the two parties are still tangled together with financial, parental and social responsibilities and obligations, etc. a decent man will cut off emotional ties with his ex-spouse. however, he cannot and should not cut off his financial/parental responsibilities and obligations, unless it has passed the time line of the divorce/separation agreement.
if you want a 100% man devoted man you should avoid a married man. a decent man will never cut his kids loose. therefore you will never have his complete attention. a man who can easily throw his kids away is probably not someone you want to deal with anyway.
if you want a 100% man devoted man you should avoid a married man. a decent man will never cut his kids loose. therefore you will never have his complete attention. a man who can easily throw his kids away is probably not someone you want to deal with anyway.