本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛泄气，以后不跟别人谈爱，朋友，家庭和性的事情了。一说我就成了衣冠禽兽了。以后一定要忍，让人只见衣冠不见禽兽。

我（me) 和这个（Lisa在国内)是普通朋友。


5/24/2007 10:21:54 AM Lisa me 忙吗？
5/24/2007 10:22:24 AM me Lisa it is ok.
5/24/2007 10:23:07 AM Lisa me 能聊会吗？
5/24/2007 10:23:27 AM me Lisa a little bit, in English, i am in office.
5/24/2007 10:24:47 AM Lisa me 问你个问题，是不是离了婚的男人都不想结婚了？
5/24/2007 10:24:53 AM Lisa me 不是
5/24/2007 10:25:16 AM me Lisa not all.
5/24/2007 10:25:25 AM Lisa me 大部分？
5/24/2007 10:25:30 AM me Lisa not sure,
5/24/2007 10:25:41 AM me Lisa u r fall in love with some one?
5/24/2007 10:25:43 AM Lisa me 或说不愿意结婚了？
5/24/2007 10:25:58 AM me Lisa i don't think so.
5/24/2007 10:26:16 AM me Lisa unless hurt is too much compare to the desire.
5/24/2007 10:27:09 AM Lisa me 我喜欢上一个人，可他不想结婚
5/24/2007 10:27:31 AM me Lisa he likes you ?
5/24/2007 10:28:07 AM Lisa me 他说喜欢我，但是十天前的事
5/24/2007 10:28:34 AM me Lisa so, only like him but not love him, find your love from other people.
5/24/2007 10:29:14 AM Lisa me 喜欢他不爱他？
5/24/2007 10:29:42 AM me Lisa as friend may be with sex..... but not marriage, if you can accept that.
5/24/2007 10:30:41 AM Lisa me 天呀，你们都什末想法？他可能就是你这种想法，为啥？
5/24/2007 10:31:03 AM Lisa me 朋友怎末可以发生性？
5/24/2007 10:31:29 AM Lisa me 既然愿意发生为啥不能结婚？
5/24/2007 10:32:22 AM me Lisa if he don't want the marriage, then remove marriage from your relatioship. and find out want you can have in common. find what you can n't have from other people. sometimes love/sex/like/friendship can't be splited, sometime it doesn, depend on who you are.
5/24/2007 10:32:47 AM me Lisa i just talking things in general. female may not like it.
5/24/2007 10:35:34 AM Lisa me 男人是不是都这想法？
5/24/2007 10:36:07 AM me Lisa BS me right? I don't know others' idea.
5/24/2007 10:37:01 AM Lisa me 他也离过婚，说他可能不能胜任做老公，所以现在没想过要结婚，但可能会找女朋友
5/24/2007 10:37:28 AM me Lisa what I am saying is your are looking for what you need, so just go for it, if this guy doesn't work, find antoher guy.
5/24/2007 10:39:19 AM me Lisa if u can wait, that's fine, if u are not sure how long u can't wait, .....
5/24/2007 10:41:46 AM me Lisa have u married before?
5/24/2007 10:49:40 AM Lisa me 刚刚走开了，当然没有
5/24/2007 10:51:01 AM me Lisa marriage means responsiblity, and when you are hurted in the marriage, u cannot just leave, that's the liability of marriage. he is not ready for it.
5/24/2007 10:51:51 AM Lisa me 那干吗还要接触女人？
5/24/2007 10:59:15 AM me Lisa like i said, he may need friendship and more....
5/24/2007 10:59:34 AM me Lisa he is not full capable for marriage.
5/24/2007 11:00:20 AM Lisa me 哦，看来我没遇对人
5/24/2007 11:00:35 AM Lisa me 但他还不想我不理他
5/24/2007 11:00:46 AM Lisa me 自私
5/24/2007 11:00:50 AM me Lisa if no sex no marriage what's the difference between famale friend and male friends? the only answer is the personalality difference between famale and male.
5/24/2007 11:01:27 AM me Lisa what I say may not correct/true. you have your own brain, make up you decision.
5/24/2007 11:02:19 AM me Lisa you may try to recover him, or find another person, it is your decision
5/24/2007 11:04:10 AM me Lisa you may try to recover him, or find another person, it is your decision
5/24/2007 11:05:59 AM Lisa me 可他几乎每天会给我打电话，真不知啥意思？
5/24/2007 11:06:22 AM me Lisa i am male,
5/24/2007 11:06:27 AM Lisa me 而且每次都不想挂电话
5/24/2007 11:06:51 AM me Lisa my suggestion may not fit for you.
5/24/2007 11:07:15 AM Lisa me 但我不知他到底啥想法
5/24/2007 11:07:21 AM me Lisa so, i don't say anything on your real practice.
5/24/2007 11:07:52 AM Lisa me 不想怎样，为啥又不放弃我？
5/24/2007 11:08:45 AM me Lisa xx is really meaningful to a male like a kiss is meaningful to female.
5/24/2007 11:09:31 AM me Lisa but people shouldn't get lost just because of a kiss or a xx.
5/24/2007 11:10:28 AM Lisa me 搞不懂
5/24/2007 11:11:31 AM me Lisa i understand it is hard. u don't have experience. somepeople loss their purity when they are experienced.
5/24/2007 11:15:56 AM Lisa me 头大，男人怎末能这样随便？
5/24/2007 11:16:36 AM me Lisa me or him? don't get lost.
5/24/2007 11:16:51 AM Lisa me 都是吧？
5/24/2007 11:17:09 AM me Lisa the world won't change just because I expressed my opinion.
5/24/2007 11:17:29 AM Lisa me 呵呵
5/24/2007 11:17:42 AM Lisa me 不过还是谢谢你
5/24/2007 11:17:54 AM Lisa me 我都快郁闷死了
5/24/2007 11:18:14 AM me Lisa everything has cost.
5/24/2007 11:18:34 AM Lisa me 真想和你说说话，要知道你的英文表达和我的英文理解都有偏差，呵呵
5/24/2007 11:22:00 AM me Lisa u may need moeny, time, your life, your viginity(chu nv) to get some fun, love, self esteem. depend on how you operate, most of things are exchangable, depend on how u operate it, in this aspect, don't take sex too serious, there are things more serious than have sex. for example marriage and responsibility of family.
5/24/2007 11:23:45 AM Lisa me 一个可以随意发生性的女人你敢要？
5/24/2007 11:24:56 AM me Lisa depend on for just have sex or for reach a nother level through it.
5/24/2007 11:25:43 AM me Lisa the cost might be ugly personality or truthful mind.
5/24/2007 11:25:47 AM Lisa me 啥意思？没看懂
5/24/2007 11:27:34 AM me Lisa ok, if what I ask is only xx, and the price is ok, i may take it when i really need it.
5/24/2007 11:28:39 AM Lisa me 哦
5/24/2007 11:30:07 AM me Lisa the barrier is if I can make up my mind make myself don't feel guilty, can still be calm down face the life after that.
5/24/2007 11:30:37 AM Lisa me 呵呵
5/24/2007 11:30:49 AM Lisa me 男人呀，怪物
5/24/2007 11:30:59 AM Lisa me 不可理解
5/24/2007 11:31:05 AM Lisa me 不可理喻
5/24/2007 11:31:32 AM me Lisa our thinking are not at the same level. I'd better talk less, to keep your purity.
5/24/2007 11:32:03 AM Lisa me 切，好像跟老头似的
5/24/2007 11:32:19 AM me Lisa do u DISCRIMINATE people eat LiuLan?
5/24/2007 11:32:40 AM Lisa me 等你下班我们通话吧，打字说不清楚
5/24/2007 11:33:06 AM me Lisa we'd better talk less since we don't respect each other.
5/24/2007 11:33:06 AM Lisa me 为啥要歧视？
5/24/2007 11:33:41 AM Lisa me 我没有不尊重你呀？
5/24/2007 11:33:54 AM Lisa me 你误会了吧？
5/24/2007 11:34:53 AM me Lisa ok, I have difficulty to input chinese, let's take a break here.
5/24/2007 11:35:32 AM Lisa me 好吧，你下了班再聊:)
5/24/2007 11:35:37 AM me Lisa ok
5/24/2007 11:35:43 AM Lisa me :)
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