It's absolutely true that some women are actually the criminals of domestic violence, but they took the advantage from the law. They pretended to be victims and then their husbands suffered from both of the violence and the law.
My "wife" once hit me hard. However, I was expelled from home by the police at that night. Fortunately I left my "wife" before more domestic violence could happen, although I did not leave my dangerous "wife" until she wanted to leave me too.
The lesson is that the violence must be stopped before you could be sent to jail, before your children lost their Dad and before you lost everything.
Those women are dangerous to their husbands, but not necessarily dangerous to their children. Leaving from those women will protect everybody, your children, yourself and even those women themselves too (they committed less crimes, they got less chance to be in jail too).
My "wife" once hit me hard. However, I was expelled from home by the police at that night. Fortunately I left my "wife" before more domestic violence could happen, although I did not leave my dangerous "wife" until she wanted to leave me too.
The lesson is that the violence must be stopped before you could be sent to jail, before your children lost their Dad and before you lost everything.
Those women are dangerous to their husbands, but not necessarily dangerous to their children. Leaving from those women will protect everybody, your children, yourself and even those women themselves too (they committed less crimes, they got less chance to be in jail too).