I have a client, a 93 years old Jewish lady, she is around 8 years older than her husband. They are married happily. Her husband passed away 2 years ago but this lady is still healthy and very independent. She used to look after the husband. Actually women can live longer than men and more healthier than men. So if get an older husband, the chances are you can be a care giver when the husband becomes elderly. I find many Chinese men, they don't like doing exercise, so after certain age, let's say over 35, their energy level declines. However, most of Chinese men like pursuing younger women. I'm concerned how their energy level can match the women who are younger than them. The opposite thing is most of western people, they don't care much about age. I have some friends who are white guys, they claim that's fine for them if their girfriends are older than them, within 10 years is acceptable.
So enjoying the life and enjoying the love are the most important thing.
Good luck.
So enjoying the life and enjoying the love are the most important thing.
Good luck.