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可怜的人！ -arfeifei(老顽童); 2007-11-3 (#4035845@0)

同龄人不好嘛? 找个老东西干啥用... -iceicebb(yo!); 2007-11-3 (#4035862@0)

他与他前妻会有一辈子的联系, 看你受得了受不了. 闪为上策. -iceicebb(yo!); 2007-11-3 (#4035876@0)

也不一定,看那个男人和前妻感情如何,我一个COUSIN和一个离婚带孩子的男人结婚几年了,孩子归男人在中国的前妻,一次性给了扶养孩子的费用,结婚到现在生活还好 -intentional(小松鼠不在家); 2007-11-3 (#4035884@0)

钱是一切嘛? 人都是有感情的啊. 那男的关系处理的好还可以, 不好的话接着离. -iceicebb(yo!); 2007-11-3 (#4035912@0)

钱当然不是一切了,但离婚了就还是有点离婚的样子,应该尽量把新成立的家放在首位吧,我的COUSIN婚前和男方有约,到底什么约我们不详细知道,但现在他们结婚好几年,日子过得还顺,估计不会有这样前妻的问题还要我COUSIN帮忙处理的情景出现了, -intentional(小松鼠不在家); 2007-11-3 {28} (#4035941@0)
我觉得没有规矩确实不能成方圆

把这些都记下来吧,当老了的时候,温习一下,感叹年轻时候的一往情深 -intentional(小松鼠不在家); 2007-11-3 (#4035864@0)

Human's brain is not a harddisk that you can format. -1010(nicetobeatyou); 2007-11-3 (#4035928@0)

哈哈, 差点把你当成牛哥...还纳闷怎么跑这溜达来了呢 -iceicebb(yo!); 2007-11-3 (#4035959@0)

if it doesn't kill you , it only makes you stronger. you will be fine -pingaling(天凉好个秋); 2007-11-3 (#4035986@0)

It seems you are so rational and mature. -happysmile(快乐小路); 2007-11-3 (#4036071@0)

每个人都会经历过这样的阶段，都疼过，很疼很疼，也许很快就忘了，也许一直埋藏在心里。但是生活总要继续，如果你还想生活下去，想快乐的生活下去，就只能变得坚强。每次都会更坚强一点，总有一天，勇者无敌。 -pingaling(天凉好个秋); 2007-11-3 (#4036294@0)

LOL...."勇者无敌"? 过了过了，女人么，无论多勇，最终还是有个打不过的"敌"爱你宠你才幸福滴。 -happysmile(快乐小路); 2007-11-4 (#4036340@0)

你不觉得烦啊?!让一老男人把你搞的成一怨妇,值吗? -let_it_be(letitbe); 2007-11-3 (#4035989@0)

it's not because of age, it's because she loves the man -pingaling(天凉好个秋); 2007-11-3 (#4036004@0)

建议LZ去听一下....张爱嘉的..."爱的代价"....:))) -serenade123(橘子红了); 2007-11-4 (#4036309@0)

刘若应的为爱痴狂 -pingaling(天凉好个秋); 2007-11-4 (#4036311@0)

奶茶的歌都好好听额～～～～～～～ -fattyfish(囧too too too tired:); 2007-11-4 (#4036328@0)

哦.... -serenade123(橘子红了); 2007-11-4 (#4036330@0)

你＂比她年轻，比她漂亮，比她温柔，比她有学问，比她会疼他＂，可是你没她成熟会来事呀！ -edcw(说着玩的); 2007-11-3 (#4036215@0)

哪个女人不觉得自己比别的女人漂亮温柔？除了年令是硬指标，其他都是胡扯。就算学历高，也不一定就有学问。 -whatifso8(高中生); 2007-11-3 (#4036225@0)

it's his words rather than mine. i didn't see his ex, but i know his ex always calls him and adk for help. -christina1982(christina); 2007-11-4 (#4036452@0)

most of the advice given here sounds too "Chinese". In North America divorce does not mean severance of all connections wtih one's ex-spouse. -the_dumb_one(dumb_and_dumber); 2007-11-3 {614} (#4036238@0)

the two parties are still tangled together with financial, parental and social responsibilities and obligations, etc. a decent man will cut off emotional ties with his ex-spouse. however, he cannot and should not cut off his financial/parental responsibilities and obligations, unless it has passed the time line of the divorce/separation agreement.
if you want a 100% man devoted man you should avoid a married man. a decent man will never cut his kids loose. therefore you will never have his complete attention. a man who can easily throw his kids away is probably not someone you want to deal with anyway.

Hardly can a self-centered understand the rule of life. In my point of view, she is not ready to keep a relationship. The lack of knowledge and experience may cause the failure. The one who is willingly to learn will eventually succeed. -foggyday(fall); 2007-11-3 (#4036274@0)

ohh, u two r toooooooo experienced for the marriage life. good for u -iceicebb(yo!); 2007-11-3 (#4036279@0)

Anyone can be experienced by learning from self, material, others or from all. -foggyday(fall); 2007-11-4 (#4036306@0)
the divorce rate is 50% in this part of the earth. do you think all the divorced people are lonely losers? they are probably living a healthier life than you are. -the_dumb_one(dumb_and_dumber); 2007-11-4 (#4036313@0)

:) i admit it. and i'll try to live healthy too. thx -iceicebb(yo!); 2007-11-4 (#4036369@0)

If you were more mature and more considerate, you would give him a hand to help his ex- as well. I would say he is a responsible man, the one who helps others can also help you in need. Are you a bit short of kindness? -foggyday(fall); 2007-11-3 (#4036239@0)

totally agree. -utube(你说我听); 2007-11-4 (#4036345@0)

送给你的..... -serenade123(橘子红了); 2007-11-4 {58} (#4036329@0)

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宽容一些不行吗？ -utube(你说我听); 2007-11-4 (#4036349@0)

怎么宽容？对其他可以，但对于他和他前妻，不行，爱情本身就是自私的。 -christina1982(christina); 2007-11-4 (#4036497@0)

看得出你很爱他 -summer.sxh(sunny rain); 2007-11-4 {458} (#4036680@0)
不敢妄加猜测你和他之间发生了什么。但从你斩钉截铁的回答“怎么宽容？对其他可以，但对于他和他前妻，不行，爱情本身就是自私的，”你是不是经常就这事与他闹别扭。觉得你要先搞清楚他是游离在你和前妻之间，还是把EX只当作朋友看待。如是前者，那他就不是善者，也不值得留恋，坚决弃他而去。如果是后者，那则说明他是一个值得珍惜的有情有义的好男人。
经常闹别扭除了把你爱的人推离你的身边，而没有别的任何作用。谁都希望两人在一起和和美美，如果天天闹别扭又有什么意思哪。Good luck!

呵呵 -book1022(哈哼嘿); 2007-11-4 {100} (#4036601@0)

活该！我们老男人就是要玩你们这些年轻的女人寻开心，谁让你们跟我们了？不是看上了我们的“成熟”吗？哈哈

生命不息，挖坑不止。 -o.n(没壳老五); 2007-11-4 (#4036641@0)

看到男友跟前妻耦断丝连的,心里不舒服可以理解.如果你真在乎他,多点忍耐,换种方式让他多接受你,多理解你,及把前妻从心里满满淡出去.吵闹只会让他疲倦和厌倦,及觉得你太坎坷,不肯给时间他. 有的人离了婚,不再回头了,可是对对方还有些感情--可能是同情,可能是亲情. -9604(眯眯眼); 2007-11-4 (#4036888@0)

结婚十年,人非草木,总有些感情的,哪能要他一下子全放下呢.看来他是个不错的男人,所以即使离了婚,他前妻可能还想跟他复合呢.你这么一放手,就中了她的计了. 如果是他主动放下的感情,总有原因令他坚决放弃前妻.他不一定会跟她复合的. -9604(眯眯眼); 2007-11-4 (#4036897@0)

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