你们只认识一个月,就认为这是爱情,就think of 谈婚论嫁, may be too quick, and too soon.
Maybe you should take one big step back, just consider there is chemistry and attraction between you two, just observe more, just be patient with yourself and him, you will eventually find out what you really want, and what is bearable/unbearable to you.
As far as changing the others, motivation to change should come from within, not the push from the outside. You should trust that he is able to make his own decision, his own commitment when he is ready. Of course you do have every single right to call for a quit if you could not stand his "problem" or the pace he is "correcting" his problem, at any time.
Maybe you should take one big step back, just consider there is chemistry and attraction between you two, just observe more, just be patient with yourself and him, you will eventually find out what you really want, and what is bearable/unbearable to you.
As far as changing the others, motivation to change should come from within, not the push from the outside. You should trust that he is able to make his own decision, his own commitment when he is ready. Of course you do have every single right to call for a quit if you could not stand his "problem" or the pace he is "correcting" his problem, at any time.