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这种桃花运并不是没人都有的。。。好好珍惜吧。。。:)))

I have a client, a 93 years old Jewish lady, she is around 8 years older than her husband. They are married happily. Her husband passed away 2 years ago but this lady is still healthy and very independent. She used to look after the husband. Actually women can live longer than men and more healthier than men. So if get an older husband, the chances are you can be a care giver when the husband becomes elderly. I find many Chinese men, they don't like doing exercise, so after certain age, let's say over 35, their energy level declines. However, most of Chinese men like pursuing younger women. I'm concerned how their energy level can match the women who are younger than them. The opposite thing is most of western people, they don't care much about age. I have some friends who are white guys, they claim that's fine for them if their girfriends are older than them, within 10 years is acceptable.
So enjoying the life and enjoying the love are the most important thing.
Good luck.

fo hey 啊~~~~~~~~~~~

Man, all of them, is a boy who always tries to find the woman like the mama can take care of them but they try to show up like powerful guy. Woman should know what you are looking for. It is very easy for woman to accept young man at beginning because they try want to be mama, and the bottom line --- woman love rich guy

我记得当初他追我时，我觉得绝对没有这种可能性，因为我比他大5.5岁。所以我选择了另外一个与自己年龄相当的人。但是有爱没有，才是生活的试金石。我最终与自己当初选择的人分手了。现在我们真的在一起了，我才知道如果能跟自己喜欢的人或者真正喜欢自己的人在一起，可以放心地在一个人那里撒娇，耍赖，是多么好的一件事。而你并不是每天都能遇到这样的人的。

我自己觉得，感情最重要，其他外在条件，都是三姑六婆喜欢议论的，尽可以不去理。有一个真正爱你的人，你的生命才能放出光芒！

我们搞 技术的头头，他老婆比他大10岁呢，他当年可是甩了那个年轻漂亮粘着他（或说热恋他？） 的妹妹， 把这个大他10岁的‘老女人’追到手，并结了婚。我们这个师母不是另人惊艳型，但看着很舒服， 她也没啥家庭背景，但是自各儿把生活打点的头头是道。反正他们一晃已经结婚也10年了，看起来仍很恩爱，而且他还是很帅，仍然很多年轻妹妹追呢。男方现近40，女的奔50了。我们作为周围的人也没觉得咋地，大家生活都这么忙，真不太去在意。要不是你在问，我都忘了这回事了。唯一羡慕的就是这个师母平时只需要打打零工，因为师傅赚的很多。喔，还有两人没孩子。

鼓励支持的，反对不看好的，都很有道理。
和他在一起的日子很快乐，我不知道今后会怎么样，但我会珍惜和他在一起的每一天，我知道这样的男生在我的生命中不会再有。
如果有那么一天我会放手的，因为爱是牵手也是放手。