DUMP her. No question about it.
-nicetomeetyou(牛哥);
2007-3-27(#3580567@0)
一定吗?Can I ask why?
-forgetar(oncear);
2007-3-27(#3580571@0)
Don't even know that is the hazard for everyone's health, not to mention future baby and kid. Irresponsible woman.
-nicetomeetyou(牛哥);
2007-3-27(#3580581@0)
Smoking is definitely a bad habbit. But what about drinking? I'm not talking *alcoholic * type of drinking.
-forgetar(oncear);
2007-3-27(#3580592@0)
Also, I'm asking about the person herself - I mean regardless the baby plan.
-forgetar(oncear);
2007-3-27(#3580600@0)
if she is not a chain-smoker and substance-abuser, supposed to be OK. Nobody is perfect.
-hurray(hurray);
2007-3-27(#3580646@0)
I am not your fan any more. Sigh.
-major154(阿苏-人淡如菊);
2007-3-27(#3580676@0)
I may respect someone in this forum, but I am not a fan of anybody. :-)....
-kaia(清渣工);
2007-3-27(#3580774@0)
Just joking, man.
-major154(阿苏-人淡如菊);
2007-3-28(#3582246@0)
fan?? this is virtual world.
-backtohome(home);
2007-3-27(#3580786@0)
I kinda agree you on this point.
-backtohome(home);
2007-3-27(#3580785@0)
it is very rare among Chinese female. I don't like that type.
-lawrencer(brian);
2007-3-27(#3580751@0)
a lady who's drinking and smoking is typed as "irresponsible", while men having the same habits are ok to the majority, or at least won't be typed the same way? sigh.
-uptowngirl(afternoon tea);
2007-3-27{142}(#3580797@0)
A bunch of my female colleagues do smoke during every office break but it doesn't stop them being good mothers and great people to work with.
To me, no smoking or alcoholic habit is tolerable, no matter that is a man or woman.
-nicetomeetyou(牛哥);
2007-3-27(#3580818@0)
that's depend on what you expect from her: borough a cigrate, share a bed room for a night, or share life span time together. U can't expect other people to cooperate without changing yourself a little bit.
-647i(流浪的步行万里);
2007-3-28(#3581850@0)
I don't drink as well as smoke. But before somebody told me that sometimes people under a huge pressure they might do so. However, personally as an opinion, I don't think women who smoke and drink a lot is a good thing. 还是劝你的朋友戒了吧!
-chu.ge(楚格);
2007-3-28(#3582531@0)
A woman who is smoking and drinking, is selfish, not health-concious, low self-esteem, having potential physiological and physical problem, and at least, dangerous to other people's health who are close to her.
-nicetomeetyou(牛哥);
2007-3-28(#3582766@0)