us.
We all the time tell ourselves to treat people sincerely and seriously, giving them our hearts and our true thoughts. But for love, it's different story.
I admire you because you have the courage to love someone you appreciate, and willing to sacrifice yourself to make it happen. But love is two parties' responsibilities. If the other one disappears, how can you bury yourself in the affection without looking up the outside world? It's not worth at all.
Even if he gives you an answer finally, what kind of answer you want to get? No love? Playboy?Fun?Death? So what? The result is he left you forever. Period!
You are such a great lady! If you cannot forget him, then let it be. You might wake up at the midnight, remembering all the sweet past with him, it's OK. As long as you know the relationship is already over, you can do whatever to remember him. Don't get confused about memory and reality, always forgive but never forget, and avoid making the same mistake next time.
Find something else to do, such as volunteer, having party, eating, making food, etc, let this guy step out of your life slowly, no rush, but give back yourself a beautiful life. Couple months later, you will find you even couldn't remember his name. You have to prove to yourself and to him, you are such a successful woman even without HIM in your life!更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
We all the time tell ourselves to treat people sincerely and seriously, giving them our hearts and our true thoughts. But for love, it's different story.
I admire you because you have the courage to love someone you appreciate, and willing to sacrifice yourself to make it happen. But love is two parties' responsibilities. If the other one disappears, how can you bury yourself in the affection without looking up the outside world? It's not worth at all.
Even if he gives you an answer finally, what kind of answer you want to get? No love? Playboy?Fun?Death? So what? The result is he left you forever. Period!
You are such a great lady! If you cannot forget him, then let it be. You might wake up at the midnight, remembering all the sweet past with him, it's OK. As long as you know the relationship is already over, you can do whatever to remember him. Don't get confused about memory and reality, always forgive but never forget, and avoid making the same mistake next time.
Find something else to do, such as volunteer, having party, eating, making food, etc, let this guy step out of your life slowly, no rush, but give back yourself a beautiful life. Couple months later, you will find you even couldn't remember his name. You have to prove to yourself and to him, you are such a successful woman even without HIM in your life!更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net