Single mothes with a bunch of kids are cuter. Look at them. -bobyface(拿命来) @安省华人论坛:安省枫下论坛 The Rolia Forum of Ontario

枫下佳缘 / 情爱悠悠 / 随便上来问问。。。大家对抽烟喝酒的不太年轻的单身女性怎么看。 -forgetar(oncear); 2007-3-27 (#3580557@0)

Don't even know that is the hazard for everyone's health, not to mention future baby and kid. Irresponsible woman. -nicetomeetyou(牛哥); 2007-3-27 (#3580581@0)

Smoking is definitely a bad habbit. But what about drinking? I'm not talking *alcoholic * type of drinking. -forgetar(oncear); 2007-3-27 (#3580592@0)
Also, I'm asking about the person herself - I mean regardless the baby plan. -forgetar(oncear); 2007-3-27 (#3580600@0)

if she is not a chain-smoker and substance-abuser, supposed to be OK. Nobody is perfect. -hurray(hurray); 2007-3-27 (#3580646@0)

I may respect someone in this forum, but I am not a fan of anybody. :-).... -kaia(清渣工); 2007-3-27 (#3580774@0)

it is very rare among Chinese female. I don't like that type. -lawrencer(brian); 2007-3-27 (#3580751@0)

a lady who's drinking and smoking is typed as "irresponsible", while men having the same habits are ok to the majority, or at least won't be typed the same way? sigh. -uptowngirl(afternoon tea); 2007-3-27 {142} (#3580797@0)
A bunch of my female colleagues do smoke during every office break but it doesn't stop them being good mothers and great people to work with.

To me, no smoking or alcoholic habit is tolerable, no matter that is a man or woman. -nicetomeetyou(牛哥); 2007-3-27 (#3580818@0)

Yeah, you're damn right. Smoking makes ladies cool. See the link. -lookaround(没事儿看看); 2007-3-27 (#3580849@0)

Single mothes with a bunch of kids are cuter. Look at them. -bobyface(拿命来); 2007-3-28 {56} (#3580869@0)

oh, single mother, and 4 kids. where the kids come from? I mean the smallest one. -647i(流浪的步行万里); 2007-3-28 (#3580883@0)

lol -brighteyes(海的女儿); 2007-3-28 (#3581000@0)
that's depend on what you expect from her: borough a cigrate, share a bed room for a night, or share life span time together. U can't expect other people to cooperate without changing yourself a little bit. -647i(流浪的步行万里); 2007-3-28 (#3581850@0)

对这样的女人还是离远点好。 -loneliman(孤独人); 2007-3-28 (#3582273@0)
不年轻, 就别再酒啊, 烟啊. 那样不好. 可能会让人误解. 不过, 只要人不坏, 时间长了, 别人会看到你的好的地方的. 还是把那两样戒了吧. -warmbedtonight(来吧...); 2007-3-28 (#3582285@0)
I don't drink as well as smoke. But before somebody told me that sometimes people under a huge pressure they might do so. However, personally as an opinion, I don't think women who smoke and drink a lot is a good thing. 还是劝你的朋友戒了吧! -chu.ge(楚格); 2007-3-28 (#3582531@0)
sigh, 看来抽烟和喝酒很容易和“坏女人”等同起来 -forgetar(oncear); 2007-3-28 (#3582712@0)

A woman who is smoking and drinking, is selfish, not health-concious, low self-esteem, having potential physiological and physical problem, and at least, dangerous to other people's health who are close to her. -nicetomeetyou(牛哥); 2007-3-28 (#3582766@0)

hehe,这大帽子扣的。我只是说抽烟和喝酒，我可并没有说烟不离手，天天喝个烂醉，或者跟别人距离很近的时候不顾别人感受喷云吐雾那种。你的结论里假想成分太多 -forgetar(oncear); 2007-3-28 (#3582822@0)

don't be too serious. :-) I am talking about the worst senario, which doesn't hurt to be leveraged. -nicetomeetyou(牛哥); 2007-3-28 (#3582834@0)

中国女人抽烟喝酒的很少见，这种女人太有个性，男人一般不会喜欢，因为他会觉得驾驭不了。中国男人一般都不能容忍比较强势的女人，其实说穿了也许和抽烟喝酒本身无关。 -velvetblue(wronganswer); 2007-3-28 (#3582839@0)

u just have a wrong id -nuanxin(暖心); 2007-3-29 {17} (#3583469@0)
i meant u r right

在加拿大能够抽得起烟，喜欢去酒吧喝点酒的，不管是男是女，一定有点经济实力的。 -littlewoods(littlewoods); 2007-3-29 (#3583483@0)

你对...."一定有点经济实力的".....认识太肤浅了吧。。。:)))) -serenade123(橘子红了); 2007-3-29 (#3583677@0)

抽烟喝酒应该不能作为判断女人好坏的主要标准，就好像有的女人喜欢浓妆，有的喜欢淡妆，各有所好。看你喜欢那种了 -iamjeff(havefun); 2007-3-29 (#3583495@0)
喝点酒是好事呀，对身体有益处。抽烟，戒吧。 -luckygrass06(㊣三叶草); 2007-3-29 (#3583497@0)
如果她抽烟喝酒的姿态不错看, 我也会好好欣赏一下, 甚至想办法搭讪一两句哩！ : P -righttoleft(noname); 2007-3-29 (#3583643@0)
怎么看? surely by eyes. but not this way -win(秋天的菠菜); 2007-3-29 (#3583684@0)
远离....(感觉抽烟的女人说话声音都很难听，很粗，要不就莎哑) -serenade123(橘子红了); 2007-3-29 (#3583692@0)

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